GIVING FREELY
We will make every personal sacrifice necessary to insure the unity of
Alcoholics Anonymous. We will do this because we have learned to
love God and one another.
A.A. COMES OF AGE, p. 234
To be self-supporting through my own contributions was never a
strong characteristic during my days as a practicing alcoholic. The
giving of time or money always demanded a price tag.
As a newcomer I was told "we have to give it away in order to keep
it." As I began to adopt the principals of Alcoholics Anonymous in my
life, I soon found it was a privilege to give to the Fellowship as an
expression of the gratitude felt in my heart. My love of God and of
others became the motivating factor in my life, with no thought of
return. I realize now that giving freely is God's way of expressing
Himself
through me.
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
To paraphrase the psalm: "We alcoholics declare the power of liquor
and drunkenness showeth its handiwork. Day unto day uttereth
hangovers and night unto night showeth suffering. The law of A.A. is
perfect, converting the drunk. The testimony of A.A. is sure, making
wise the simple. The statutes of A.A. are right, rejoicing the heart.
The program of A.A. is pure, enlightening the eyes. The fear of the
first drink is clean, enduring forever." Have I any doubt about the
power of liquor?
Meditation For The Day
"Walk humbly with thy Lord." Walking with God means practicing the
presence of God in your daily affairs. It means asking God for
strength to face each new day. It means turning to Him often during
the day in prayer for yourself and for other people. It means thanking
Him at night for the blessings you have received during the day.
Nothing can seriously upset you if you are "walking with God." You
can believe that He is beside you in spirit, to help you and to guide
you
on your way.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may try to walk humbly with God. I pray that I may turn
to Him often as to a close friend.
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As Bill Sees It
Reason--a
Bridge to Faith, p. 208
We were squarely confronted with the question of faith. We
couldn't
duck the issue. Some of us had already walked along the bridge of
reason toward the desired shore of faith, where friendly hands
stretched out in welcome. We were grateful that reason had brought
us so far. Perhaps we had been relying too heavily on reason that
last
mile, and we did not like to lose our support.
Yet, without knowing it, had we not been brought to where we stood
by a certain kind of faith? For did we not believe in our
own
reasoning? Did we not have confidence in our ability to
think? What
was that but a sort of faith? Yes, we had been faithful to the
god of
reason. So, in one way or another, we discovered that faith had
been
involved all the time!
Alcoholics Anonymous, pp. 53-54
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Walk In Dry Places
No tap dancing around problems.
Inventory
Our program calls for a "searching and fearless" moral inventory, not
only in the beginning, but as we continue to follow our new way of
life.
What this means is complete honesty about who and what we really are.
We should not tap-dance around our problems in order to evade
responsibility. This willnot bring the cleansing we need for real sober
living. We need deep changes, not mere surface ones.
Difficult as it is to be fully honest, it's made easier when we remind
ourselves that it's all for our own recovery. We benefit in proportion
to the amount of honesty we bring to our inventory. If it's searching
and fearless, the results will be far-reaching and substantial.
I will not shirk from facing the truth about myself as I go through the
day. What I need for self-improvement will be revealed to me.
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Keep It Simple
To enjoy freedom,
we have to con troll ourselves. Virginia Woolf
Freedom is a funny thing, in a way, it makes life harder. We are free
to do what we want but every choice makes a difference in our lives.
Some choices make us happy and some bring trouble.
We can make good choices. We can control our actions. We can start by
having control in little ways: follow the law, pay the rent, and make
the bed every day. These choices put order in our lives. Eat right,
exercise, and get enough sleep. These choices make us strong enough to
live each day to the fullest.
These kinds of choices set us free.
Prayer for the day: Higher Power, I was drinking and drugging. I
couldn't enjoy my freedom. I had no control over the little things in
my life. Help me stay sober today.
Action for the day: Today, I'll be grateful for having some
control. I will list five way I am more free because I can control my
actions.
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Each Day a New Beginning
To keep a lamp burning we have to keep putting oil in it.
--Mother Teresa
Our spiritual nature must be nurtured. Prayer and meditation lovingly
kindle the flame that guides us from within. Because we're human, we
often let the flame flicker and perhaps go out. And then we sense the
dreaded aloneness. Fortunately, some time away, perhaps even a few
moments in quiet communion with God, rekindles the flame.
For most of us, the flame burned low, or not at all, for many years.
The flickering we may feel today, or tomorrow, or felt yesterday, will
not last, so we may put away our fears. We can listen to the voice of
our higher power in others. We can listen, too, as we carry the
message. Prayer surrounds us every moment. We can fuel our inner flame
with the messages received from others. We can let our spirit spring
forth, let it warm our hearts and the hearts of others.
We each have a friend whose flame may be flickering today. I will help
her and thus myself. A steady flame can rekindle one that's flickering.
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
Chapter
7 - WORKING WITH OTHERS
Unless your friend wants to talk further about himself, do not wear out
your welcome. Give him a chance to think it over. If you do stay, let
him steer the conversation in any direction he like. Sometimes a new
man is anxious to proceed at once, and you may be tempted to let him do
so. This is sometimes a mistake. If he has trouble later, he is likely
to say you rushed him. You will be most successful with alcoholics if
you do not exhibit any passion for crusade or reform. Never talk down
to an alcoholic from any moral or spiritual hilltop; simply lay out the
kit of spiritual tools for his inspection. Show him how they worked
with you. Offer him friendship and fellowship. Tell him that if he
wants to get well you will do anything to help.
p. 95
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition Stories
ACCEPTANCE WAS THE ANSWER
- The physician wasn't hooked, he thought--he just prescribed drugs
medically indicated for his many ailments. Acceptance was his key
to liberation.
After nine days of tests at Mayo, I
was put in the locked ward--of all places! That's when that steel
door slammed shut, and Max was the one who went home. I didn't
like being on the nut ward, and I particularly didn't like being forced
to ice cookies on Christmas Eve. So I raised enough fuss that
they finally agreed to let me sign out, against medical advice.
Max accepted responsibility for me after I had promised never to drink
again, never to take another pill, never to swear again, and never to
talk to girls again. We got on the plane and immediately had a
big fight over whether I'd drink the free booze. Max won; I
didn't drink it. But by God, I wouldn't talk or eat either!
And that was how Max and I and our two daughters spent Christmas Day,
eight years ago.
p. 412
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Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Tradition
Three - "The only requirement for A.A. membership is a desire to stop
drinking."
Quite a while later, Ed got a sales job which took him out of town. At
the end of a few days, the news came in. He'd sent a telegram for
money, and everybody knew what that meant! Then he got on the phone. In
those days, we'd go anywhere on a Twelfth Step job, no matter how
unpromising. But this time nobody stirred. "Leave him alone! Let him
try it by himself for once; maybe he'll learn a lesson!"
p. 144
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Today,
I
will
focus
on
practicing
one recovery behavior on one of my
issues, trusting that this practice will move me forward. I will
remember that acceptance, gratitude, and detachment are a good
place to begin.
--Melody Beattie
"God gives us abundance in all things, that we might use it on behalf of
the healing of the world."
--Marianne Williamson
"We find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among
those who don't."
--Frank A. Clark
"The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I
can change."
--Carl Rogers
He that gives should never remember, he that receives should never
forget.
--Talmud
"With every prayer and every thought of love, we release the light
that will cast out darkness. One light alone seems small and weak, but
no one's light is ever alone, for all our lights are part of God."
--Marianne Williamson
All time spent angry is time lost being happy.
-- Mexican Proverb
Progress comes from caring more about what needs to be done than
about who gets the credit.
--Dorothy Height
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
IDEAS
"Ideas shape the course of history."
--John Maynard Keynes
I get so excited about my sobriety because it has given me ideas.
Today I can think, ponder and create. God is such a big idea today --
every thing is involved.
For years I had made God a prisoner of the Church or an idea in
history, but in my sobriety I have discovered Him in art, poetry, music
and literature. God is found in friendship, advice, sharing and
sexuality. God is forcibly experienced in nature, sunsets, animals and
the sea.
God can be found through my failures. He is perceived in suffering,
loneliness and resentments. The acknowledgment of my disease has
brought me closer to God as I understand Him.
My idea of God is alive and it makes me want to live.
May my ideas and thoughts always reflect Your beauty.
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"Consider
it
pure
joy,
my
brothers,
whenever you face trials of many kinds,
because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance.
Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and
complete, not lacking anything."
James 1:2-4
"You have made known to me the path of life; you will fill me with
joy in your presence, with eternal pleasures at your right hand."
Psalms 16:11
"My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my
heart and my portion forever."
Psalm 73:26
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Daily Inspiration
Talents are not just artistic. They include the
talent for compassion, care and for bringing harmony to our
environment. Lord, help me to say the right words when what I say can
make a helpful difference.
If we look to God for guidance, we will not be weighed down by the
circumstances of our life. Lord, free me from the worries that come to
distract me and keep me focused on that which is important.
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NA Just For Today
We Do Recover
"After coming to NA, we found
ourselves among a very special group of people who have suffered like
us and found recovery. In their experiences, freely shared, we found
hope for ourselves. If the program worked for them, it would work for
us."
Basic Text, p.10
A newcomer walks into his or her first
meeting, shaking and confused. People are milling about. Refreshments
and literature are set out. The meeting starts after everyone has
drifted over to their chairs and settled themselves in. After taking a
bewildered glance at the odd assortment of folks in the room, the
newcomer asks, "Why should I bet my life on this group? After all,
they're just a bunch of addicts like me."
Though it may be true that not many of
our members had much going for us when we got here, the newcomer soon
learns that the way we are living today is what counts. Our meetings
are filled with addicts whose lives have turned completely around.
Against all odds, we are recovering. The newcomer can relate to where
we've been and draw hope from where we are now. Today, every one of us
has the opportunity to recover.
Yes, we can safely entrust our lives
to our Higher Power and to Narcotics Anonymous. So long as we work the
program, the payoff is certain: freedom from active addiction and a
better way of life.
Just for today: The recovery I've
found in Narcotics Anonymous is a sure thing. By basing my life on it,
I know I will grow.
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You are reading from the book Today's Gift.
In summer I am very glad
We children are so small,
For we can see a thousand things
That men can't see at all.
--Laurence Alma-Tadema
Out behind the house a little boy is
turning over stepping-stones, which form the sidewalk. Underneath these
stones he has discovered many different kinds of worms and bugs. They
wiggle this way and that when their cover is removed. He is only four,
but he is the only one in the family who has made this discovery.
In a child's eyes there are many
wonderful things, which escape the attention of the adult world. In
order to see them, we must often take the time to let those younger
than us show the way. Even though we may have lost our own childlike
view of the world, others can guide us and thereby enrich our lives. We
have much to teach and share with each other, regardless of our ages.
What can I learn from one younger than
me today?
You are reading from the book
Touchstones.
You cannot get it by taking thought;
You cannot seek it by not taking thought. --Zenrin poem
We are transported into unfamiliar
worlds in this program by ideas that sometimes confound our mind. In
the spiritual realms we learn things we didn't learn anywhere else, and
gradually they bring us peace. We can decide with our will to follow a
spiritual direction, to turn our life and will over to the care of our
God. We cannot control what God will do with them. When we learn that
part of our problem was trying too hard, being too self sufficient, or
being too controlling, our old ways tell us to try hard to control
that. But then we are only doing more of the same old thing. We learn
that after making our decision, our Higher Power takes over. Now it is
possible to be released from our own trying, to move beyond our own
efforts by falling into the caring hand of God.
I must give this program first
priority in my life, remembering my spiritual progress comes as a gift,
not as an achievement.
You are reading from the book Each Day
a New Beginning.
To keep a lamp burning we have to keep
putting oil in it. --Mother Teresa
Our spiritual nature must be nurtured.
Prayer and meditation lovingly kindle the flame that guides us from
within. Because we're human, we often let the flame flicker and perhaps
go out. And then we sense the dreaded aloneness. Fortunately, some time
away, perhaps even a few moments in quiet communion with God, rekindles
the flame.
For most of us, the flame burned low,
or not at all, for many years. The flickering we may feel today, or
tomorrow, or felt yesterday, will not last, so we may put away our
fears. We can listen to the voice of our higher power in others. We can
listen, too, as we carry the message. Prayer surrounds us every moment.
We can fuel our inner flame with the messages received from others. We
can let our spirit spring forth, let it warm our hearts and the hearts
of others.
We each have a friend whose flame may
be flickering today. I will help her and thus myself. A steady flame
can rekindle one that's flickering.
You are reading from the book The
Language of Letting Go.
Letting Go
Stop trying so hard to control things.
It is not our job to control people, outcomes, circumstances, and life.
Maybe in the past we couldn't trust and let things happen. But we can
now. The way life is unfolding is good. Let it unfold.
Stop trying so hard to do better, be
better, and be more. Who we are and the way we do things is good enough
for today.
Who we were and the way we did things
yesterday was good enough for that day.
Ease up on ourselves. Let go. Stop
trying so hard.
Today, I will let go. I will stop
trying to control everything. I will stop trying to make myself be and
do better, and I will let myself be.
Today I release all thoughts and
feelings that cause me harm. I am learning to put all fears aside and
come from the place of truth and love. The rewards of this freedom are
far greater than the negative results of my fear. --Ruth Fishel
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Journey To The Heart
Be Vulnerable with Yourself
As we go through our days, we meet
many people. We learn it’s safe to be vulnerable with some, not so safe
or wise to be vulnerable with others. But there is one person it’s
always safe to be vulnerable with. Yourself.
Share your deepest secrets with
yourself. Whether you rise early in the morning and write your thoughts
in a journal or take a few moments throughout the day to bring your
deepest secrets to consciousness, you need to be clear, straight, and
honest with yourself. Harboring secrets, ducking, dodging, and hiding
from the truth will slow you down. It will block the pathway to your
heart. It can even stop you cold if you get enough secrets tucked away.
Take time each day to recognize what
you think, what you feel. You don’t have to act. The sheer acts of
recognition, honesty, and acceptance are all that are necessary to keep
you moving, growing, going forward.
Be as vulnerable as you saflely can
with those you meet along the way. But always be vulnerable with
yourself.
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More Language Of Letting Go
Say how it feels intuitively
The first time intuition clonked me
over the head is a story I’ve told many times in my writing. I was in
treatment for chemical dependency at the time; I needed a job to get
out. I had searched the ads and applied for every opportunity I thought
I deserved. No job was too small, meager, or humble to overlook in the
application process. No one wanted to hire me. I looked for weeks,
months, without success.
One day, I was at the end of my
resources. I was waiting for a bus to take me back to the hospital,
where the treatment center was located, when a small voice in my heart
urged, Look behind you. I did. I was standing in front of a bank. Next
to it was a stairway leading to an attorney’s office, on the second
floor.
Go upstairs and ask to talk to the
head of the law firm. Tell him you want a job, were the words I heard
next.
That’s crazy, I though. It doesn’t
make any sense. But I did it anyway. That still, small voice kept
urging me on. When I talked to the attorney, I told him where I lived
and what was going on in my life. He said he understood; someone in his
family had experienced problems with chemical dependency,too. Then he
looked at me and said, “It’s funny you came in. I was thinking about
creating a new position for a legal secretary in my office, but I
haven’t gotten around to advertising yet.”
Two weeks later, he called me. I got
the job. It was better than any I had applied for, it paid more, and it
made the best possible use of the skills I possessed at that time.
We all have a special source of wisdom
and guidance available to us, in times of trouble and in the day-to-day
workings of our lives.
When faced with a dilemma, take a
moment. Feel out the situation. Get out of your head. Make at least one
decision intuitivley today.
God, help me trust my intuitive powers.
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In God’s Care
True happiness, we are told, consists
in getting out of one’s self, but the point is not only to get out –
you must stay out; and to stay out you must have some absorbing errand.
~~Henry James
When we are down, when everything
seems to be going wrong for us, that’s when we probably notice that for
some time our attention has been on ourselves. We may be concentrating
on what we want and how we’re not getting it. We might be thinking of
all the ways we have been slighted or ignored or rejected, and be
keeping score.
It’s trite to say that we can get out
of this painful self-absorption only by helping someone else, but it’s
true. Helping others is a way to help ourselves. It is a spiritual
principle, and our program is based on this principle of love for one
another.
I will remember that happiness may be
found in getting out of myself.
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Day By Day
Making progress
As addicts, we have a disease, as
recovering addicts it is important for us to recognize that we are
getting better. It is exciting and encouraging to see how we are
changing.
We are sick, but we are getting
better. For example, it used to be that every time something went
wrong, we had to run; now we just want to run. The running feeling is
still there, but we now have a choice. Later, by the grace of God, we
may not even want to run.
Can I see the progress I am making?
Higher Power, while I know there is
always room for improvement, help me see the progress I have already
made.
I will seek to improve myself today
by…
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Food for Thought
OA Unity
When we come into OA, we are amazed to
find so many other people with the same problems and difficulties. We
are even more amazed at the stories we hear of the successful solution
of these problems, which have defeated us for so long.
We are united in our common illness –
compulsive overeating – and we are united in our common program of
recovery – abstinence and the Twelve Steps. What we could not
accomplish alone, by our own efforts, becomes possible through the
strength of the group and the Higher Power.
Each of us is responsible for the life
of OA. We each have a role to play and an area in which to serve. If we
do not do our part, the organization as a whole is weakened. By our
service to the common goals, our own program is strengthened. “Letting
someone else do it” will not work. Saying yes when there is a job that
I can do is what maintains OA unity and my own recovery.
May I contribute to OA unity.
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Compulsive Apologies
The Feeling Underneath by Madisyn Taylor
Apologizing chronically can be a sign
that you are not feeling that you have much self worth.
Many people suffer with the tendency
to apologize all the time, chronically, for everything. On the one
hand, apologizing is a social convention that keeps interactions
between people polite, and in that way it can be very helpful. On the
other hand, if we find ourselves apologizing for everything, it might
be time to look at why we feel compelled to say “I’m sorry” so often.
Ultimately, saying you’re sorry is saying that you are responsible for
something that has gone wrong in the situation. Whether it’s
negotiating a parking spot, moving through the aisles of the
supermarket, or reaching for what you want, there are times when sorry
is the right thing to say. But there are other times when “excuse me”
is more accurate.
Sometimes saying you’re sorry is like
saying that the other person in the equation has more of a right to be
here than you do. Of course, it’s true that using the word sorry can
simply be an innocuous way of defusing tension. However, if you find
that you say sorry all the time, you might want to look a little deeper
and see where in your psyche that might be coming from. If it’s a
pattern, breaking it may simply take some awareness and practice.
The first step is observing yourself
each time you say it, without being hard on yourself about it.
Throughout your day simply notice when you apologize. At first, you
might be surprised to see that you do it even more than you first
realized. After a day or two of simply observing, try to tune in to
what it is you are feeling right before you say it. You might be
feeling threatened, embarrassed, intensely anxious, or a variety of
other feelings. Over time, try to stop yourself before the words come
out and just be with the feeling that’s there. You may recognize it as
one from your childhood, one that’s been with you for a long time. The
more you are able to see it, the freer you will be not to be sorry all
the time. Published with permission from Daily OM
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A Day At A Time
Reflection For The Day
Over and over, I see that those who
make the best and steadiest progress in The Program are those who
readily accept the help of a Higher Power. Once they can do that, it’s
easier for them to get out of their own way. Their problems then seem
to resolve themselves in a way that is beyond human understanding. Do I
realize that the effectiveness with which I use the consciousness of
God in my daily life depends not on Him, but on me?
Today I Pray
May I know that my recovery and growth
depends on my being in touch with my Higher Power, not just once in a
while, but always. It means turning to that Power several times a day
to ask for strength and knowledge of his will. When I understand that
my own life is part of a Higher Plan, I will be less apt to trip and
fall, head off in the wrong direction, or just to sit tight and let
life pass me by.
Today I Will Remember
to be God-conscious.
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One More Day
One of the signs of maturity is a
healthy respect for reality — a respect that manifests its4elf in the
level of one’s aspirations and in the accuracy of one’s assessment of
the difficulties which separate the facts of today from the bright
hopes of tomorrow.
– Robert H. Davies
If we don’t want to live our lives
caught in the “what might have been” doldrums, we can assess where we
are and how we happen to be here. We can stop feeling regretful about
lost t9ime and concentrate on the possibilities now.
If we haven’t achieved any of the
goals we previously set for ourselves, we can make new goals and
achieve each of them one step at a time. We have the rest of our lives
to live, and we can realistically shape new goals that are both
challenging and reachable.
I will set realistic goals, realizing
there is never a better time than now.
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One Day At A Time
FOOTWORK
"I've lost so much weight
that I should be hanging from a charm
bracelet."
Erma Bombeck
I have lost and gained the same weight
so many times I've lost count. Lack of willpower was never an issue
with me. I've whipped myself into shape many times. There was nothing I
didn't do in order to lose weight. I just couldn’t keep it off.
The tide finally turned for me when I
quit relying on my own power, turned my focus away from my weight
problem and toward "trusting in God and cleaning house," as the Big
Book states.
I did Step work under the guidance of
my sponsor. I passed along to others the lessons I'd learned. I did
service work. I kept practicing a conscious contact with the God of my
understanding. I went to meetings and talked to others. I kept a
journal. Then one day I looked up from the tasks at hand to discover I
was abstinent. God did for me what I couldn't do for myself.
One day at a time...
I will do the footwork and leave the
results up to God.
~ Shirley G.
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AA 'Big Book' - Quote
These observations would be academic
and pointless if our friend never took the first drink, thereby setting
the terrible cycle in motion. Therefore, the main problem of the
alcoholic centers in his mind, rather than in his body. If you ask him
why he started on that last bender, the chances are he will offer you
any one of a hundred alibis. Sometimes these excuses have a certain
plausibility, but none of them really makes sense in the light of the
havoc an alcoholic's drinking bout creates. They sound like the
philosophy of the man who, having a headache, beats himself on the head
with a hammer so that he can't feel the ache. If you draw this
fallacious reasoning to the attention of an alcoholic, he will laugh it
off, or become irritated and refuse to talk.
Once in a while he may tell the truth.
And the truth, strange to say, is usually that he has no more idea why
he took that first drink than you have. Some drinkers have excuses with
which they are satisfied part of the time. But in their hearts they
really do not know why they do it. Once this malady has a real hold,
they are a baffled lot. There is the obsession that somehow, someday,
they will beat the game. But they often suspect they are down for the
count. - Pg. 23 - There Is A Solution
Hour To Hour - Book - Quote
Mind is the path. Flesh is the
vehicle. We must establish a new mind through the creative power of
thought using the 12 steps. We must establish a new body, protecting it
from drugs. Only then do we become an aspirant of a whole life.
I ask my Creator to make me WHOLE in
body, mind, and spirit.
Spirit Calls
Spirit calls to me within and without.
In a still, small voice I sense spirit whispering in my inner ear. My
body feels an increasing sense of aliveness as I invite spirit to make
itself known to me. I do not even need to make room for spirit, because
spirit breathes in each pore within me. It fills the numbness with
energy. It fills the emptiness and causes my cup to overflow with its
presence. There are gifts in listening if I am willing to sense, hear
and see them, lessons I can learn. Little hints that help me to
appreciate what I already have and open myself to experiencing more.
I will look for evidence of spirit at
work in my life
- Tian Dayton PhD
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
Unity in our program does not mean
conformity. Unity means joining for a common purpose, despite our
differences.
I can disagree without being
disagreeable.
"Walk Softly and Carry a Big Book" - Book
With the 12 Steps, you have break
throughs, not break downs.
Time for Joy - Book - Quote
Today I release all thoughts and
feelings that cause me harm. I am learning to put all fears aside and
come from the place of truth and love. The rewards of this freedom are
far greater than the negative results of my fear.
Alkiespeak - Book - Quote
I left my bathroom door open when I
puked but I closed it when I prayed. - Sean A.
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AA Thought for the
Day
July 27
How It Works
Rarely have we seen a person fail who
has thoroughly followed our path. . . .
If you have decided you want what we
have and are willing to go to any length to get it
-- then you are ready to take certain
steps.
At some of these we balked. We thought
we could find an easier, softer way. But we could not.
With all the earnestness at our
command, we beg of you to be fearless and thorough from the very start.
- Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 58
Thought to Ponder . . .
It works -- it really does.
AA-related 'Alconym' . . .
H O W = Honesty, Open-mindedness,
Willingness.
~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
Way of Life
"The AA way of life is the way we
always
should have tried to live.
'Grant us the serenity to accept the
things
we cannot change,
courage to change the things we can,
and the wisdom to know the difference.'
These thoughts become part of our
daily lives.
They are not ideas of resignation
but of the recognition of certain
basic facts of living."
1976AAWS, Alcoholics Anonymous, pp.
382-3
Thought to Consider . . .
Every day is a gift.
That is why we call it the present.
*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
B E S T = Been Enjoying Sobriety Today?
*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*
Progress
>From "A Glacier Melts":
"A.A. provided for me a means by which
I could overcome the compulsion to drink and, more important, a means
by
which I could achieve a personality
change or spiritual awakening--- a surrender to life. Though I have had
problems
and deep troubles since that summer
ten years ago, my faith has not been shaken. I cannot say that I have
found God
as I understand Him, but rather that I
have faith in Something which remains a mystery to me and which I
continue to
seek. - Fresno, California, USA"
1973 AAWS, Inc.; Came to Believe, 30th
printing 2004, pg. 59
*~*~*~*~*^ Grapevine Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"The great art of living is to make
the best of things as they are."
Cumbria, June 1975
"The Great Art of Living,"
Emotional Sobriety II
*~*~*~*~*^ Big Book & Twelve N'
Twelve Quotes of the Day ^*~*~*~*~*
"Step Eleven suggests prayer and
meditation. We shouldn't be shy on this matter of prayer. Better men
than we are
using it constantly."
Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
Into Action, pg. 85
“We thank God from the bottom of our
heart that we know Him better."
-Alcoholics Anonymous p. 75
“Prayer is the raising of the heart
and mind to God – and in this sense it includes meditation.”
-Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions p.
102
Misc. AA Literature - Quote
We were squarely confronted with the
question of faith. We couldn't duck the issue. Some of us had already
walked
along the bridge of reason toward the
desired shore of faith, where friendly hands stretched out in welcome.
We were
grateful that reason had brought us so
far. But, somehow, we couldn't quite step ashore. Perhaps we had been
relying
too heavily on reason that last mile,
and we did not like to lose our support.
Yet, without knowing it, had we not
been brought to where we stood by a certain kind of faith? For did we
not believe in
our own reasoning? Did we not have
confidence in our ability to think? What was that but a sort of faith?
Yes, we had
been faithful, abjectly faithful to
the god of reason. So, in one way or another, we discovered that faith
had been
involved all the time!
Prayer for the Day: "Higher Power, help me serve other people,
not demand that they serve me."