"MADE A LIST. . . . "
Made a list of all persons we had harmed, . . . .
TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS , p. 77
When I approached the Eighth Step, I wondered how I could
list all the things that I have done to other people
since there were so many people, and some of them weren't
alive anymore. Some of the hurts I inflicted weren't bad,
but they really bothered me. The main thing to see in
this Step was to become willing to do whatever I had to
do to make these amends to the best of my ability at that
particular time. Where there is a will, there's a way,
so if I want to feel better, I need to unload the guilt
feeling I have. A peaceful mind has no room for feeling
of guilt. With the help of my Higher Power, if I am honest
with myself, I can cleanse my mind of these feelings.
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
For awhile, we are going back to the Big Book, Alcoholics
Anonymous, and pick out passages here and there, so that
they may become fixed in our minds, a little at a time,
day by day, as we go along. There is no substitute for
reading the Big Book. It is our "bible." We should study
it thoroughly and make it a part of ourselves. We should
not try to change any of it. Within its covers is the
full exposition of the A.A. program. There is no substitute
for it. We should study it often. Have I studied the Big
Book faithfully?
Meditation For The Day
All of life is a fluctuation between effort and rest. You
need both every day. But effort is not truly effective until
first you have had the proper preparation for it, by resting
in a time of quiet meditation. This daily time of rest and
meditation gives you the power necessary to make your best
effort. There are days when you are called on for much effort
and then comes a time when you need much rest. It is not good
to rest too long and it is not good to carry on great effort
too long without rest. The successful life is a proper
balance between the two.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may be ready to make the proper effort. I pray
that I may also recognize the need for relaxation.
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As Bill
Sees It
In
Partnership, p. 220
As we made spiritual progress, it became clear that, if we ever were
to feel emotionally secure, we would have to put our lives on a
give-and-take basis; we would have to develop the sense of being
in partnership or brotherhood with all those around us. We saw
that we would need to give constantly of ourselves without demand
for repayment. When we persistently did this, we gradually found
that people were attracted to us as never before. And even if
they failed us, we could be understanding and not too seriously
affected.
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The unity, the effectiveness, and even the survival of A.A. will
always depend upon our continued willingness to give up some of our
personal ambitions and desires for the common safety and welfare.
Just as sacrifice means survival for the individual alcoholic, so
does sacrifice mean unity and survival for the group and for A.A.'s
entire Fellowship.
1. 12 & 12, pp. 115-116
2. A.A. Comes Of Age, pp. 287-288
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Walk In Dry Places
No self-deception
Honesty
Most of the time, other people don't really deceive us. We deceive
ourselves by refusing to face life realistically. We often believe
false information simply because we want to believe it.
Living on a 12 Step basis should enable us to face reality without
becoming cynical or pessimistic. If a friend appears to be lying to us,
for example, we can accept this as a single lie, not as a complete
betrayal. In addition, we learn not to lie to ourselves. This helps us
avoid shaky business schemes and unrealistic hopes.
At the same time, we can still retain our capacity for believing in
wonders and miracles. We have experienced enough miracles to prove that
they really happen.
I'll use my head as much as possible today to help keep my heart from
getting me into trouble, but I'll remember that it's what's in my heart
that counts.
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Keep It Simple
Adventure is not outside a man; it is within.---David Grayson
Sobriety. It's an exciting adventure. It's a spiritual adventure. We
look
inward. We find where our Higher Power lives: within us. We then reach
outward. We share our joy with others. Not with words and preaching,
but
by trying to help others. Sobriety is faith turned into action.
Sobriety. It's an adventure in coming to know one's self. At times,
we'll
have to face our fears. But we'll also find just how much love we have
for life.
Sobriety. It's as if we're on a trip. Our Higher Power holds the map.
Our
job is to listen. And we go in the direction we're told.
Prayer for the Day: I pray to be an adventurer. Higher Power, I
pray
to follow Your
direction.
Action for the Day: I'll ask some friends to tell me about an
adventure their Higher Power
has taken them on.
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Each Day a New Beginning
I'm a most lucky and thankful woman. Lucky and thankful for each
morning I wake up. For three wonderful daughters and one son. For an
understanding and very loving husband with whom I've shared 52 blessed
years, all in good health.
--Thelma Elliott
Gratitude for what's been offered us in our lives softens the harsh
attitudes we occasionally harbor. Life presents us with an assortment
of blessings; some bring us immediate joy; some invite tears; others
foster fear. What we need help in understanding is that all experiences
are meant for our good, all bless us in some manner. If we are able to
see the big picture, we'd greet all situations, large and small, with a
thankful heart.
It's so very easy to wish away our lives, never finding satisfaction
with our families, our jobs, and our friends. The more we find fault
with life, the more fault we are guaranteed to find. Negative attitudes
attract negative experiences; while positive attitudes lighten whatever
burden we may be learning from.
The years pass so quickly. Our chances to enjoy life pass quickly too.
We can grab what comes our way and be grateful. We are never certain
that this experience offered now might not be our last.
Each morning I awake is blessing number one.
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
Chapter 7 - WORKING
WITH
OTHERS
Burn the idea into the consciousness of every man that he can get well
regardless of anyone. The only condition is that he trust in God and
clean house.
p. 98
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition Stories
ACCEPTANCE WAS THE ANSWER
- The physician wasn't hooked, he thought--he just prescribed drugs
medically indicated for his many ailments. Acceptance was his key
to liberation.
Shakespeare said, "All the world's a
stage, and all the men and women merely players." He forgot to
mention that I was the chief critic. I was always able to see the
flaw in every person, every situation. And I was always glad to
point it out, because I knew you wanted perfection, just as I
did. A.A. and acceptance have taught me that there is a bit of
good in the worst of us and a bit of bad in the best of us; that we are
all children of God and we each have a right to be here. When I
complain about me or about you, I am complaining about God's
handiwork. I am saying I know better than God.
p. 417
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Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Tradition Four - "Each
group should be autonomous except in matters affecting other groups or
A.A. as a whole."
Thus it was that under Tradition Four an A.A. group had exercised its
right to be wrong. Moreover, it had performed a great service for
Alcoholics Anonymous, because it had been humbly willing to apply the
lessons it learned. It had picked itself up with a laugh and gone on to
better things. Even the chief architect, standing in the ruins of his
dream, could laugh at himself - and that is the very acme of humility.
p. 149
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I
got
the
blues
thinking
of
the
future, so I left off and made some
marmalade. It's amazing how it cheers one up to shred oranges and
scrub the floor.
--D. H. Lawrence
There is more time than life.
--Mexican Proverb
If it wasn't for the last minute, nothing would get done.
--unknown
I don't want people who want to dance, I want people who 'have'
to dance.
--George Balanchine
"Don't judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds
you plant."
--Robert Louis Stevenson
"You see, in life, lots of people know what to do, but few people
actually do what they know. Knowing is not enough! You must
take action."
--Anthony Robbins
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
MONEY
"Money often costs too much."
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Money can be a curse. It can destroy people. Money in itself has no
value. It needs to be "used" or "put to work". The problem is that
many people think it can work miracles, i.e., "make me happy", "give
me self-esteem", "bring love into my life", "remove my loneliness",
"cure my insecurities and remove my alcohol or drug problems!" The
historical list of wealthy casualties indicates that this is not the
case.
We cannot "buy" ourselves out of a disease! In this sense, money
costs too much.
Because I have a compulsive nature, I need to be aware of my desire
for money and the responsible way I need to use it. Spirituality
involves the use of money. I need to be positive in my attitude towards
money but also creative about how to use it.
I need always to remember that true wealth is found in my discovery
of the God within and not in the clothes I wear.
O God, let me make money serve me; may I never be foolish enough
to serve it.
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"Teach
me, O Lord, the way of Your statutes; And I shall keep it to
the end. Give me understanding, and I shall keep your law; Indeed, I
shall observe it with my whole heart. Make me walk in the path of
Your commandments, for I delight in it."
Psalm 119:33-35
Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your
own understanding.
Proverbs 3:5
"We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up
against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to
make it obedient to Christ."
2 Corinthians 10:5
"He answered: " `Love the Lord your God with all your heart and
with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind';
and, `Love your neighbor as yourself.'"
Luke 10:27
"And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard
your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."
Philippians 4:7
"Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be
transformed by the renewing of your mind."
Romans 12:2b
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Daily Inspiration
There is never a moment that we cease being a child
of God. Lord, Your love fills me with the ability to love all of Your
children. Help me to set aside any hurts or reservations that I have
and treat all as You would.
Often times that which we find difficult is that which teaches. Lord,
may I always be able to see the good that comes from even my trials.
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NA Just For Today
Responsible Recovery
"We accept responsibility for our
problems and see that we're equally responsible for our solutions."
Basic Text, p.94
Some of us, well accustomed to leaving
our personal responsibilities to others, may attempt the same behavior
in recovery. We quickly find out it doesn't work.
For instance, we are considering
making a change in our lives, so we call our sponsor and ask what we
should do. Under the guise of seeking direction, we are actually asking
our sponsor to assume responsibility for making decisions about our
life. Or maybe we've been short with someone at a meeting, so we ask
that person's best friend to make our apologies for us. Perhaps we've
imposed on a friend several times in the last month to cover our
service commitment. Could it be that we've asked a friend to analyze
our behavior and identify our shortcomings, rather than taking our own
personal inventory?
Recovery is something that has to be
worked for. It isn't going to be handed to us on a silver platter, nor
can we expect our friends or our sponsor to be responsible for the work
we must do ourselves. We recover by making our own decisions, doing our
own service, and working our own steps. By doing it for ourselves, we
receive the rewards.
Just for today: I accept
responsibility for my life and my recovery.
pg. 230
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You are reading from the book Today's Gift.
The important thing is not to conquer
but to have fought at all. --Olympic motto
People come from all over the world to
participate in the Olympics, and they come with a wide range of talent.
A lot of them know they will not win a medal, yet they have trained
hard for their event. They meet people from all corners of the earth
who love the same activity.
There is a contagious joy and
excitement the athletes share in their time together. It is a sense
that the sharing of worldwide joy and peace is indeed possible.
Whether we succeed or fail in what we
do is not the essential thing. What is important is the heart with
which we live our lives.
If I could share something with the
world, what would it be?
You are reading from the book
Touchstones.
I got the blues thinking of the
future, so I left off and made some marmalade. It's amazing how it
cheers one up to 'shred oranges and scrub the floor. --D. H. Lawrence
Focusing on pain or having
difficulties can put us in a rut, and we neglect the other things in
our lives. A simple task like making marmalade can be a brief vacation.
We change our thought patterns when we change activities. The simple
action of doing something pleasant might inject a new feeling into our
outlook. Sharing a problem with a friend may be all we need to see it
more clearly or let it go. Moving from busy physical activity to a few
moments of quiet contemplation creates an inner balance. A problem that
seems overwhelming at night may be met with new insight and new energy
after a night's rest.
We don't have to continue feeling like
victims of circumstance or remain stuck with a nagging problem. Just
like changing the subject of a conversation, we can change the subject
of our attention for a time. When we do, we regain our sense of hope
and change our responses.
Today, I will give myself a break when
I become caught or obsessed with a problem.
You are reading from the book Each Day
a New Beginning.
I'm a most lucky and thankful woman.
Lucky and thankful for each morning I wake up. For three wonderful
daughters and one son. For an understanding and very loving husband
with whom I've shared 52 blessed years, all in good health.
--Thelma Elliott
Gratitude for what's been offered us
in our lives softens the harsh attitudes we occasionally harbor. Life
presents us with an assortment of blessings; some bring us immediate
joy; some invite tears; others foster fear. What we need help in
understanding is that all experiences are meant for our good, all bless
us in some manner. If we are able to see the big picture, we'd greet
all situations, large and small, with a thankful heart.
It's so very easy to wish away our
lives, never finding satisfaction with our families, our jobs, and our
friends. The more we find fault with life, the more fault we are
guaranteed to find. Negative attitudes attract negative experiences;
while positive attitudes lighten whatever burden we may be learning
from.
The years pass so quickly. Our chances
to enjoy life pass quickly too. We can grab what comes our way and be
grateful. We are never certain that this experience offered now might
not be our last.
Each morning I awake is blessing
number one.
You are reading from the book The
Language of Letting Go.
Saying Yes
Yesterday we talked about learning to
say no. Today let's discuss another important word: Yes.
We can learn to say yes to things that
feel good, to what we want - for others and ourselves.
We can learn to say yes to fun. Yes to
meetings, to calling a friend, asking for help.
We can learn to say yes to healthy
relationships, to people and activities that are good for us.
We can learn to say yes to ourselves,
what we want and need, our instincts, and the leading of our Higher
Power.
We can learn to say yes when it feels
right to help someone. We can learn to say yes to our feelings. We can
learn to identify when we need to take a walk, take a nap, have our
back rubbed, or buy ourselves flowers.
We can learn to say yes to work that
is right for us.
We can learn to say yes to all that
will nurture and nourish us. We can learn to say yes to the best life
and love has to offer.
Today, I will say yes to all that
feels good and right.
The peace that I feel in my life is
growing richer every day. As I continue to walk on my spiritual path to
recovery, I let myself be guided by truth and love. Conflict is
leaving, making more and more room for charity, serenity and
usefulness. --Ruth Fishel
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Composing Bliss
Poetry as Meditation by Madisyn Taylor
Sculpting your thoughts into a poem
can take you on a journey where your conscious mind is momentarily cast
adrift.
The creation of any kind of art can be
as much a form of meditation as a vehicle for self-expression.
Energetically splashing colors of paint onto a canvas can be like
casting the weight of the world off your shoulders, while raising your
voice to hit the high notes of a song can inspire you to release your
fears so you can reach new heights in your own life. And then there is
the act of meditation that can take place when you create poetry.
Sculpting your thoughts and emotions into a poem can take you on a
journey into your inner universe where your conscious mind is
momentarily cast adrift.
Like other forms of meditation,
writing poetry requires that you stay fully present during the process,
rather than focusing on any outcome. In doing so, you release any
inhibitions or ideas of “what needs to happen,” so that your thoughts
can flow freely through you. When you write poetry, you are able to see
the reflections of your innermost self imprinted on a page.
If you’d like to experience poetry as
a meditation practice, you might want to try this exercise: Set aside
twenty minutes where you can be alone in a quiet space. You may want to
look at poems other people have written to see if there is a style of
poetry you would like to try. You can also try writing in freeform. The
structure of the poem will then organically reveal itself to you. When
you are ready, sit down with pen and paper and let the words flow.
Don’t think about what you are going to say next, and don’t worry about
spelling, grammar, or logic. Instead, be as descriptive, visually
precise, rhythmic, or lyrical as you want to be. When you feel
complete, put the pen down, and read over what you’ve written.
Appreciate this work of art you have created. You may even find that
thoughts and emotions you had repressed before are now making
themselves known so you can process and release them. Writing poetry as
a form of meditation lets you slow down your mind long enough for you
to get out of your own way, so that your soul can freely express its
deepest yearnings. Published with permission from Daily OM
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Journey to the Heart
Touch the Timeless Rhythms of Life
Chaco Canyon, New Mexico, touched me
deeply, profoundly. It sang to my soul. I walked through the canyon
viewing the remnants of the Anasazi culture, touching, seeing,
experiencing what was left of their sophisticated society, a
civilization over two thousand years old. I felt reverence and humility
as I touched the stones of a culture that no longer existed. I could
almost see the people who lived there, busy with their work, their
relationships, their goals, their fears and hopes. Just like us. I
wondered if they knew that someday their society would be extinct,
gone, vanished. I wondered if they knew how important they were, how
each of us plays a tiny part in the eternal dance of the universe.
It's so easy to become consumed by
the details of our lives, to be impressed with the technology of our
own society, to get lost in the business and busyness of our ways. But
it's important to remember ancient cultures, other civilizations, other
lives lived long ago-- the lessons of our planet, the timeless lessons
of love and life. I wept with wonder, awe, and joy at how important yet
humble each of our lives is. My soul vibrated with the awareness of
eternity with the infinite rhythms of life.
I lingered at Chaco Canyon, not
wanting to leave. A still voice whispered to my soul, reminding me that
I could return as often as I needed and wanted, because this place was
now part of me, part of my heart.
Allow your soul to awaken. Allow it to
soar. Touch the timeless rhythm and cycles of life.
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more language of letting go
You're being protected
It's easy to be thankful for answered
prayers, easy to be joyfully grateful when the universe gives us
exactly what we want. What's not so easy is to remember to be grateful
when we don't get what we want.
John wanted an executive position in
the company he worked for. He worked hard for the promotion. He prayed
daily for his promotion, while giving a hundred percent of his energy
and dedication to the position that he was in. But when the time came,
he was passed over for his dream job. He left the company shortly after
that. Today, he runs his own company with more responsibility, success,
and joy than he could have ever hoped for at his old firm.
Susan, a recovering addict, wanted to
date Sam more than anything. They got along great those times they ran
into each other at work. He was charming, handsome, and sober, she
thought. For months she tried to arrange a date with him, prayed that
God would bring him into her life. But things never seemed to work out.
She didn't know why. He seemed so interested in her. She was positive
that the relationship was divinely ordained. She was stunned when she
arrived at work one morning to find that Sam had died the night before
of a drug overdose. He had been using drugs and lying about it the
whole time.
Sometimes we get what we ask for.
Sometimes we don't. God says, "No." Be grateful-- force gratitude; fake
it if you must-- when God answers your furtive prayers by saying no.
Take the rejections with a smile. Let
God's "no's" move you happily down the road. Maybe you're not being
punished, after all. Maybe God's protecting you from yourself.
God, thank you for not always giving
me what I think is best.
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A Day At A Time
Reflection For The Day
As a recovering alcoholic, I have to
remind myself that no0 amount of social acceptance of resentments will
take the poison out of them. In a way, the problem of resentments is
very much like the drinking problem. Alcohol is never safe for me; no
matter who is offering it. I’ve attended cocktail receptions for worthy
causes, often in a convivial atmosphere that makes drinking seem almost
harmless. Just as I politely but adamanity decline alcohol under any
conditions, will I also refuse to accept resentments — no matter who is
serving them?
Today I Pray
When anger, hurt, fear or guilt — to
be socially acceptable — put on their polite, pary manners, dress up as
resentment and come in the side door, may I not hobnob with them. These
emotions, disguised as they are, can be a full of trickery as the
chemicals themselves.
Today I Will Remember
Keep an eye on the side door.
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One More Day
Man can do much for himself as
respects his own improvement, unless self-love so blinds him that he
cannot see his own imperfections and weaknesses.
– Martha Wilson
Remember Hide and Seek? Oleeey oleeey
in free? What wonderful times they were when we were so certain we
could hide from others. Now we are adults, and one would think we are
no longer hiding. That’s not, unfortunately, always true. Many of us
hide within negative behaviors which become habits.
Looking at our own weaknesses is a
difficult task. We understand we have character defects, but we’re
afraid to change our familiar patterns. If we can admit there is a
problem, we’ve taken the first step. Wanting to change comes next.
Finally, we won’t be hiding anymore.
Self-improvement is within my reach if
I admit my negative behavior.
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In God’s Care
The first step toward inner peace is
to decide to give love, not receive it.
~~Bernie S. Siegel
“This is a selfish program.” How many
time have we heard this? It is true, of course. Whenever we make a
Twelfth Step call we are doing it essentially for ourselves. We always
benefit. God has given us this direct accesss to happiness, It is a
lovely paradox that when we give we also receive. We are always helped
by trying to help another.
Our decision to give love, then, can
be a calculated one – we already know the results. This shouldn’t be
our motive though. Wondering what we are getting out of giving to
others can be a hindrance to our peace of mind because we’re missing
God’s point. If we concentrate on the giving, the receiving will take
care of itself.
Today I will try to give unselfishly.
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Day By Day
Recovering love
Our Higher Power has always loved us
and always will. Our problem is learning to accept and believe that.
While using mood-altering chemicals, we were unable to accept this
love. Later, we could not even believe in this love. And for many of
us, the same problems are true in our other relatioships.
By getting free of mood-altering
chemicals, by getting into recovery and going to Twelve Step meetings,
we will see love in action. We will see that it is real and can be
trusted. We will feel its power to heal and make whole.
Am I experiencing love again?
Higher Power, help me to absorb the
love that flows in the fellowship.
Today I will be especially loving
toward…
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Food For Thought
Reflecting Light
We are made to reflect the goodness
and light of our Higher Power. In order to do this, we need to be as
free as possible of the negative emotions and self-will which block out
God’s light. The light is always here. It is our job to keep ourselves
free from the entanglements and hang-ups, which cloud our vision.
Our primary means of staying in the
light is to abstain from compulsive overeating. Without clean
abstinence, we become muddled in our thinking and in our emotions.
God’s light and love can shine through our lives if we are physically
ready to receive and reflect.
Working the Steps frees us from the
negative emotions, which block out the light. At first we may have
wondered how the Twelve Steps were related to our problems. As we
progress in the program, we see that without the spiritual growth,
which they facilitate, we cannot be fully open to the light from our
Higher Power.
Prepare me to reflect Your light.
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One Day At A Time
~ HAPPINESS ~
Happiness is never something you get
from other
people. The happiness you feel is in
direct
proportion to the love you are able to
give.
Oprah Winfrey
I learned a great lesson while
grieving the loss of my three-year-old son. It was Christmas time. I
had three other children who were looking forward to a wonderful day
with all the trimmings, but my heart was despairing. I came to the
realization that I could take the experience one moment at a time. Some
of those moments would be very sad, but some of those little periods of
time would be joyful. I found out that happiness is moments, not a
state of being. We can take those joyful moments and treasure them
until they accumulate into happiness. We have the choice to treasure
them or to allow them to disappear in our lack of gratitude and
appreciation.
Every day there is joy that we miss
because we aren't looking for it. When I look back at the end of the
day and add up the good moments, I often realize there is so much joy
in my life. I learn to appreciate the little things.
That Christmas is remembered more for
those little moments of joy. The love in my heart for the other
children helped me to rise above the despair and reach out to give them
a gift of happiness on that treasured holiday.
One day at a time...
I strive to see the good in each
moment.
~ Dottie ~
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AA 'Big Book' - Quote
It was only a matter of being willing
to believe in a Power greater than myself. Nothing more was required of
me to make my beginning. I saw that growth could start from that point.
Upon a foundation of complete willingness I might build what I saw in
my friend. - Pg. 12 - Bill's Story
Hour To Hour - Book - Quote
Now is the time for action with our
welcoming. As people come to their first meetings, shaking, scared, and
confused, we give them our phone numbers, take them to meetings, and
teach them what we have already learned. We use each day at the end of
our first month as a forum to help others, not just with words now but
with action.
Higher Power, as I understand You,
show me on my 28th day how to help one other person in their recovery.
Being with Life
Today, I allow myself just to be with
life. Somehow it doesn't have to prove anything to me or give me any
more than I already have to be okay. The lessons I have learned through
sincere dedication to my own inner growth, have taught me that I can
face my most difficult feelings and still come home to a place of love
and acceptance. Life is always renewing itself; nothing lasts, good or
bad, and that is just the way it is. It is enough today to enjoy my
coffee, to take a walk, to appreciate the people in my life. I can rest
in a quiet sort of understanding that this is what it's all about; all
the searching turned up such an ordinary but beautiful thing.
I am enraptured with the ordinary
- Tian Dayton PhD
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
Our lives become very different once
we learn to magnify our blessings the way we have our troubles.
What I think about enlarges. Am I
enlarging my blessings or my troubles?
"Walk Softly and Carry a Big Book" - Book
Practice these principles in all your
affairs-or change your affairs.
Time for Joy - Book - Quote
The peace that I feel in my life is
growing richer every day. As I continue to walk on my spiritual path to
recovery, I let myself be guided by truth and love. Conflict is
leaving, making more and more room for charity, serenity and usefulness.
Alkiespeak - Book - Quote
I argued with my sponsor about God. He
wrote on a piece of paper: 'God as I understand God is...' and said,
'Go home and finish this sentence. So, I thought about this for a long
time, then wrote pages and pages about what I thought was the
quintessential distillation of every theory, every religious notion
about God. And here I had created the perfect one. I took it back to
him, he didn't even look at it, he just crumpled it up and said: 'Good,
now go home and pray to it.' - John L.
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AA Thought for the
Day
August 8
Self-concern
If we cannot or will not achieve
sobriety, then we become truly lost, right in the here and now.
We are of no value to anyone,
including ourselves, until we find salvation from alcohol.
Therefore, our own recovery and
spiritual growth have to come first -- a right and necessary kind of
self-concern.
- As Bill Sees It, p. 81
Thought to Ponder . . .
I would rather go through life sober,
believing I am an alcoholic,
than go through life drunk, trying to
convince myself that I am not.
AA-related 'Alconym' . . .
S W A T = Surrender, Willingness,
Acceptance, Trust.
~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
Growth
"Regardless of worldly success or
failure,
regardless of pain or joy,
regardless of sickness or health or
even of death itself,
a new life of endless possibilities
can be lived
if we are willing to continue our
awakening,
through the practice of AA's Twelve
Steps."
Bill W., AAGrapevine, December 1957
1967AAWS, As Bill Sees It, p. 8
Thought to Consider . . .
AA is not something you join, it's a
way of life.
*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
G I F T S = Getting It From The Steps.
*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*
Criticize Neither
From: "Word of Mouth"
In my view, there isn't the slightest
objection to groups who wish to remain strictly anonymous, or to people
who think
they would not like their membership
in A.A. known at all. That is their business, and this is a very
natural reaction
However, most people find that
anonymity to this degree is not necessary, or even desirable. Once one
is fairly sober,
and sure of this, there seems no
reason for failing to talk about A.A. membership in the right places.
This has a
tendency to bring in other people.
Word of mouth is one of our most important communications.
So we should criticize neither the
people who wish to remain silent, nor even the people who wish to talk
too much
about belonging to A.A., provided they
do not do so at the public level and thus compromise our whole Society
Letter, 1962 1967, AAWS, Inc., As Bill
Sees It, page 120
*~*~*~*~*^ Grapevine Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"The word 'anonymous' has for us an
immense spiritual significance. Subtly but powerfully it reminds us
that we are
always to place principles before
personalities; that we have renounced personal glorification in public;
that our
movement not only preaches, but
actually practices a truly humble modesty."
AA Co-Founder, Bill W., January 1946
"A Tradition Born of Our Anonymity"
The Language of the Heart
*~*~*~*~*^ Big Book & Twelve N'
Twelve Quotes of the Day ^*~*~*~*~*
"'There is a principle which is a bar
against all information, which
is proof against all arguments and
which cannot fail to keep a man in
everlasting ignorance that principle
is contempt prior to investigation.'"
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
Appendice II, Spiritual Experience, pg. 568~
"I suppose some would be shocked at
our seeming worldliness and
levity. But just underneath there is
deadly earnestness. Faith has
to work twenty-four hours a day in and
through us, or we perish."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
Bill's Story, pg. 16~
“The Wright brothers’ almost childish
faith that they could build a machine which would fly was the
mainspring of their
accomplishment. Without that, nothing
could have happened.”
-Alcoholics Anonymous p. 52
“Since most of us are born with an
abundance of natural desires, it isn’t strange that we often let these
far exceed their
intended purpose. When they drive us
blindly, or we willfully demand that they supply us with more
satisfactions or
pleasures than are possible or due us,
that is the point at which we depart from the degree of perfection that
God
wishes for us here on earth. That is
the measure of our character defects, or, if you wish, our sins”
-Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions p.
65
Misc. AA Literature - Quote
As we made spiritual progress, it
became clear that, if we ever were to feel emotionally secure, we would
have to put
our lives on a give-and-take basis; we
would have to develop the sense of being in partnership or brotherhood
with all
those around us. We saw that we would
need to give constantly of ourselves without demand for repayment. When
we persistently did this, we gradually
found that people were attracted to us as never before. And even if
they failed us,
we could be understanding and not too
seriously affected.
The unity, the effectiveness, and even
the survival A.A. will always depend upon our continued willingness to
give up
some of our personal ambitions and
desires for the common safety and welfare. Just as sacrifice means
survival for
the individual alcoholic, so does
sacrifice mean unity and survival for the group and for A.A.'s entire
Fellowship.
Prayer for the Day: God, I'm standing at the turning point
right now. Give me Your protection and care as I abandon myself to you
and give up my old ways and my old ideas just for today. Amen.