". . .OF ALL PERSONS WE HAD HARMED"
"...and became willing to make amends to them all."
TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 77
One of the key words in the Eighth Step is the word all. I am not free
to select a few names for the list and to disregard others. It is a
list of
all persons I have harmed. I can see immediately that this Step entails
forgiveness because if I'm not willing to forgive someone, there is
little
chance I will place his name on the list. Before I placed the first name
on my list, I said a little prayer: "I forgive anyone and everyone who
has ever harmed me at any time and under any circumstances."
It is well for me to contemplate a small, but very significant,
two-letter
word every time the Lord's Prayer is said. The word is as. I ask,
"Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against
us." In this case, as means, "in the same manner." I am asking to be
forgiven in the same manner that I forgive others. As I say this portion
of the prayer, if I am harboring hatred or resentment, I am inviting
more resentment, when I should be calling on the spirit of forgiveness.
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
"We have an allergy to alcohol. The action of alcohol on chronic
alcoholics is a manifestation of an allergy. We allergic types can never
safely use alcohol in any form at all. We cannot be reconciled to a life
without alcohol, unless we can experience an entire psychic change.
Once this psychic change has occurred, we who seemed doomed, we
who had so many problems that we despaired of ever solving them,
find ourselves able to control our desire for alcohol." Have I had a
psychic change?
Meditation For The Day
Ask God in daily prayer to give you the strength to change. When you
ask God to change you, you must at the same time fully trust Him. If
you do not fully trust Him, God may answer your prayer as a
rescuer does that of a drowning person who is putting up too much
of a struggle. The rescuer must first render the person still more
helpless, until he or she is wholly at the rescuer's mercy. just so must
we be wholly at God's mercy before we can be rescued.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may be daily willing to be changed. I pray that I may put
myself wholly at the mercy of God.
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As Bill Sees It
God Will Not
Desert Us, p. 221
"Word comes to me that you are making a magnificent stand in
adversity--this adversity being the state of your health. It gives me
a chance to express my gratitude for your recovery in A.A. and
especially for the demonstration of its principles you are now so
inspiringly giving to us all.
"You will be glad to know that A.A.'s have an almost unfailing
record in this respect. This, I think, is because we are so aware that
God will not desert us when the chips are down; indeed, He did not
when we were drinking. And so it should be with the remainder of
life.
"Certainly, He does not plan to save us from all troubles and
adversity. Nor, in the end, does He save us from so-called
death--since this is but an opening of a door into a new life, where
we shall dwell among His many mansions. Touching these things I
know you have a most confident faith."
Letter, 1966
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Walk In Dry Places
Confidence In the next phase.
Assurance
"God has carried me this far. I will not be let down now." These
are
brave words of recovering people who find themselves facing new doubts
and fears.
There's nothing unrealistic about this attitude. Those of us in 12 Step
programs and beneficiaries of a miraculous chain of events that brought
our movement into being. Our responsibility is to continue carrying the
message by proving how the program works.
It's our success in dealing with life's problems that eventually
attracts others to our fellow ship. The best proof of how our spiritual
program works is showing how our Higher Power continues to solve
problems in our lives.
We don't always know what the next phase in our lies will bring.
We
can only know that with God, all sorts of wonderful things continue to
be possible.
Though I can't see around the corner, I'll know today that my Higher
Power will guide me smoothly and safely through the next phase.
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Keep It Simple
If there is no wind, row.---Latin proverb
At times, staying sober will be easy; at other times, it will be hard.
But we must do what is needed to stay sober. Having a hard week? Go to
extra meetings. Feeling alone? Call a friend and ask if you can get
together. Feel like drinking? Go to a safe place until the urge
passes.
We have no choice. We must row when there's no wind. If not, we'll fall
back into our addiction.
If we work hard, we'll stay sober. Plus we'll grow as spiritual people.
Hard times test us and make better people. But this will only happen if
we keep our Higher Power and our program close to our heart.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, help me remember that I grow
during
hard times. I pray that
I'll accept and use what You've given me each day.
Action for the Day: Today, I'll list five things I learned from
my
program in hard
times.
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Each Day a New Beginning
For me, stopping smoking wasn't a matter of will power, but being
will-less. --Joan Gilbertson
Most of us have struggled, willfully, with untold numbers of
addictions; liquor, uppers, downers, sugar, chocolate, cigarettes, men.
The more we became determined to control our use or to abstain, the
greater the compulsion felt for one drink, one bite, one puff. Giving
in completely was the turning point.
This recovery program helps each of us find relief from our primary
addiction once we humble ourselves, accept our powerlessness, and ask
for help. It can help us equally effectively, every day, with any
problem we are willfully trying to control. Is a family member causing
us grief? Is a co-worker creating anxiety? Has a close friend pulled
away? We expend so much energy trying to manage outcomes! In most
cases, our attempt to control will invite even more resistance.
The program offers the way out of any frustrating situation. We can be
mindful of our powerlessness and cherish the opportunities offered by
our higher power. We can turn over whatever our problem to God and
quietly, trustingly, anticipate the resolution. It's guaranteed.
How much easier I will find life's experiences if I will let go of my
willful ways. The right outcome in all cases will more quickly surface.
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
Chapter
7 - WORKING WITH OTHERS
Now, the domestic problem: There may be divorce, separation, or just
strained relations. When your prospect has made such reparation as he
can to his family, and has thoroughly explained to them the new
principles by which he is living, he should proceed to put those
principles into action at home. That is, if he is lucky enough to have
a home. Though his family be at fault in many respects, he should not
be concerned about that. He should concentrate on his own spiritual
demonstration. Argument and fault-finding are to be avoided like the
plague. In many homes this is a difficult thing to do, but it must be
done if any results are to be expected. If persisted in for a few
months, the effect on a man’s family is sure to be great. The most
incompatible people discover they have a basis upon which they can
meet. Little by little the family may see their own defects and admit
them. These can then be discussed in an atmosphere of helpfulness and
friendliness.
pp. 98-99
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition Stories
ACCEPTANCE WAS THE ANSWER - The physician
wasn't hooked, he thought--he just prescribed drugs medically indicated
for his many ailments. Acceptance was his key to liberation.
For years I was sure the worst thing
that could happen to a nice guy like me would be that I would turn out
to be an alcoholic. Today I find it's the best thing that has
ever happened to me. This proves I don't know what's good for
me. And if I don't know what's good for me, then I don't know
what's good or bad for you or for anyone. So I'm better off if I
don't give advice, don't figure I know what's best, and just accept
life on life's terms, as it is today--especially my own life, as it
actually is. Before A.A. I judged myself by my intentions, while
the world was judging me by my actions.
pp. 417-418
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Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Tradition Five - "Each group has but one
primary purpose - to carry it's message to the alcoholic who still
suffers."
"Shoemaker, stick to thy last!" ... better do one thing supremely well
than many badly. That is the central theme of this Tradition. Around it
our Society gathers in unity. The very life of our Fellowship requires
the preservation of this principle.
p. 150
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You
can't
fly
a
kite
unless
you
go against the wind and have a weight
to keep it from turning somersaults. The same with man. No man
will succeed unless he is ready to face and overcome difficulties and
is prepared to assume responsibilities.
--William J. H. Boetcker
Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain - and most fools do.
But it takes character and self-control to be understanding and
forgiving.
--Dale Carnegie
Never assume you know who I am or what I'm doing, ask me a
question instead.
--Carol Neilson
Everything has its wonders, even darkness and silence, and I learn,
whatever state I may be in, therein to be content.
--Helen Keller
"I have held many things in my hands, and I have lost them all;
but whatever I have placed in God's hands, that I still possess."
--unknown
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
ACCEPTANCE
"The man who has become a
thinking being feels a
compulsion to give to every
creature the same reverence for
life that he gives to his own."
-- Albert Schweitzer
Today I accept people. Even the people with who I do not agree, I
accept. My freedom is dependent upon my attitude towards others.
My respect is rooted in the respect I give to others. God is to be found
in my neighbor!
Nowhere is this more true for me as a religious person than in my
attitude to people of other creeds --- and those who have none! The
spiritual life that unites me to God and the world requires not only
acceptance of "difference" but my personal need for it.
But more than this; even those who hurt, abuse and destroy need to be
accepted from within my spiritual self --- because something of their
life exists in mine. In this accepting love is the daily healing of my
disease.
May my acceptance of the tyrant lead to the forgiveness of the self.
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Whatever
you
do
or
say;
let
it be as a representative of the Lord Jesus.
Colossians 3:17
"Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own
understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will
make your paths straight."
Proverbs 3:5-6
"The LORD will guide you always; he will satisfy your needs in a
sun-scorched land and will strengthen your frame. You will be like
a well-watered garden, like a spring whose waters never fail."
Isaiah 58:11
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Daily Inspiration
A thoughtful gesture can accomplish so much and can
even be the beginning of a miracle. Lord, help me to warm the heart of
just one person today.
Keep your feet firmly planted in your faith and your eyes raised to the
heavens. Lord, You are my strength, my encouragement and my source of
all that is good.
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NA Just For Today
The Power Of Love
"We begin to see that God's love has
been present all the time, just waiting for us to accept it."
Basic Text, p.46
God's love is the transforming power
that drives our recovery. With that love, we find freedom from the
hopeless, desperate cycle of using, self-hatred, and more using. With
that love, we gain a sense of reason and purpose in our once
purposeless lives. With that love, we are given the inner direction and
strength we need to begin a new way of life: the NA way. With that
love, we begin to see things differently, as if with new eyes.
As we examine our lives through the
eyes of love, we make what may be a startling discovery: The loving God
we've so recently come to understand has always been with us and has
always loved us. We recall the times when we asked for the aid of a
Higher Power and were given it. We even recall times when we didn't ask
for such help, yet were given it anyway. We realize that a loving
Higher Power has cared for us all along, preserving our lives till the
day when we could accept that love for ourselves.
The Power of love has been with us all
along. Today, we are grateful to have survived long enough to become
consciously aware of that love's presence in our world and our lives.
Its vitality floods our very being, guiding our recovery and showing us
how to live.
Just for today: I accept the love of a
Higher Power in my life. I am conscious of that Power's guidance and
strength within me. Today, I claim it for my own.
pg. 231
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You are reading from the book Today's
Gift.
What is without periods of rest will
not endure. --Ovid
When we are tired, we need to stop and
give ourselves time to rest. Sometimes we think we can't spare the
time. But without rest, all our activity soon becomes a burden and
there is no joy in it. Animals know it is necessary to take time to
rest. This is part of the rhythm of life: activity and rest, effort and
relaxation.
Our bad moods are often our body's way
of telling us we need rest. When we were little, we needed naps.
Somehow, we forget to allow ourselves this right when we are older. We
are wise to remember we never outgrow this need for rest to make the
day go better.
When we return to our day refreshed,
we have given ourselves and all those around us the gift of ourselves
at our best.
What can I do better when I am rested?
You are reading from the book
Touchstones.
We must embrace the absurd and go
beyond everything we have ever known. --Janie Gustafson
We have stepped beyond the limits of
our former life and accepted the possibility of the unknown. Many of us
have always tried to be rational, to trust only what we could
understand or reason through. That attempt served the part of us that
lusted for control and power, but it kept us from unknown possibilities
and dreams.
When we decide to be less controlling,
we begin to believe in possibilities we didn't allow before. That is
how we let God influence our lives. Perhaps we don't see a reasonable
way to a more satisfying job, but we can be open to surprising
possibilities. We may see nothing we can do to overcome our
compulsions, but we pray for God to remove our shortcomings in God's
way, and already we have a new attitude.
God, give me the courage to step into
the unknown, the absurd, and experience the awakening of my spirit.
You are reading from the book Each Day
a New Beginning.
For me, stopping smoking wasn't a
matter of will power, but being will-less. --Joan Gilbertson
Most of us have struggled, willfully,
with untold numbers of addictions; liquor, uppers, downers, sugar,
chocolate, cigarettes, men. The more we became determined to control
our use or to abstain, the greater the compulsion felt for one drink,
one bite, one puff. Giving in completely was the turning point.
This recovery program helps each of us
find relief from our primary addiction once we humble ourselves, accept
our powerlessness, and ask for help. It can help us equally
effectively, every day, with any problem we are willfully trying to
control. Is a family member causing us grief? Is a co-worker creating
anxiety? Has a close friend pulled away? We expend so much energy
trying to manage outcomes! In most cases, our attempt to control will
invite even more resistance.
The program offers the way out of any
frustrating situation. We can be mindful of our powerlessness and
cherish the opportunities offered by our higher power. We can turn over
whatever our problem to God and quietly, trustingly, anticipate the
resolution. It's guaranteed.
How much easier I will find life's
experiences if I will let go of my willful ways. The right outcome in
all cases will more quickly surface.
You are reading from the book The
Language of Letting Go.
Asking for What We Need
Decide what it is you want and need,
then go to the person you need it from and ask for it.
Sometimes, it takes hard work and much
energy to get what we want and need. We have to go through the pains of
identifying what we want, then struggle to believe that we deserve it.
Then, we may have to experience the disappointment of asking someone,
having the person refuse us, and figuring out what to do next.
Sometimes in life, getting what we
want and need is not so difficult. Sometimes, all we need to do is ask.
We can go to another person, or our
Higher Power, and ask for what we need.
But because of how difficult it can
be, at times, to get what we want and need, we may get trapped in the
mind set of believing it will always be that difficult. Sometimes, not
wanting to go through the hassle, dreading the struggle, or out of
fear, we may make getting what we want and need much more difficult
than it needs to be.
We may get angry before we ask,
deciding that we'll never get what we want, or anticipating the "fight"
we'll have to endure. By the time we talk to someone about what we
want, we may be so angry that we're demanding, not asking; thus our
anger triggers a power play that didn't exist except in our mind.
Or we may get so worked up that we
don't ask--or we waste far more energy than necessary fighting with
ourselves, only to find out that the other person, or our Higher Power,
is happy to give us what we want.
Sometimes, we have to fight and work
and wait for what we want and need. Sometimes, we can get it just by
asking or stating that this is what we want. Ask. If the answer is no,
or not what we want, then we can decide what to do next.
Today, I will not set up a difficult
situation that doesn't exist with other people, or my Higher Power,
about getting what I want and need. If there is something I need from
someone, I will ask first, before I struggle.
Today I will take the time and quiet I
need to find that place of peace and happiness within me. Whatever
happens outside of me will never replace that which I can find within
me wherever I am. --Ruth Fishel
*****
Journey to the Heart
Grow in Your Sensitivity to Toxicity
Just as we are becoming more careful
about our earth and the toxins we put into the ground and air, so will
we grow in our sensitivity to events, people, places, and substances
that are toxic to us.
Our bodies will speak to us, tell us
what they don't want, what they can't handle anymore. Our bodies will
tell us what hurts, what we're allergic to, what we wish to move away
from. Often, underneath the toxins are old, embedded emotions. Release
the emotions and you release the toxins. Our bodies will gasp for
clarity, purity, cleansing, and detoxification.
What is toxic to one person may not be
toxic to the next. What my body wants and needs today may be different
from what yours wants and needs today. The answer is in listening--
listening to our bodies, listening to what they're saying, how they're
reacting to the people, the substances, the world around us. Listen.
What is your body telling you?
Grow in your sensitivity to toxicity.
Trust the messages from your body. Let yourself heal.
*****
more language of letting go
Be thankful when you get something else
Dear God,
Thank for for the baby brother, but what I prayed for was a puppy.
--Children's Letters to God
Sometimes we look around, assess the
situation, and decide what we think we need. So we go to God and begin
praying.
Out of the blue, our prayers get
answered. But the answer isn't what we requested. We were so specific,
we think. Now, this-- this thing-- has come along. We didn't get what
we asked for. Our prayers were answered, but we got something else.
Don't get bitter or so involved with
feeling blue about not getting what you requested that you miss out on
what you did receive. Wants and needs are closely connected. And all
our needs, even the ones we're not completely aware of yet, will be
met. Be grateful that God knows more about what we need than we do.
Sometimes when we pray, we get what
we want. Sometimes we get what we need. Accept both answers-- the yes's
and the something else's-- with heartfelt gratitude. Then look around
and see what your lesson and gift is.
God, help me remember to be thankful
even when the gift is not quite what I expected.
*****
Extra Weight
Choosing Loving Care by Madisyn Taylor
Our bodies are not our enemies, treat
it with the care and support your mind, body and spirit deserve.
Our bodies are like living temples,
and deserve all the love and care we can give them. Amazingly flexible
and strong, they allow us to experience the world. If we notice that
we’re not feeling our best, that we’ve put on extra weight, or that our
favorite clothes don’t fit, we can make the choice to be good to
ourselves in a new way today.
There are times we become conscious of
a deeper hunger that will not be satisfied physically. We can make a
new, healthier choice for ourselves in any moment, regardless of the
hour, day, week or month. And when we make the choice lovingly, we work
from a creative place of improving our lives and nurturing the best
within us, so there is no need to punish ourselves. From this place, we
can be gently honest with ourselves about the reasons we want to eat
certain foods. We can reach out to doctors to help us determine if our
bodies are out of balance at a level that requires something other than
basic nutrients. We can also reach out to our friends for support and
to share the journey of health, which is just another part of our
adventure on the physical plane.
When we treat ourselves and our bodies
as we would a trusted and loyal companion, we keep our energy free from
negative thoughts that would complicate our journey. Our bodies are not
our enemies, and we are not fighting a battle. Instead, we are
investing our love and attention into the care and support of a
beautiful creation—our selves. Published with permission from Daily OM
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A Day At A Time
Reflection For The Day
On numerous occasions, I’ve found that
there’s a strong connection between my fears and my resentments. If I
secretly fear that I’m inadequate, for example, I’ll tend to resent
deeply anybody whose actions or words expose my imagined inadequacy.
But it’s usually too painful to admit that my own fears and doubts
about myself are the cause of my resentments. It’s a lot easier to pin
the blame on someone Else’s “bad behavior” or “selfish motives” – and
use that as the justification for my resentment. Do I realize that by
resenting someone, I all that person to live rent-free in my head?
Today I Pray
May God help me overcome my feelings
of inadequacy. May I know that when I consistently regard myself as a
notch or two lower than the next person, I am not giving due credit to
my Creator, who has given each of us a special and worthwhile blend of
talents. I am, in fact, grumbling about God’s Divine Plan. May I look
behind my trash-pile of resentments for my own self-doubt.
Today I Will Remember
As I build myself up, I tear down my
resentments.
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One More Day
Usually when people are sad, they
don’t do anything. They just cry over their condition. But when they
get angry, they bring about a change.
– Malcolm X
Those of us who have a chronic illness
often feel a lot of anger, but we can choose how to deal with the
anger. If we insist on denying it, we may isolate ourselves and be
numbed by an unbearable sadness. Or we might lash out at the people we
love.
A sounder choice for us is to
acknowledge our anger — and our right to be angry. We don’t deserve
illness. Or pain. When we allow ourselves these honest reactions, we
are freer to move toward acceptance — and action. When we accept our
limitations — no matter how unfair they are — we then can decide where
and how and when we will make needed changes in our lives.
My anger can lead me toward growth if
I use it in the right ways.
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In God’s Care
We cannot always oblige, but we can
always speak obligingly.
~~Voltaire
Sometimes we forget that we’re all
special people who are in each others’ lives for a purpose. Our Higher
Power has guaranteed each of us love, growth, and support. In return,
we’re expected to treat our fellow travelers respectfully and
courteously. Abrupt or harsh comments put people on the defensive and
strain communication. Then none of us feels the support and love we
need from one another.
We can ease a friend or co-worker’s
troubles today by quietly, calmly relying on our Higher Power to help
us in our conversations. And when we are troubled, we don’t need to
project our tenseness or anxiety to everyone around us. We will gain
esteem for ourselves and show love to the other person if we share our
words in a loving tone. It’s relly so easy to decide to honor one
another in this way. In the process, we are honoring God too.
I will speak kindly and lovingly to
others today.
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Day By Day
Admitting unmanageability
“What do you mean, ‘unmangeable’?” we
ask when we first come into the program. (And we are surprised at the
smiling faces and suppressed chuckles.) We have been living with our
delusions for so long that we really believe everything is okay – or
will be okay next week. We simply can’t see how out of control our
lives truly are: angry creditors, unemployment, separation or divorce,
health problems.
Some of these situations were
ridiculous, others tragic – and still we fantasized that we were in
control. After a period of time in the program, however, living with
them seems hard to imagine. But if we still think we have control, we
need to ask for help in facing our delusions and our
tomorrow-will-be-better syndrome.
Have I turned the management of my
life over to God?
Higher Power, help me to truly accept
Step One.
I will look at what is unmanageable
in my life today by…
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Food For Thought
Daily Inventory
When we are not functioning up to par,
we need to find out where the problem is. If the day begins to fall
apart and we feel overwhelmed and unable to cope, it may be a good idea
to stop and take inventory.
Examining the quality of our
abstinence is a good place to begin. Have we permitted thoughts of
making a small exception here and there? Are we dwelling too much on
what we will have for the next meal? Did we make a substitution, which
gave us more carbohydrates than we could handle?
If the problem is not with abstinence,
then it must be in our emotional or spiritual life. Are we harboring
resentments, which are poisoning our outlook? Have we made a mistake,
which we are unwilling to admit? Is there something we need to do for a
family member that we are procrastinating about doing? Are we denying a
legitimate need of our own?
Grant me the honesty to confront my
weaknesses.
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One Day At A Time
~ ANSWERS ~
There is no need to run outside
For better seeing,
Nor to peer from a window.
Rather abide at the center of your
being.
Lao Tzu
I always looked for answers outside of
myself. I did not put the trust in my self and thought someone, anyone,
always knew better than me. I believed the advertisements and compared
myself to polished pictures of beautiful thin women.
As I recover from compulsive
overeating, I am learning that all of the answers are inside of me. I
need only to get quiet and listen to that still small voice. I pray
that my Higher Power will give me the willingness to go inside where my
truths lie.
One Day at a Time . . .
I look within and wait patiently ...
knowing the answers, however big or
small,
are all within.
~ Melissa S. ~
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AA 'Big Book' - Quote
As we discovered the principles by
which the individual alcoholic could live, so we had to evolve
principles by which A.A. groups and A.A. as a whole could survive and
function effectively. It was thought that no alcoholic man or woman
could be excluded from our Society; that our leaders might serve but
never govern; that each group was to be autonomous and there was to be
no professional class of therapy. - Pg. xix - 4th Edition - Forward To
The Second Edition
Hour To Hour - Book - Quote
When our minds clear (as the drugs of
alcohol, cocaine, pot, crystal, and heroin work out of our system), our
betrayals become clear. It is painful knowing we betrayed the trust of
our parents, our lovers, our children, our employers and our friends.
Most of all we betrayed ourselves. Our steps are the steps out of the
betrayal.
Higher Power, as I understand You,
help me face my betrayals with courage, knowing that each step will
contribute to healing the betrayals.
Appreciating What I Have
Today I won't let my desire for more,
blind me to what's already here. My life is full of blessings that I
look right past when all I see is what's missing rather than what is
there. Desire is natural and good, I need to feel it to grow and reach
beyond myself. But today, I will appreciate what I already have before
I ask for more. Appreciation is like water on a plant, it causes good
to grow in my life. What I appreciate expands. It grows before my eyes,
it deepens and widens. The mere act of appreciation somehow creates
more of what I am already giving thanks for. It opens doors to the
coffers of this generous world and invites the its bounty to come in.
Appreciation lets the creative universe know that I am grateful for
what is being so freely given to me.
Today I will appreciate what I have
knowing that it opens a doorway to increase
- Tian Dayton PhD
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
'Forgiveness is not an occasional act;
it is a permanent attitude.' ~Martin Luther King. Undoubtedly, there
are many on your list to forgive. There is only one whom you must
forgive 'that is yourself.'
Because my Higher Power forgives me, I
forgive myself.
"Walk Softly and Carry a Big Book" - Book
It's the twelve steps, not the twelve
standstills.
Time for Joy - Book - Quote
Today I will take the time and quiet I
need to find that place of peace and happiness within me. Whatever
happens outside of me will never replace that which I can find within
me wherever I am.
Alkiespeak - Book - Quote
Divine aid was AA's greatest asset. -
Bill W.
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AA Thought for the Day
August 9
Sunlight
He said, "Why don't you choose your
own conception of God?" That statement hit me hard.
It melted the icy intellectual
mountain in whose shadow I had lived and shivered many years.
I stood in the sunlight at last.
It was only a matter of being willing
to believe in a Power greater than myself.
Nothing more was required of me to
make my beginning.
- Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 12
Thought to Ponder . . .
I saw, I felt, I believed.
AA-related 'Alconym' . . .
A B C = Acceptance, Belief, Change.
~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
Service
"Service gladly rendered,
obligations squarely met,
troubles well accepted or solved with
God's help,
the knowledge that at home or in the
world outside
we are partners in a common effort,
the well-understood fact that in
God's sight
all human beings are important,
the proof that love freely given
surely brings a full return,
the certainty that we are no longer
isolated
and alone in self-constructed prisons,
the surety that we need no longer be
square pegs
in round holes
but can fit and belong in God's
scheme of things -
these are the permanent and
legitimate satisfactions
of right living
for which no amount of pomp and
circumstance,
no heap of material possessions,
could possibly be substitutes.
True ambition is not what we thought
it was."
1952AAWS, Twelve Steps and Twelve
Traditions, p. 124
Thought to Consider . . .
Service is love in work clothes.
*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
G O D = Group Of Drunks
*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*
Ego
From "The Three Legacies of
Alcoholics Anonymous":
"At the beginning I had liked this
title very much. But as the book-naming discussion went on, I began to
have certain doubts and temptations. From the start the title 'The Way
Out' was popular. If we gave the book this name, then I could add my
signature, 'By Bill W.'! After all why shouldn't an author sign his
book? I began to forget that this was everybody's book and that I had
been mostly the umpire of the discussions that had created it. In one
dark moment I even considered calling the book 'The B.W. Movement.' I
whispered these ideas to a few friends and promptly got slapped down.
Then I saw the temptation for what it was, a shameless piece of
egotism. So once more I began to vote for the title 'Alcoholics
Anonymous.'"
2001 AAWS, Inc.; Alcoholics Anonymous
Comes of Age, pgs. 165-66
*~*~*~*~*^ Grapevine Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"Every August, one of the founding
members of my group (a real character, who is jokingly said to be our
spiritual leader -- or is it spherical leader?) says that in honor of
the eighth month and Tradition Eight, he is offering a special discount
on sponsorship for anyone who needs it.
"Sometimes people take him up on the
offer, but a good proportion of them cancel during the introductory
trial period. Of course, this is all said in jest at our meetings, and
we get a good laugh out of it."
Lynwood, Washington, August 2004
"Professionalism and AA,"
AA Grapevine
*~*~*~*~*^ Big Book & Twelve N'
Twelve Quotes of the Day ^*~*~*~*~*
"When we became alcoholics, crushed
by a self-imposed crisis we could
not postpone or evade, we had to
fearlessly face the proposition that
either God is everything or else He
is nothing. God either is or He isn't."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
We Agnostics, pg. 53~
"We usually conclude the period of
meditation with a prayer that we
be shown all through the day what our
next step is to be, that we be
given whatever we need to take care
of such problems. We ask
especially for freedom from
self-will, and are careful to make no
request for ourselves only. We may
ask for ourselves, however, if
others will be helped. We are careful
never to pray for our own
selfish ends. Many of us have wasted
a lot of time doing that and it
doesn't work."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
Into Action, pg. 87~
“We trust infinite God rather than
our finite selves.”
-Alcoholics Anonymous p. 68
“There is a direct linkage among
self-examination, meditation, and prayer. Taken separately, these
practices can bring much relief and benefit. But when they are
logically related and interwove, the result is an unshakable foundation
for life.”
-Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
p. 98
Misc. AA Literature - Quote
Word comes to me that you are making
a magnificent stand in adversity - this adversity being the state of
your health. It gives me a chance to express my gratitude for your
recovery in A.A. and especially for the demonstration of its principles
you are now so inspiringly giving to us all.
You will be glad to know that A.A.'s
have an almost unfailing record in this respect. This, I think, is
because we are so aware that God will not desert us when the chips are
down; indeed, He did not when we were drinking. And so it should be
with the remainder of life.
Certainly, He does not plan to save
us from all troubles and adversity. Nor, in the end, does He save us
from so-called death - since this is but an opening of a door into a
new life, where we shall dwell among His many mansions. Touching these
things I know you have a most confident faith.
Prayer for the Day:
Lord, show me the way and I will
follow.