A TURNING POINT, p.301
A great turning point in our lives came when we sought for humility
as something we really wanted, rather than as something we must
have.
12 & 12, p.75
Either the A.A. way of life becomes one of joy or I return to the
darkness and despair of alcoholism. Joy comes to me when my
attitude concerning God and humility turns to one of desire rather
than of burden. The darkness in my life changes to radiant light
when I arrive at the realization that being truthful and honest in
dealing with my inventory results in my life being filled with serenity,
freedom, and joy. Trust in my Higher Power deepens, and the flush
of gratitude spreads through my being. I am convinced that being
humble is being truthful and honest in dealing with myself and God.
It is then that humility is something I "really want," rather being
"something I must have."
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
We in Alcoholics Anonymous do not try to chart the path for the
human soul or try to lay out a blueprint of the working of faith, as
one might plan a charity drive. We do tell the newcomer that we
have renewed our faith in a Higher Power. In the telling, our faith
is further renewed. We believe that faith is always close at
hand, waiting for those who will listen to the heartbeat of the
spirit. We believe there is a force for good in the universe and
that if we link up with this force, we are carried onward to a new
life. Am I in this stream of goodness?
Meditation For The Day
God will protect you from the forces of evil, if you will rely on
Him. You can face all things through the power of God which
strengthens you. Once God has set on you His stamp and seal of
ownership, all His strength will serve and protect you. Remember
that you are a child of the Father. Realize that the Father's help is
always ready and available to all His children, so that they can
face anything. God will do all that is necessary for your spiritual
well-being, if you will let Him live His way.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may rely on God as I go through this day. I pray that I
may feel deeply secure, no matter what happens to me.
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As Bill Sees It
Carrying the
Message, p. 192
The wonderful energy the Twelfth Step releases, by which it carries
our message to the next suffering alcoholic and finally translates the
Twelve Steps into action upon all our affairs, is the payoff, the
magnificent reality of A.A.
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Never talk down to an alcoholic from any moral or spiritual hilltop;
simply lay out the kit of spiritual tools for his inspection. Show him
how they worked with you. Offer him friendship and fellowship.
1. 12 & 12, p. 109
2. Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 95
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Walk In Dry Places
The rewards of Truth
Seeking the Truth
The punishment of the liar is that he cannot believe anyone else, wrote
one shrewd philosopher. This is another way of saying that we reap what
we sow, or that we tend to judge others by our own actions.
But when we decide to be completely truthful, we are not immediately
given the ability to discern whether others are lying or not. It's more
important for us to realize that others lies don't have the power to
hurt us permanently if we persevere in the program.
Some people would argue with this, pointing to lies that have hurt
innocent people in the past. But having no way of knowing all the
facts of these cases, we cannot be the judge.
In our own experiences, we'll find that God alone is the source of all
truth and will give us the protection and care we need if we seek
truthfulness in everything we do. Any fear of being victimized by
living, we'll learn, will melt away as we follow this conviction.
I'll be as discreet as possible today, but I'll also be truthful.
I'll find that this alone will lessen any fear of being victimized by a
liar.
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Keep It Simple
If you would be loved, love and be lovable.---Benjamin Franklin
We all want to be loved. and no matter how much we're loved, we always
want more.
How can we be lovable? What does the mean? Should we try to be perfect?
Should we act cute and helpless? No, being lovable means that we act
ourselves. We let others get to know us. When others love us, we enjoy
it. We tell them. We let them know that their love isn't wasted on us,
that it's important to us. We are lovable, and we are loved!
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, help me accept the love of
others today. Help me be
lovable.
Action for the Day: Today, I'll list all the little things others
do that show that they care
for me.
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Each Day a New Beginning
I have listened to the realm of the Spirit. I have heard my own soul's
voice, and I have remembered that love is the complete and unifying
thread of existence. --Mary Casey
The act of loving someone else brings us together, closes whatever the
gap between us. It draws us into the world of another, making richer
the world we call our own. Love is the great equalizer.
We no longer wish to conquer or dominate those whom we love. And our
love for one increases our capacity for loving others. Love heals
another, and love heals ourselves, both giving it and receiving it.
Love from another acknowledges our existence, assuring us that we do
count, that someone else values our presence. It is human to need these
reminders, these assurances. But our need for them is lessened each
time we acknowledge another person in our midst.
Where love is absent, people, even in a crowd, feel alone, forgotten,
and unimportant. No doubt we can each recall times of quiet desperation
moments of alienation. We must reach out to someone and send thoughts
of love to someone who may need to be remembered. Our loving thoughts
for persons close and far away always reach their destination. They do
unify us.
Love is powerful. It can change the complexion of the universe. It will
change the direction of my life.
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
Chapter 7 - WORKING WITH OTHERS
PRACTICAL EXPERIENCE shows that nothing will so much insure immunity
from drinking as intensive work with other alcoholics. It works when
other activities fail. This is our twelfth suggestion: Carry this
message to other alcoholics! You can help when no one else can. You can
secure their confidence when others fail. Remember they are very ill.
p. 89
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition Stories
A DRUNK, LIKE YOU - The
more he listened at meetings, the more he came to know about his own
drinking history.
That was a big step for me; I
finally began to separate the religious aspect of my life from A.A.'s
spiritual program. Now the big difference to me is that religion
is the ritual, and we all differ there, and spirituality is the way we
feel about what we do. It's about my personal contact with my
personal Higher Power, as I understand Him.
p. 406
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Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Tradition Two
- "For our group purpose, there is but one ultimate authority - a
loving God as He may express Himself in our group conscience."
"Almost timidly, one of my friends began to speak. `We know how hard up
you are, Bill. It bothers us a lot. We've often wondered what we might
do about it. But I think I speak for everyone here when I say that what
you now propose bothers us an awful lot more.' The speaker's voice grew
more confident. `Don't you realize,' he went on, `that you can never
become a professional? As generous as Charlie has been to us, don't you
see that we can't tie this thing up with his hospital or any other? You
tell us that Charlie's proposal is ethical. Sure, it's ethical, but
what we've got won't run on ethics only; it has to be better. Sure,
Charlie's idea is good, but it isn't good enough. This is a matter of
life and death, Bill, and nothing but the very best will do!'
Challengingly, my friends looked at me as their spokesman continued.
`Bill, haven't you often said right here in this meeting that sometimes
the good is the enemy of the best? Well, this is a plain case of it.
You can't do this thing to us!'
pp. 137-138
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There are no burdens when everybody lifts.
--unknown
When someone is impatient and says, "I haven't got all day" I always
wonder, how can that be? How can you not have all day?
--unknown
Learn to say kind words, nobody resents them.
--unknown
Is not life a hundred times too short for us to bore ourselves?
--Friedrich Nietzsche
First mend yourself, and then mend others.
--Jewish Proverb
Always look at your moccasin tracks first before you speak of
another's faults.
--Native American Proverb
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
CHANGE
"The foolish and the dead never
change their opinion."
--James Russell Lowell
Part of my understanding of spirituality is that I will change. I will
change my mind, my attitude and my opinion. My understanding of
sobriety is that I will grow, grow in an understanding of myself,
grow in an understanding of God's will for me, and grow in an
understanding of other people. Today I am not afraid to change my
thinking about life.
During my years as an addict I was fixed and rigid about everything.
I saw it as weakness to change my mind and opinions. Now I
understand that I was afraid of change, afraid not to have an answer,
afraid not to be seen as being "in charge".
In treatment I learned how to understand spirituality as reality;
seeing things as they are, rather than how I wanted them to be. I
began to accept that life is about change and that truth is a
process that we evolve towards.
In my journey towards You may I have the willingness to change.
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"Apply
your heart to instruction, And your ears to words of knowledge."
Proverbs 23:12
"The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I
have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more
abundantly."
John 10:10
"As far as the east is from the west, So far has He removed our
transgressions from us."
Psalm 103:12
"Therefore gird up the loins of your mind, be sober, and rest your
hope fully upon the grace that is to be brought to you at the revelation
of Jesus Christ."
1 Peter 1:13
"as obedient children, not conforming yourselves to the former lusts,
as in your ignorance; but as He who called you is holy, you also be holy
in all your conduct."
1 Peter 1:14-15
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Daily Inspiration
The presence of God in us puts a joy in our soul that is beyond our
ability to explain. Lord, when I open my self to this joy, I am renewed
and peaceful.
Let today's difficulties make you better not bitter. Lord, guide me,
protect me and work through me.
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NA Just For Today
Encouragement
"We share comfort and encouragement
with others."
Basic Text, p.95
Many of us have watched as babies take
their first steps. The mother holds the child on its feet. The father
kneels nearby with outstretched arms, encouraging the little one, his
face flooded with devotion. The baby takes a few small steps toward its
father. An older brother and sister cheer the tyke on. Baby falls down.
Its mother, murmuring words of comfort, picks the child up and starts
over again. This time, baby stays up until it is close enough to fall
into the safety of its father's arms. As newcomers, we arrive in the
rooms of NA much like this small child. Accustomed to living a life
crippled by addiction, full of fear and uncertainty, we need help to
stand. Just like a child beginning its march toward adulthood, we take
our halting first steps toward recovery. We learn to live this new way
of life because others who have gone before us encourage and comfort us
by telling us what worked-and what didn't work-for them. Our sponsor is
there for us when we need a push in the right direction.
Many times we feel like we can't take
another step in recovery. Just like a child learning to walk, we
sometimes stumble or fall. But our Higher Power always awaits us with
outstretched arms And like the child's brothers and sisters shouting
their encouragement, we, too, are supported by other NA members as we
walk toward a full life in recovery.
Just for today: I will seek
encouragement from others. I will encourage others who may need my
strength.
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You are reading from the book Today's
Gift.
Always think of what you have to do as
easy and it will become so. --Emile Corie
How we think about the activities
before us is very important. If we think cleaning the garage is hard,
dirty, and no chance for fun, that's just how it will feel. We'll be
tired before we even begin. However, if we approach it like a treasure
hunt, expecting to rediscover some long-forgotten treasures, we'll
enjoy the task. In fact, it will feel like a game.
The thoughts we carry in our minds
determine whether our tasks are fun or not. What good fortune it is
that we can control those thoughts. If we approach an assignment for
school or a job believing that we're able to do it, that it's not too
hard for us, we'll finish with ease. Our thoughts determine our
successes. In this way, our lives are in our own hands.
How much better can I make my life
today?
You are reading from the book
Touchstones.
In playing, and perhaps only in
playing, the child or adult is free to be creative. --D. W. Winnicott
There are so many activities called
play, which have not really been playful. Organized sports for youth,
which consumed some of us, are called play. The partying, which was
connected with some of our addictions, is called play. Reckless and
dangerous driving is called play. In recovery, some of us become
intensely focused on doing what's right, and we need a deeper
understanding to take the spiritual leap into creative play
This leap takes a willingness to let
go. Maybe we remember hurtful things happening when our guard was down.
Creative play involves trusting that every activity doesn't need a
worthy goal, doesn't need to be planned out. Pleasure, humor,
lightness, and aimless passing of time are forms of openness to the
spirit of God. It is experimenting, exploring, setting aside our
ordered and planned approach to most of life, and accepting that what
comes out will be all right.
God, help me see the possibilities for
play in the moments of this day.
You are reading from the book Each Day
a New Beginning.
I have listened to the realm of the
Spirit. I have heard my own soul's voice, and I have remembered that
love is the complete and unifying thread of existence. --Mary Casey
The act of loving someone else brings
us together, closes whatever the gap between us. It draws us into the
world of another, making richer the world we call our own. Love is the
great equalizer.
We no longer wish to conquer or
dominate those whom we love. And our love for one increases our
capacity for loving others. Love heals another, and love heals
ourselves, both giving it and receiving it.
Love from another acknowledges our
existence, assuring us that we do count, that someone else values our
presence. It is human to need these reminders, these assurances. But
our need for them is lessened each time we acknowledge another person
in our midst.
Where love is absent, people, even in
a crowd, feel alone, forgotten, and unimportant. No doubt we can each
recall times of quiet desperation moments of alienation. We must reach
out to someone and send thoughts of love to someone who may need to be
remembered. Our loving thoughts for persons close and far away always
reach their destination. They do unify us.
Love is powerful. It can change the
complexion of the universe. It will change the direction of my life.
You are reading from the book The
Language of Letting Go.
Bring Any Request to God
Bring any request you have to God.
No request is too large; none too
small or insignificant.
How often we limit God by not bringing
to God everything we want and need.
Do we need help getting our balance?
Getting through the day?
Do we need help in a particular
relationship? With a particular character defect? Attaining a character
asset?
Do we need help making progress on a
particular task that is challenging us? Do we need help with a feeling?
Do we want to change a self-defeating belief that has been challenging
us? Do we need information, an insight? Support? A friend?
Is there something in God's Universe
that would really bring us joy?
We can ask for it. We can ask God for
whatever we want. Put the request in God's hands, trusting it has been
heard then let it go. Leave the decision to God.
Asking for what we want and need is
taking care of ourselves. Trust that the Higher Power to whom we have
turned over our life and will really does care about us and about what
we want and need.
Today, I will ask my Higher Power for
what I want and need. I will not demand - I will ask. Then I will let
go.
Today I look within to find my truth.
I ask a power greater than myself to guide me and show me the way and
all I have to do is follow. It is that simple. --Ruth Fishel
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Journey To The Heart
Clear the Path to Your Heart
I watched Old Faithful from my window.
The geyser gurgled and spewed a low layer of steam. Then true to its
name, Old Faithful erupted and sprayed thousands of gallons of steaming
water into the air. Right on time.
A full range of gurgling emotions,
reactions, and responses to life line the pathway to the heart. We need
to feel them all– anger, hurt, sadness, irritations– in order to feel
joy. To experience life and all its wonders, we must embrace all these
feelings.
We need to experience the little anger
as well as the big hurts, the painful wounds that life sometimes
brings. To insist that we will only feel pleasant emotions means we’re
blocking the pathway to the heart. We’re ignoring all the other
gurgling emotions that need to be felt.
All our emotions are important; all
need to be recognized. The energy of each needs to be acknowledged and
released. This clears the way for love. All the emotions that precede
love clear the heart, so it’s pure and free to feel joy.
Trust your emotions. All of them.
You’re not off the path. They lead to the path you’re seeking. They are
the journey to the heart. Let them flow freely. And sure as Old
Faithful, your heart will come gleaming, shining through.
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More Language Of Letting Go
Stop building cases
You don’t have to build a big drama
around your life. We may need to end a relationship or explore a new
career. Instead of simply saying, This is what I’m going to do, we
build a case.
Like a lawyer getting ready to go to
court, we prepare our arguments. We take one feeling and build a
hundred-page document around it, prepared to battle our case.
You can build cases if you want to.
But usually, there’s a hidden feeling underneath all that case-building
that’s asking to be cleared. It could be a tinge of guilt or fear. Or
it could just be the belief that it’s not okay to clearly express
ourselves, say how it feels to us, and do what we need to do to take
care of ourselves.
Let go of the drama. Just say what you
need and how it feels to you.
Be as simple and clear as you can in
expressing yourself. If you find yourself building a case or creating a
big dramatic scene, take a moment. Why are you making such a fuss.
God, help me keep it simple,
especially when it comes to expressing myself.
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In God’s Care
We are only as sick as the secrets we
keep.
~~Anonymous
We all have our secrets. Some of them
we’re not about to tell anybody. God, of course, already knows them.
There may be some things we consider so shameful that we can’t share
them with anyone. But shame seperates us from God. It’s a way of saying
we are too horrible, too different – it’s a form of false pride.
To hide something means we’re holding
on to the shame. Not until we’re ready to admit to God, ourselves, and
another human being the nature of our secrets can we be rid of our
shame. But when we come to believe that we have nothing to fear from
sharing our secrets, God will transform them into something useful and
constructive. There is nothing we have ever done that can’t be used to
help someone, ourselves included.
Today I will share my secrets with
someone.
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Day By Day
Showing empathy
When we first got into recovery, most
of us were quite unhappy. We were in pain; we were vulnerable. We were
angry and impatient. We probably didn’t like ourselves very much and
may not have liked other people much.
But what if others had treated us
according to these feelings? Weren’t we forgiven? Accepted? (And if we
weren’t, wouldn’t it have been better if we had been?) Today, we see
that we are the same as everyone else who is struggling to achieve or
maintain a drug-free life. If we treat everyone well, it will help us
recover.
Am I practicing generosity and
compassion?
Higher Power, help me to treat others
as I would want to be treated.
Today I will be especially
campassionate toward…
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Food for Thought
Goals and Ends
Most of us came into this program with
a specific weight goal in mind. We thought that if only we could weigh
an ideal number of pounds, all of our other troubles would miraculously
vanish.
When we reach goal weight, we discover
that we still have to live with ourselves and deal with our problems.
If we have been developing a strong program as we have been losing
weight, we have a basis on which to work for further emotional and
spiritual growth.
Our emotional and spiritual goals are
not static. Since we never achieve perfection, there is always
opportunity for further progress. The beauty of the OA program is that
it is a program for life; its possibilities are limitless. To know and
do the will of our Higher Power is our ultimate goal as well as our
immediate one.
May I remember that You are my goal
today and always.
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The World in a Bright Light
Grateful by Madisyn Taylor
There is always something to be
grateful for even when life is hard and times are tough.
Everyday is a blessing, and in each
moment there are many things that we can be grateful for. The world
opens up to us when we live in a space of gratitude. In essence,
gratitude has a snowball effect. When we are appreciative and express
that gratitude, the universe glows a bit brighter and showers us with
even more blessings.
There is always something to be
grateful for, even when life seems hard. When times are tough, whether
we are having a bad day or stuck in what may feel like an endless rut,
it can be difficult to take the time to feel grateful. Yet, that is
when gratitude can be most important. If we can look at our lives,
during periods of challenge, and find something to be grateful for,
then we can transform our realities in an instant. There are blessings
to be found everywhere. When we are focusing on what is negative, our
abundance can be easy to miss. Instead, choosing to find what already
exists in our lives that we can appreciate can change what we see in
our world. We start to notice one blessing, and then another.
When we constantly choose to be
grateful, we notice that every breath is a miracle and each smile
becomes a gift. We begin to understand that difficulties are also
invaluable lessons. The sun is always shining for us when we are
grateful, even if it is hidden behind clouds on a rainy day. A simple
sandwich becomes a feast, and a trinket is transformed into a treasure.
Living in a state of gratitude allows us to spread our abundance
because that is the energy that we emanate from our beings. Because the
world reflects back to us what we embody, the additional blessings that
inevitably flow our way give us even more to be grateful for. The
universe wants to shower us with blessings. The more we appreciate
life, the more life appreciates and bestows us with more goodness.
Published with permission from Daily OM
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A Day At A Time
Reflection For The Day
Someone once defined the ego as “the
sum total of false ideas about myself.” Persistent reworking of the
Twelve Steps enables me to gradually strip away my false ideas about
myself. This permits nearly imperceptible but steady growth in my
understanding of the truth about myself. And this, in turn, leads to a
growing understanding of God and other human beings. Do I strive fro
self-honesty, promptly admitting when I’m wrong?
Today I Pray
God, teach me understanding; teach me
to know truth when I meet it; teach me the importance of self-honesty,
so that I may be able to say, sincerely, “I was wrong.” along with, “I
am sorry.” Teach me that there is such a thing as a “healthy ego” which
does not require that feelings be medicated by mood-alters. May I —
slowly, on my tightrope– move toward the ideal of balance, so I can do
away with the nets of falsehood and compulsion.
Today I Will Remember
To keep my balance.
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One More Day
The biggest thing in our today’s
sorrow is the memory of yesterday’s pain.
– Kahlil Gibran
Even though we intellectually know
that a chronic illness will never go away, we emotionally offer
ourselves a small glimmer of hope of recovery, of our lives going on as
before.
We may spend some time reviewing
life’s memories, closing out whole chapters, and dealing with how life
used to be. Then we can open a whole new section of life that allows us
to include pain and sickness as part of our days. We work in the frame
of reference of today. This is today’s problem, and we can work it into
our lives. Acknowledging that we are living a part of our lives
differently from before will be our first step toward adjustment. We
accept, we change, and we begin to create new joys in the present to
ease our sorrow.
By altering my goals, I once again can
move into the mainstream of life.
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One Day At A Time
HONESTY
“Our lives improve only when we take
chances ~
and the first and most difficult risk
we can take is to be honest with ourselves.”
Walter Anderson
After the initial shock and
realization that I am a compulsive overeater, it transpired that in
order to recover, I had to get honest. This was -- and still is -- a
painful process for me, yet it is an essential step towards my recovery.
First I had to admit that I wasn't in
control of my life and that recovery couldn't be achieved unaided. As
with most revelations, this was an uncomfortable truth to behold. I was
also prompted through honesty to stop blaming everyone else for my
unwillingness to help myself. I had to find conviction in my actions
and not just emptiness in my words.
I conceded that I am not as perfect as
I would like to think. I make mistakes and sometimes slip from the path
of recovery, but with honesty comes acceptance that I am only human.
This disease would deceive me into thinking that I am a failure when in
fact it's my actions that have failed me. Like a magician who performs
illusions for the crowd, this disease would have me think I have
committed unforgivable sins. Honesty is the key to my recovery; it
unlocks the chains that have imprisoned me for so long. It allows me to
recognize my weaknesses and turn them into strengths. It turns simple
existence into life ~ and inner-conflicts into outward serenity.
One day at a time...
I will be honest with myself.
~ Sue G.
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AA 'Big Book' - Quote
Upon therapy for the alcoholic
himself, we surely have no monopoly. Yet it is our great hope that all
those who have yet found no answer may begin to find one in the pages
of this book and will presently join us on the high road to a new
freedom. - Pg. xxi - 4th. Edition - Forward To Second Edition
Hour To Hour - Book - Quote
There are no magic wands or burning
bushes in our program. Just footwork and faith.
My footwork right now is to not use
any mind-affecting chemical and go to a meeting today.
One Foot in Front of the Other
Today, all I have to do is live the
next hour as well as I can. I will not get ahead of myself. I cannot be
anywhere but right where I am. When I allow myself to be here now, to
live in the present fully and freely, the rest of life takes care of
itself. So few people live in the moment, that in itself will make me
rare. That will make me someone I feel good about being and others can
enjoy being around. When I am in the moment, the next right action
reveals itself. When I align my will with the will of my Higher Power,
I become one with diving purpose and I connect with the spirituality of
life.
I surrender to the path
- Tian Dayton PhD
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
90 meetings in 90 days is not nearly
enough. Tell newcomers to always catch a ride or give a ride to their
daily meeting. This way they get a meeting on the way to the meeting, a
meeting during the meeting, and a meeting on the way home. That makes
270 meetings in the first 90 days!
Who am I taking to a meeting tonight?
"Walk Softly and Carry a Big Book" - Book
Any failure will tell you-success is
nothing but luck.
Time for Joy - Book - Quote
Today I look within to find my truth.
I ask a power greater than myself to guide me and show me the way and
all I have to do is follow. It is that simple.
Alkiespeak - Book - Quote
Nobody's any better than anyone else.
We're all just trying to stay away from a drink. The God that I was
looking for, over here, over there; in some guy, the right motorcycle,
the best tattoo. And all the time it was right here inside. And it's
hope, and I have it every day if I choose to look for it. And you have
it too, you have it right inside of yourself. I know that sounds like
an after school special like happy little Care Bears or something, but
it's really true. And you never have to drink again if you find that
little light inside yourself. You are so set. It's really excellent.
Sobriety rocks. - Gail.
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AA Thought for the Day
July 11
Here-and-Now
The nondrinking alcoholic discovers in
AA that you cannot Get Ahead until you learn to be Here.
We discover from our Serenity Prayer
that one of the things we cannot change is time.
The Here-and-Now is the only reality,
whereas in the unreal world of the drinking alcoholic
there was only yesterday-and-tomorrow.
- Came To Believe . . ., p. 113
Thought to Ponder . . .
Tomorrow, and all the tomorrows to
come, are but extensions of right here, right now.
AA-related 'Alconym' . . .
N O W = No Other Way.
~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
Anger
"It is a spiritual axiom that every
time we are disturbed,
no matter what the cause, there is
something wrong with us.
If somebody hurts us and we are sore,
we are in the wrong also.
But are there no exceptions to this
rule?
What about 'justifiable' anger?
If somebody cheats us, aren't we
entitled to be mad?
Can't we be properly angry with
self-righteous folk?
For us in AA these are dangerous
exceptions.
We have found that justifiable anger
ought to be left to those better
qualified to handle it."
1952AAWS, Twelve Steps and Twelve
Traditions, p. 90
Thought to Consider . . .
Anger is the hot wind that
extinguishes the light of reason.
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A N G E R = Any No Good Energy Rising
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Gifts
From: "The Opening to the Spiritual
World"
"This is the crux of the program and
the crux of living: acceptance and action.
"The gift of understanding has allowed
the simple messages from my parents, my teachers, and my church to take
on new meaning and soundness. With the gift of serenity, I am ready and
willing to accept what God permits to happen to me; with the gift of
courage, to take action to change the things I can for the good of
myself and others. The gift of wisdom has been given to me so that in
personal relationships I may act intelligently and with love or, as it
has also been expressed, with competence and compassion."
1973, AAWS, Inc., Came to Believe,
page 4
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"It should be the privilege, even the
right, of each individual or group to handle anonymity as they wish ...
Each individual will have to decide where he ought to draw the line --
how far he ought to carry the principle in his own affairs, how far he
may go in dropping his own anonymity without injury to Alcoholics
Anonymous as a whole."
AA Co-Founder, Bill W., January 1946
"A Tradition Born of Our Anonymity"
The Language of the Heart
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Twelve Quotes of the Day ^*~*~*~*~*
"Your job now is to be at the place
where you may be of maximum
helpfulness to others, so never
hesitate to go anywhere if you can
be helpful. You should not hesitate to
visit the most sordid spot on
earth on such an errand. Keep on the
firing line of life with these
motives and God will keep you
unharmed."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
Working With Others, pg. 102~
"Some drinkers have excuses with which
they are satisfied part of the
time. But in their hearts they really
do not know why they do it.
Once this malady has a real hold, they
are a baffled lot. There is
the obsession that somehow, someday,
they will beat the game. But
they often suspect they are down for
the count."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
There Is A Solution, pg. 23~
"Ask Him in your morning meditation
what you can do each day for the man who is still sick."
-Alcoholics Anonymous p. 164 (A Vision
For You)
"For us, if we neglect those who are
still sick, there is unremitting danger to our own lives and sanity."
-Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions p.
151 (Tradition Five)
Misc. AA Literature - Quote
The wonderful energy the Twelfth Step
releases, by which it carries our message to the next suffering
alcoholic and finally translates the Twelve Steps into action upon all
our affairs, is the payoff, the magnificent reality of A.A.
Never talk down to an alcoholic from
any moral or spiritual hilltop; simply lay out the kit of spiritual
tools for his inspection. Show him how they worked with you. Offer him
friendship and fellowship.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, do not allow me to forget
those who are still sick.