SHORTCOMINGS REMOVED
But now the words "Of myself I am nothing, the Father doeth the
works" began to carry bright promise and meaning.
12 & 12, p. 75
When I put the Seventh Step into action I must remember that
there are no blanks to fill in. It doesn't say, "Humbly asked Him to
(fill in the blank) remove our shortcomings." For years I filled in
the imaginary blank with "Help me!" "Give me the courage to,"
and "Give me the strength," etc. The Step says simply that God
will remove my shortcomings. The only footwork I must do is "humbly
ask," which for me means asking with the knowledge that of myself I
am nothing, the Father within "doeth the works."
I thank my Higher Power for letting me know that He works through
other people, and I thank Him for our trusted servants in the
Fellowship who aid new members to reject their false ideals and
to adopt those which lead to a life of compassion and trust. The
elders in A.A. challenge the newcomers to "Come To"--so that
they can "Come to Believe." I ask my Higher Power to help my
unbelief.
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
We must be loyal to the group and to each member of it. We must
never accuse members behind their backs or even to their faces.
It's up to them to tell us themselves if anything is wrong. More than
that, we must try not to think bad things about any members, because
if we do, we're consciously or unconsciously hurting that person. We
must be loyal to each other if A.A. is going to be successful. While
we're on this lifeboat, trying to save ourselves and each other from
alcoholism, we must be truly and sincerely helpful to each other. Am I
a loyal member of my group?
Meditation For The Day
Carry out God's guidance as best you can. Leave the results to Him.
Do this obediently and faithfully with no question that if the working
out of the guidance is left in God's hands, the results will be all
right. Believe that the guidance God gives you has already been
worked out by God to produce the required results according to your
case and in your circumstances. So follow God's guidance according
to your conscience. God has knowledge of your individual life and
character, your capabilities and your weaknesses.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may live according to the dictates of my
conscience. I
pray that I may leave the results to God.
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As Bill Sees It
Unlimited
Choice, p. 201
Any number of alcoholics are bedeviled by the dire conviction that if
they ever go near A.A. they will be pressured to conform to some
particular brand of faith or theology.
They just don't realize that faith is never an imperative for A.A.
membership. that sobriety can be achieved with an easily acceptable
minimum of it, and that our concepts of a Higher Power and God--as
we understand Him--afford everyone a nearly unlimited choice of
spiritual belief and action.
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In talking to a prospect, stress the spiritual feature freely. If the
man
be agnostic or atheist, make it emphatic that he does not have to
agree with your conception of God. He can choose any conception he
likes, provided it makes sense to him.
The main thing is that he is willing to believe in a Power greater than
himself and that he live by spiritual principles.
1. Grapevine, April 1961
2. Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 93
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Walk In Dry Places
Spiritual guidance.
If we go through the day with a confidence that our Higher Power is
with us, events will go better than they would if we hadn't held to
this belief. We will be more effective in everything we do. We will
actually have more power in all activities.
This is what is meant in the Eleventh Step; "the power to carry that
out." Knowing that the Higher power is in our lives, we also find
the power to do what we believe to be God's will for us. As this
confidence strengthens and is seasoned by experience, it becomes part
of our nature.
Eventually, we'll sense our Higher Power working in our lives. We can
learn to accept this with the same sure belief that we accept the sun's
rising and the changing of the seasons. And we'll have the power
to do whatever must be done by us.
A conscious contact with God can raise my daily activities to higher
levels, giving me the power of achievement.
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Keep It Simple
Living so fully. I can't image what any drug would do for me.---Joan
Baez
When we were using alcohol and other drugs, our lives kept getting
emptier. We tired to keep new things out of our lives. We were scared
and
tired. We saw feelings as bad. So we got high instead of feeling
them.
Now we can live fully every day. We don't want to block our feelings.
We
aren't afraid to opening up to new things and people.
And the more we open up, the happier we are. Our feelings are free.
They
bounce around. They don't get stuck. We feel alive. Sure, we feel pain
and fear sometimes. But we feel joy, love, and laughter too. And, more
and more often, we feel alive.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, please help me live fully
today. Help me notice my
feelings.
Action for the Day: Today, I'll list five things I've enjoyed in
the last twenty-four
hours.
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Each Day a New Beginning
It is ironic that the one thing that all religions recognize as
separating us from our Creator--our very self-consciousness--is also
the one thing that divides us from our fellow creatures. --Annie
Dillard
Getting outside of ourselves, moving beyond our own egos, opens the
door to real communication with the people we'll meet today. We have to
learn to look with loving appreciation into the soul of that person or
child who stands before us. We have to practice being concerned with
their needs before our own, and in time our concern will be genuine.
The separation between us will exist no more.
This division from others, the barrier that keeps us apart, comes from
our individual insecurities. We have grown accustomed to the quick
comparisons of ourselves with those we meet. Either inferior or
superior we determine them to be, and thus ourselves. Whatever gifts we
have to offer each other are left unwrapped, at least for now.
Let's come together, truly together, with someone we've been holding
off until now. We can trust that the people who have come into our
lives are there by design. We are equal to them, and they to us. We
need what they have to offer us, and their growth needs our gifts, too.
I will appreciate the design of my life today. I will draw myself close
to the day.
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
Chapter
7 - WORKING WITH OTHERS
See your man alone, if possible. At first engage in general
conversation. After a while, turn the talk to some phase of drinking.
Tell him enough about your drinking habits, symptoms, and experiences
to encourage him to speak of himself. If he wishes to talk, let him do
so. You will thus get a better idea of how you ought to proceed. If he
is not communicative, give him a sketch or your drinking career up to
the time you quit. But say nothing, for the moment, of how that was
accomplished. If he is in a serious mood dwell on the troubles liquor
has caused you, being careful not to moralize or lecture. If his mood
is light, tell him humorous stories of your escapades. Get him to tell
some of his.
p. 91
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition Stories
ACCEPTANCE WAS THE ANSWER
- The physician wasn't hooked, he thought--he just prescribed drugs
medically indicated for his many ailments. Acceptance was his key
to liberation.
My drinking took place after work
hours. I remember finding myself in the middle of the night in
the doctors' parking lot at the hospital with one foot in the car and
one foot on the ground, not knowing which was the lead foot; finding
myself hanging up the telephone--then realizing I had gotten out of
bed, answered the phone, turned on the light, and carried on a
conversation with a patient. I didn't know whether I had told him
to rush to the hospital and I'd meet him there, or to take two aspirin
and call me in the morning. With a problem like that, I couldn't
go back to sleep. So I'd sit up, watch old Wallace Beery movies
on all-night TV, and drink.
p. 409
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Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Tradition
Three - "The only requirement for A.A. membership is a desire to stop
drinking."
A newcomer appeared at one of these groups, knocked on the door and
asked to be let in. He talked frankly with that group's oldest member.
He soon proved that his was a desperate case, and that above all he
wanted to get well. "But," he asked, "will you let me join your group?
Since I am the victim of another addiction even worse stigmatized than
alcoholism, you may not want me among you. Or will you?"
There was the dilemma. What should the group do? The oldest member
summoned two others, and in confidence laid the explosive facts in
their laps. Said he, "Well, what about it? If we turn this man away,
he'll soon die. If we allow him in, only god knows what trouble he'll
brew. What shall the answer be - yes or no?"
pp. 141-142
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Truth gives a short answer; lies go round about.
--German Proverb
People who soar are those who refuse to sit back, sigh and wish
things would change. They neither complain of their lot nor
passively dream of some distant ship coming in. Rather, they visualize
in
their minds that they are not quitters; they will not allow life's
circumstances to push them down and hold them under.
--Charles Swindoll
An eye for eye only ends up making the whole world blind.
--Mahatma Gandhi
He that cannot forgive others, breaks the bridge over which he
himself must pass if he would ever reach heaven; for everyone has
need to be forgiven.
--George Herbert
One doesn't recognize in one's life the really important moments....
not until it's too late.
--Agatha Christie
We can't all be heroes because someone has to sit on the curb and clap
as they go by.
--Will Rogers
Man is a creature whose substance is faith. What his faith is, he is.
--Bhagavad Gita
"Learn to see in another's calamity the ills which you should avoid."
--Publius Syrus
............ that is what learning is. You suddenly understand something
you've understood all your life, but in a new way.
--Doris Lessing
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
WORRY
"When I look back on all these
worries, I remember the story of
the old man who said on his
deathbed that he had had a lot
of trouble in his life, most of
which never happened."
--Winston Churchill
I know I can worry myself into the grave. I can project an incident
into a calamity. I can make mountains out of molehills.
I worried about what people meant by what they said; I always
looked for a hidden criticism; I worried about what people did not
say; I worried about what people were thinking or were going to do or
were plotting. If I had nothing to worry about, then I worried because
I felt I should have something to worry about! I created most of the
worry in my life.
Today I have a program that helps me deal with this. Of course I still
worry, but I have a "checklist" that keeps me sane and allows me to
laugh at the insanity of my projections. Today the worry in my life is
less destructive and negative.
Let me bring my worry to You in prayer. Then let me sleep!
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"Therefore
know
this
day,
and
consider
it in your heart, that the Lord Himself is
God in Heaven above and on the earth beneath; there is no other."
Deuteronomy 4:39
I cling to you, and your hand keeps me safe. Psalm 63:8
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Daily Inspiration
Place yourself in God's hands first thing in the morning so that your
entire day will be in His care. Lord, may my prayer and my attitude be
one so that my relationship with You never becomes casual.
As we help those in need or comfort those in trouble, God's great love
and divine glory is revealed to the world. Lord, I am Your servant. May
others know more of You through me.
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NA Just For Today
Step 0ne
"We admitted that we were powerless
over our addiction, that our lives had become unmanageable."
Step One
The First Step begins with "we," and
there's a reason for that. There is great strength in making a verbal
admission of our powerlessness. And when we go to meetings and make
this admission, we gain more than personal strength. We become members,
part of a collective "we" that allows us, together, to recover from our
addiction. With membership in NA comes a wealth of experience: the
experience of other addicts who have found a way to recover from their
disease.
No longer must we try to solve the
puzzle of our addiction on our own. When we honestly admit our
powerlessness over our addiction, we can begin the search for a better
way to live. We won't be searching alone - we're in good company.
Just for today: I will start the day
with an admission of my powerlessness over addiction. I will remind
myself that the First Step starts with "we," and know that I never have
to be alone with my disease again.
pg. 210
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You are reading from the book Today's Gift.
It is terribly amusing how many
different climates of feeling one can go through in a day. --Anne
Morrow Lindbergh
When we travel by canoe down a river
we can notice the changes that take place. In one spot the river is
wide and the water moves slowly. Around the next bend the river narrows
and the current speeds up. Ahead of us we see rapids waiting to test
our skill.
Our feelings can also change as
quickly as the river. We may have times in our day when we feel good
about ourselves. Then, all of a sudden, someone may tease us about
something. We begin to feel like the scared canoeist shooting the
rapids for the first time. How wonderful it is to know that we are
never given a test we can't handle, that everything that happens in our
lives is for the sake of our growth, and that we are watched over at
all times by God.
How can I use today's obstacles for my
own growth?
You are reading from the book
Touchstones.
Without solitude there can be no real
people.... The measure of your solitude is the measure of your
capacity/or communion.
--John Eudes
If we listen in those moments when we
hear a message from ourselves, we become true men - real human beings.
The message comes in our solitude, when our defenses against truth are
set aside. It comes popping out without our planning it. Our solitude
is a relationship with ourselves, and it might occur in silent
meditation, or driving down the street, or during a dinner
conversation. The message might be a painful truth like, "You just
acted like a small child," or a frightening fact like, "You are deeply
loved by another person."
Letting another person know what
messages we are getting in solitude helps us deal with the messages. As
we accept our imperfections and make peace with ourselves, we increase
our sense of solitude. We become real men, full partners in
relationships and in our communities.
Today, I will welcome solitude. When
the messages from myself are painful or frightening, I will be gentle
with myself.
You are reading from the book Each Day
a New Beginning.
It is ironic that the one thing that
all religions recognize as separating us from our Creator--our very
self-consciousness--is also the one thing that divides us from our
fellow creatures. --Annie Dillard
Getting outside of ourselves, moving
beyond our own egos, opens the door to real communication with the
people we'll meet today. We have to learn to look with loving
appreciation into the soul of that person or child who stands before
us. We have to practice being concerned with their needs before our
own, and in time our concern will be genuine. The separation between us
will exist no more.
This division from others, the barrier
that keeps us apart, comes from our individual insecurities. We have
grown accustomed to the quick comparisons of ourselves with those we
meet. Either inferior or superior we determine them to be, and thus
ourselves. Whatever gifts we have to offer each other are left
unwrapped, at least for now.
Let's come together, truly together,
with someone we've been holding off until now. We can trust that the
people who have come into our lives are there by design. We are equal
to them, and they to us. We need what they have to offer us, and their
growth needs our gifts, too.
I will appreciate the design of my
life today. I will draw myself close to the day.
You are reading from the book The
Language of Letting Go.
Letting Go of Resistance
Do not be in such a hurry to move on.
Relax. Breathe deeply. Be. Be in
harmony today.
Be open. There is beauty around and in
us today. There is purpose and meaning in today.
There is importance in today - not so
much in what happens to us, but in how we respond.
Let today happen. We learn our
lessons, we work things out, we change in a simple fashion: by living
our life fully today.
Do not worry about tomorrow's
feelings, problems, or gifts. Do not worry about whether we can trust
life, our Higher Power, or ourselves tomorrow.
Everything we need today shall be
given to us. That is a promise - from God, from the Universe.
Feel today's feelings. Solve today's
problems. Enjoy today's gifts. Trust yourself, life, and your Higher
Power today.
Acquire the art of living fully today.
Absorb the lessons, the healing, the beauty, the love available to us
today.
Do not be in such a rush to move on.
There is no hurry. We cannot escape; ;we only postpone. Let the
feelings go; breathe in peace and healing.
Do not be in such a hurry to move on.
Today, I will not run from my
circumstances, my feelings, or myself. I will be open to others, Higher
Power, my life, and myself. I will trust that by facing today to the
best of my ability, I will acquire the skills I need to face tomorrow.
Today I am reaching out to those who
love and support me. I am letting go of my ego and self-centeredness so
that I can make space to take in love and support and ideas from
others. --Ruth Fishel
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Journey To The Heart
Value Your Connection to Creativity
For years, I had been storing my son’s
clothing, some of his favorite articles, in boxes in the garage. I
didn’t want to let go of the clothes, yet I had no use for them. One
day an idea came. I was talking to a woman enthralled with quilting,
with fabrics, textures, and the art of creating quilts. She was talking
about how she was making a quilt out of her family’s old blue jeans,
because it created a use for the fabric and gave them a blanket that
held the energy and memory of their experiences. It wasn’t just a
quilt. It became a special comfort quilt because of the energy the
fabrics held.
That’s when the idea came. My son had
died years ago. His physical presence was no longer here. But the
clothes held the memories of his physical presence and the energy of
his spiritual presence. I could make them into a quilt, one that would
cherish his memory and give me comfort.
How do we get our ideas? From other
people. From certain triggers in the world, the universe. From our
imagination. We are connected to creativity. It’s a force in the
universe, an energy that runs through us. If we’re connected to
ourselves, our intuition will guide us to what to do and when to do it.
If we love ourselves enough to act confidently and joyfully on that
guidance.
Value your connection with creativity.
Embrace your imagination. The universe will show you how, teach you
how, help you along the way.
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More Language Of Letting Go
Take down those walls
Frank was a happily married man, or so
he thought. Then one day, his wife of ten years came home and told him
that she didn’t feel like being married anymore. “I love you. I’m just
not in love with you,” she said, walking out the door.
Frank was devastated. He got mad at
his wife, mad at his church, and mad at God. He got mad, and he stayed
that way. He fumed and generalized. He decided that all women must be
this way and sooner or later anyone who got too close would hurt him.
Many of us experience hurt in life. It
comes with the game.
It’s okay to hurt, to be angry, even
to be bitter for a while. But no one is interested in hearing our lost
love story ten years after it happened.
We even get sick of hearing it,
ourselves.
Sometimes it’s time to nurture our
pain. Sometimes it’s time to get over it and get back in the game.
We all fall. Most people change their
minds. We all make mistakes.
We don’t have to let a bad experience
in life prevent us from having positive experiences in the future.
Walls are indiscriminate. While they may protect us from being hurt
again, they’ll also prevent us from experiencing joy.
God, help me let go of self-sabotaging
attitudes formed in a moment of hurt. Open me to the beauty that awaits
when I approach life with an open heart.
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In God’s Care
The answer to personality problems is
found in a quiet return to Godlike thinking.
~~Science of Mind, magazine
When we’re edgy and critical or
perhaps feeling inadequate or depressed, we’ve lost our atonement with
God. And when acting the way God would have us act is no longer our
priority, our character defects once again emerge and, in time, grow
ever more numerous.
We can make the simple decision to
always check out our proposed behavior against the behavior we know is
from God. When we remember to think of God first before proceeding, we
avoid unnecessary conflicts; we refrain from consciously hurting
anyone; we manage to take our experiences restfully, moment by moment.
There’s really no mystery to having a
rewarding and peaceful life. Those we notice who do, have likely made a
more frequent companion of God than we. The decision to work more on
our own friendship with God is an easy one to make.
I will act according to God’s wishes
today and in the process, strengthen our friendship.
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Day By Day
Making a decision
We made a decision, a decision to try
this program because all else had failed. (We still doubted it would
work, but we were desperate.) This decision was made mostly on hope and
a belief. At first, it did not reflect belief in a Higher Power but
belief in other people.
When we make a decision to do whatever
is necessary, our belief can grow. It can grow to a point where no
power on earth can shake our foundation. And from this foundation we
can, in turn, offer hope to others in need. We can plant in them the
same seeds of belief that made it possible for us to be clean and sober.
Is my belief growing?
Higher Power, help me stay strong in
the program and help others who need to establish roots.
Today I will renew my commitment to
the program and its members by
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Food for Thought
Turning Toward the Light
Plants, as they grow, automatically
turn toward the light. People can choose between light or darkness. The
OA program is available to us, but we may choose whether or not we will
follow it. Our Higher Power is also available to us, if we choose to
seek His will.
Before we found OA, we wandered around
in the darkness of compulsive overeating. Now that we see glimmers of
light, we need to turn ourselves in the direction from which the light
is coming. Working the program requires taking the time and effort to
change our routine. The light is here, but we need to turn away from
darkness and open ourselves to it.
As we examine ourselves in the light
that comes from our Higher Power through OA, we begin to see more
clearly where we should make changes and how we may find health and
peace.
Grant us grace to turn toward Your
light.
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Changing Roles
As We Ebb and Flow through Life by Madisyn Taylor
We all change throughout life trying
new and different things, but the core of who we really are remains the
same.
As we bob and weave with the ebb and
flow of life our roles change, but our true self remains constant. As
spiritual beings having a human experience, we go through many aspects
of humanity in one lifetime. Living in the material world of opposites,
labels, and classifications, we often identify ourselves by the roles
we play, forgetting that these aspects shift and change throughout our
lives. But when we anchor ourselves in the truth of our being, that
core of spirit within us, we can choose to embrace the new roles as
they come, knowing that they give us fresh perspective on life and a
greater understanding of the lives of others.
As children, we anticipated role
changes eagerly in our rush to grow up. Though fairy tales led us to
believe that “happily ever after” was a final destination, the truth is
that life is a series of destinations, mere stops on a long journey
filled with differing terrain. We may need to move through a feeling of
resistance as we shift from spouse to parent, leader to subordinate,
caregiver to receiver, or even local to newcomer. It can be helpful to
bid a fond farewell to the role that we are leaving before we welcome
the new. This is the purpose of ceremonies in cultures throughout the
world and across time. We can choose from any in existence or create
our own to help us celebrate our life shifts and embrace our new
adventures.
Like actors on the stage of the world,
our different roles are just costumes that we inhabit and then shed.
Each role we play gives us another perspective through which to
understand ourselves and the nature of the universe. When we take a
moment to see that each change can be an adventure, a celebration, and
a chance to play a new part, we may even be able to recapture the
joyful anticipation of our youth as we transition from one role to the
next. Published with permission from Daily OM
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A Day At A Time
Reflection For The Day
“It is the privilege of wisdom to
listen,” Oliver Wendell Holmes once wrote. If I try as hard as I can to
cultivate the art of listening — uncritically and without making
premature judgments — chances are great that I’ll progress more rapidly
in my recovery. If I try as hard as I can to listen to the feelings and
thoughts expressed — rather than to the “speaker” — I may be blessed
with an unexpectedly helpful idea. The essential quality of good
listening is humility, which reflects the fact that God’s voice speaks
to us even through the least of most inarticulate of His children. Does
a holier-than-thou attitude sometimes close my mind to the shared
suggestions of others?
Today I Pray
May my Higher Power keep me from being
“holier-than-thou” with anyone whose manner or language or opposite
point of view or apparent lack of knowledge turns me off to what they
are saying. May I be listening always for the voice of God, which can
be heard through the speech of any one of us.
Today I Will Remember
Hear the speech, not the speaker.
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One More Day
We should not let our fears hold us
back from pursuing our hopes.
– John F. Kennedy
Regardless of our situation, we all
need to hope. When we were young we were in a hurry all the time. Every
problem needed a quick solution. And our anticipated futures were
completely untarnished by adult viewpoints.
Sometimes, what we mislabel as a fear
of dying might really be regret that we haven’t led a full enough life.
We know now what is reasonable and what i snot. We understand where we
are in our lives and accept that ideal situations may not come to pass.
We have learned that we must come to terms with who we are and what we
can do. We have learned that we are okay just as we are today.
I have come to terms with where I am
in my life. My fears will not hold me back anymore.
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One Day At A Time
BEFORE AND AFTER
"The Light of God surrounds me.
The Love of God enfolds me.
The Power of God protects me.
The Presence of God watches over me.
Wherever I am, God is ... and all is
well."
James Dillet Freeman
Before I found the Twelve Steps, I was
walking in darkness.
Now God's Light is all around me.
Before I found the Twelve Steps, I was
lonely and felt no one cared.
Now I'm enveloped in God's love.
Before I found the Twelve Steps, my
life was out of control.
Now God is the Higher Power in my life.
Before I found the Twelve Steps, I was
lost in my disease of compulsion.
Now God looks out for me.
Before I found the Twelve Steps, I was
isolated and alone.
Now anywhere I go, I know I don't go
there by myself …
for God is with me.
One Day at a Time . . .
I remember that wherever I am,
God is ...
And all is well.
~ Jeff
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AA 'Big Book' - Quote
Our description of the alcoholic, the
chapter to the agnostic, and our personal adventures before and after
make clear three pertinent ideas:
(a) That we were alcoholic and could
not manage our own lives.
(b) That probably no human power could
have relieved our alcoholism.
(c) That God could and would if He
were sought.
Being convinced, WE WERE AT STEP
THREE, which is that we decided to turn our will and our life over to
God as we understand Him. - Pg. 60 - How It Works
Hour To Hour - Book - Quote
If we are in the program on a basis of
'temporary permanence' (we'll stay until we find something better),
then we need to re-evaluate. Addiction is cunning, baffling, and
powerful and will always convince us it's better than sobriety. We can
only make this program if we commit ourselves each day, every day.
This hour I will not take a fix, pill,
drink, smoke, or snort of any mind-affecting chemical.
Who Am I?
Today I will ask this question over
and over again. I will not expect an answer. I will ask for the sake of
asking, I will ask in order to put my mind in the frame of searching
for a deeper life of the spirit, I will ask to be guided, toward
awareness of all that is eternal. I will ask this question throughout
my life without ever expecting or insisting upon an answer. I
understand that God lives in the asking, that God is too great and vast
to reduce to any simple answer, that God lives in the question.
I am curious about the deeper
mysteries of this life.
- Tian Dayton PhD
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
Through the Fourth and Fifth steps we
learn who we really are. Once we know who and what we are, we don't
have to be what we were.
Today, I am myself. I am perfect for
the part.
"Walk Softly and Carry a Big Book" - Book
You must allow people to be right,
because it consoles them for not being anything else.
Time for Joy - Book - Quote
Today I am reaching out to those who
love and support me. I am letting go of my ego and self-centeredness so
that I can make space to take in love and support and ideas from others.
Alkiespeak - Book - Quote
My parents tried to save me from an
unhappy childhood but I thwarted them and had one anyway. - Charlie C.
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AA Thought for the Day
July 20
Instincts
Creation gave us instincts for a
purpose. Without them we wouldn't be complete human beings. . .
Yet, these instincts, so necessary for
our existence, often far exceed their proper functions. . .
Nearly every serious emotional problem
can be seen as a case of misdirected instinct.
When that happens, our great natural
assets, the instincts, have turned into physical and mental liabilities.
- Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions,
p. 42
Thought to Ponder . . .
Once we understand ourselves, the rest
of living falls in line.
AA-related 'Alconym' . . .
A A = Attitude Adjustment.
~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
Fear
"Unreasonable fear that our instincts
will not be satisfied
drives us to covet the possessions of
others,
to lust for sex and power,
to become angry when our instinctive
demands
are threatened,
to be envious when the ambitions of
others
seem to be realized while ours are not.
We eat, drink, and grab for more of
everything than we need,
fearing we shall never have enough.
And with genuine alarm at the prospect
of work,
we stay lazy.
We loaf and procrastinate,
or at best work grudgingly and under
half steam.
These fears are the termites that
ceaselessly devour
the foundations of whatever sort of
life we try to build."
1952AAWS, Twelve Steps and Twelve
Traditions, p. 49
Thought to Consider . . .
Fear is a darkroom for developing
negatives
*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
F E A R = Forgetting Everything's All
Right
*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*
Wholeness
>From "This Spirit Touch":
"I believe completeness is waiting for
anyone who will take the time to make the effort, through quiet
thinking, honest
prayer, chosen reading, and exercise.
Those are the ingredients. It is an adventure so worthwhile that all
else fades in
comparison, yet it makes all else
worthwhile. Richmond, Virginia, USA"
1973 AAWS, Inc.; Came to Believe, 30th
printing 2004, pg. 66
*~*~*~*~*^ Grapevine Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"Life is lived moment to moment ...
and every moment provides me with an opportunity for growth."
Madison, Wisconsin, November 2010
"Drama Queen,"
Emotional Sobriety II
*~*~*~*~*^ Big Book & Twelve N'
Twelve Quotes of the Day ^*~*~*~*~*
"When we retire at night, we
constructively review our day. Were we
resentful, selfish, dishonest or
afraid? Do we owe an apology? Have
we kept something to ourselves which
should be discussed with another
person at once? Were we kind and
loving toward all? What could we
have done better? Were we thinking of
ourselves most of the time? Or
were we thinking of what we could do
for others, of what we could
pack into the stream of life? But we
must be careful not to drift
into worry, remorse or morbid
reflection, for that would diminish our
usefulness to others. After making our
review we ask God's
forgiveness and inquire what
corrective measures should be taken."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
Into Action, pg. 86~
"Perhaps there is a better way--we
think so. For we are now on a
different basis; the basis of trusting
and relying upon God. We
trust infinite God rather than our
finite selves. We are in the
world to play the role He assigns.
Just to the extent that we do as
we think He would have us, and humbly
rely on Him, does He enable us
to match calamity with serenity."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
How It Works, pg. 68~
"Much to our relief, we discovered we
did not need to consider another's conception of God. Our own
conception,
however inadequate, was sufficient to
make the approach and to effect a contact with Him."
-Alcoholics Anonymous p. 46 (We
Agnostics)
"By their example they showed us that
humility and intellect could be compatible, provided we placed humility
first.
When we began to do that, we received
the gift of faith, a faith which works."
-Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions p.
30 (Step Two)
Misc. AA Literature - Quote
Any number of alcoholics are bedeviled
by the dire conviction that if ever they go near A.A. they will be
pressured to conform to some particular brand of faith or theology.
They just don't realize that faith is never an imperative for A.A.
membership; that sobriety can be achieved with an easily acceptable
minimum of it, and that our concepts of a Higher Power and God - as we
understand Him - afford everyone a nearly unlimited choice of spiritual
belief and action.
In talking to a prospect, stress the
spiritual feature freely. If the man be agnostic or atheist, make it
emphatic that he does not have to agree with your conception of God. He
can choose any conception he likes, provided it makes sense to him. The
main thing is that he be willing to believe in a Power greater than
himself and that he live by spiritual principles.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, thank you for allowing me to
have faith even when I don't understand it.