LISTENING DEEPLY, p.226
How persistently we claim the right to decide all by ourselves just
what we shall think and just how we shall act.
TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 37
If I accept and act upon the advice of those who have made the
program work for themselves, I have a chance to outgrow the limits of
the past. Some problems will shrink to nothingness, while others may
require patient, well-thought-out action. Listening deeply when
others
share can develop intuition in handling problems which arise
unexpectedly. It is usually best for me to avoid impetuous action.
Attending a meeting or calling a fellow A.A. member will usually
reduce tension enough to bring relief to a desperate sufferer like me.
Sharing problems at meetings with other alcoholics to whom I can
relate, or privately with my sponsor, can change aspects of the
positions in which I find myself. Character defects are identified and I
begin to see how they work against me. When I put my faith in the
spiritual power of the program, when I trust others to teach me what I
need to do to have a better life, I find that I can trust myself to do
what is necessary.
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
We in A.A. are offering a spiritual program. The fundamental basis of
A.A. is belief in some Power greater than ourselves. This belief takes
us off the center of the universe and allows us to transfer our
problems to some power outside of ourselves. We turn to this Power
for the strength we need to get sober and stay sober. We put our drink
problem in God's hands and leave it there. We stop trying to run our
own life and seek to let God run it for us. Do I do my best to give
spiritual help?
Meditation For The Day
God is your healer and your strength. You do not have to ask Him to
come to you. He is always with you in spirit. At your moment of need
He is there to help you. Could you know God's love and His desire to
help you, you would know that He needs no pleading for help. Your
need is God's opportunity. You must learn to rely on God's strength
whenever you need it. Whenever you feel inadequate to any situation,
you should realize that the feeling of inadequacy is disloyalty to God.
Just say to yourself: I know that God is with me and will help me to
think and say and do the right thing.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may never feel inadequate to any situation. I pray that I
may be buoyed up by the feeling that God is with me.
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As Bill Sees It
Hope Born
>From Hopelessness, p. 217
Letter to Dr. Carl Jung:
"Most conversion experiences, whatever their variety, do have a
common denominator of ego collapse at depth. The individual faces
an impossible dilemma.
"In my case the dilemma had been created by my compulsive
drinking, and the deep feeling of hopelessness had been vastly
deepened by my doctor. It was deepened still more by my alcoholic
friend when he acquainted me with your verdict of hopelessness
respecting Rowland H.
"In the wake of my spiritual experience there came a vision of a
society of alcoholics. If each sufferer were to carry the news of
the scientific hopelessness of alcoholism to each new prospect, he
might be able to lay every newcomer wide open to a transforming
spiritual experience. This concept proved to be the foundation of
such success as A.A. has since achieved."
Grapevine, January 1963
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Walk In Dry Places
Can We Fix Other People's Problems?
Problem Solving
In Twelve Step work, we never run out of people who face serious
problems. We're often tempted to use our own expertise and resources to
fix these problems for others.
This can be a mistake. It is always risky to undertake such assignments
without a great deal of thought and understanding. Such attempts to fix
others usually deal only with symptoms rather than causes.
Unless another person is totally helpless, the best course is to share
experiences and knowledge with others, but to leave the problem solving
to them. We should not encourage anyone to become dependent on us, nor
should we set ourselves up as godlike individuals who have all the
answers. We actually may be showing off instead of helping, and
we may
also be robbing others of the self-confidence and growth that come from
fixing their own problems.
I'll share my experiences and hope today, while refraining from trying
to fix people. I don't have answers for everybody, and it's wrong to
believe I do.
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Keep It Simple
You're only human, you've suppose to make mistakes.---Billy Joel
Listen to the kind voice inside. Listen to the voice that tells you
you're
good enough. Listen to the voice that tells you it's okay to make
mistakes---you'll learn from them. Listen to the voice that tells
you
to
go
to your meeting even though it's cold outside and you're tired. Listen
and
let this voice become more and more clear. Listen, and welcome it in
your
heart. Talk with the voice.
Ask it questions and seek it out when you need a friend. This voice is
your
Higher Power. Listen as your Higher Power speaks to you. Listen as
your
Higher Power tells you what a great person you are.
Prayer for the Day: I pray to the gentle, loving voice that lives
in
me. Higher Power,
You've
always been kind to me.
You've always loved me. Help me to remember You're always
there---inside
me.
Action for the Day: I will take time from my busy day to listen
and
talk with the loving
voice
that lives inside me.
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Each Day a New Beginning
The bottom line is that I am responsible for my own well-being, my own
happiness. The choices and decisions I make regarding my life directly
influence the quality of my days. --Kathleen Andrus
There is no provision for blaming others in our lives. Who we are is a
composite of the actions, attitudes, choices, decisions we've made up
to now. For many of us, predicaments may have resulted from our
decisions to not act when the opportunity arose. But these were
decisions, no less, and we must take responsibility for making them.
We need not feel utterly powerless and helpless about the events of our
lives. True, we cannot control others, and we cannot curb the momentum
of a situation, but we can choose our own responses to both; these
choices will heighten our sense of self and well-being and may well
positively influence the quality of the day.
I will accept responsibility for my actions, but not for the outcome of
a situation; that is all that's requested of me. It is one of the
assignments of life, and homework is forthcoming.
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
Chapter
7 - WORKING WITH OTHERS
Though an alcoholic does not respond, there is no reason why you should
neglect his family. You should continue to be friendly to them. The
family should be offered your way of life. Should they accept and
practice spiritual principles, there is a much better change that
the head of the family will recover. And even though he continues to
drink, the family will find life more bearable.
p. 97
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition Stories
ACCEPTANCE WAS THE ANSWER
- The physician wasn't hooked, he thought--he just prescribed drugs
medically indicated for his many ailments. Acceptance was his key
to liberation.
It helped me a great deal to become
convinced that alcoholism was a disease, not a moral issue; that I had
been drinking as a result of a compulsion, even though I had not been
aware of the compulsion at the time; and that sobriety was not a matter
of willpower. The people of A.A. had something new; there was a
certain sense of security in the familiar.
p. 416
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Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Tradition Four - "Each
group should be autonomous except in matters affecting other groups or
A.A. as a whole."
Of course, there was a promoter in the deal - a super-promoter. By his
eloquence he allayed all fears, despite advice from the Foundation that
it could issue no charter, and that ventures which mixed an A.A. group
with medication and education had come to sticky ends elsewhere. To
make things safer, the promoter organized three corporations and became
president of them all. Freshly painted, the new center shone. The
warmth of it all spread through the town. Soon things began to hum. to
insure foolproof, continuous operation, sixty-one rules and regulations
were adopted.
p. 148
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Hope
is
the
companion
of
power,
and
mother of success; for who so
hopes strongly has within him the gift of miracles.
--Samuel Smiles
It is better to live one day wisely and reflectively than to live a
hundred years in ignorance and indulgence."
--Buddha
Without forgiveness life is governed...by an endless cycle of
resentment and retaliation.
--Robert Assaglioli
Those who are free of resentful thoughts surely find peace.
--Buddha
Do not fear going forward slowly; fear only to stand still.
--Chinese Proverb
Wrinkles should merely indicate where the smiles have been.
--Mark Twain
And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the
life in
your years.
--Abraham Lincoln
Sometimes even to live is an act of courage.
--Seneca
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
THOUGHT
"Thought makes the whole
dignity of man; therefore
endeavor to think well, that is
the only morality."
-- Blaise Pascal
I think that human beings are very imitative creatures; we imitate
clothes, hair styles, mannerisms and lifestyles. A man's mind will be
influenced by what he listens to and what he reads. And what we think
is very important to sobriety.
Today I make an effort to examine my thinking and check it out with a
sponsor or in a support group. I know that my dignity in sobriety is
connected not only with what I do but also with my attitudes and
thoughts --- when my thinking begins to go crazy, I know I am in a
dangerous place and I need to talk. God created me with the ability to
think, therefore, I need to safeguard the information I put in my mind.
Let me learn to develop morality of mind.
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"Not
that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made
perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus
took hold of me. Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken
hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining
toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for
which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus. All of us who are
mature should take such a view of things. And if on some point you
think differently, that too God will make clear to you. Only let us
live up to what we have already attained."
Philippians 3:12-16
"Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom, teaching and
admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs,
singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord."
Colossians 3:16
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Daily Inspiration
Whatever your problem, know that there is a solution. Lord, I trust in
You always even to the point of a miracle.
God is always at work in your life. Notice His light on the events of
your day. Lord, I sometimes look without really seeing. Help me to
pause and notice.
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NA Just For Today
The Shape Of Our Thoughts
"By shaping our thoughts with
spiritual ideals, we are freed to become who we want to be."
Basic Text, p.101
Addiction shaped our thoughts in its
own way. Whatever their shape may once have been, they became misshapen
once our disease took full sway over our lives. Our obsession with
drugs and self molded our moods, our actions, and the very shape of our
lives.
Each of the spiritual ideals of our
program serves to straighten out one or another of the kinks in our
thinking that developed in our active addiction. Denial is counteracted
by admission, secretiveness by honesty, isolation by fellowship, and
despair by faith in a loving Higher Power. The spiritual ideals we find
in recovery are restoring the shape of our thoughts and our lives to
their natural condition.
And what is that "natural condition"?
It is the condition we truly seek for ourselves, a reflection of our
highest dreams. How do we know this? Because our thoughts are being
shaped in recovery by the spiritual ideals we find in our developing
relationship with the God we've come to understand in NA.
No longer does addiction shape our
thoughts. Today, our lives are being shaped by our recovery and our
Higher Power.
Just for today: I will allow spiritual
ideals to shape my thoughts. In that design, I will find the shape of
my own Higher Power.
pg. 227
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You are reading from the book Today's Gift.
There is surely a piece of divinity in
us, something that was before the elements... --Sir Thomas Browne
One definition of divinity in the
dictionary is "supreme excellence." It also means "god-like character"
and "divine nature."
Doesn't that describe someone we love?
When we are in love with someone, we see only the best of that
person--it's impossible to see anything else. That person is "divine,"
we say, perfect for us, because he or she loves us and is lovable.
Each one of us has a part that is
divine. We see it occasionally in others, and they see it in us when
they love us. We can draw on that divine part of every person for
strength and hope and courage and faith and love. There is wonderful,
mysterious beauty in all of us, even when we behave badly.
What divinity do I see in those around
me right now?
You are reading from the book
Touchstones.
The whole problem is to establish
communication with one's self. --E. B. White
We are like many faceted gemstones.
Each side represents a different aspect of us. We have our emotional
sides with different feelings and responses. We have our competencies
and strengths, hopes and desires, destructiveness and negativity,
self-doubts and resentments. We also possess a drive for power and
knowledge, a desire to serve, and a wish to connect with others.
Our spiritual masculinity requires
that we know our many sides. We need a working relationship with our
thoughts and feelings so they can be appreciated, accepted, and
understood. When we tell our story in a meeting, we let others know us,
and we get to know ourselves better. When we are spontaneous in what we
say or do, we communicate with ourselves. We discover ourselves through
meditation, journal writing, playfulness, physical activity, and
conversations with others. In that way we become more honest.
Today, I will use my lines of
communication with myself and become more self-accepting and more
honest.
You are reading from the book Each Day
a New Beginning.
The bottom line is that I am
responsible for my own well-being, my own happiness. The choices and
decisions I make regarding my life directly influence the quality of my
days. --Kathleen Andrus
There is no provision for blaming
others in our lives. Who we are is a composite of the actions,
attitudes, choices, decisions we've made up to now. For many of us,
predicaments may have resulted from our decisions to not act when the
opportunity arose. But these were decisions, no less, and we must take
responsibility for making them.
We need not feel utterly powerless and
helpless about the events of our lives. True, we cannot control others,
and we cannot curb the momentum of a situation, but we can choose our
own responses to both; these choices will heighten our sense of self
and well-being and may well positively influence the quality of the day.
I will accept responsibility for my
actions, but not for the outcome of a situation; that is all that's
requested of me. It is one of the assignments of life, and homework is
forthcoming.
You are reading from the book The
Language of Letting Go.
Attitudes Toward Money
Sometimes, our life and history may be
so full of pain that we think it totally unfair that we have to grow up
now and be financially responsible for ourselves.
The feeling is understandable; the
attitude is not healthy. Many people in recovery may believe that
certain people in particular, and life in general, owes them a living
after what they've been through.
To feel good about ourselves, to find
the emotional peace and freedom we're seeking in recovery, we need
healthy boundaries about money - what we give to others, and what we
allow ourselves to receive from others.
Do we feel that others owe us money
because we cannot take care of ourselves? Do we believe others owe us
because we do not have as much money as they do? Do we consciously or
subconsciously believe that they "owe" us money because of emotional
pain we suffered as a result of our relationship with them or another
person?
Punitive damages are awarded in court,
but not in recovery.
Unhealthy boundaries about what we
allow ourselves to receive from others will not lead to healthy
relationships with others or ourselves.
Test by looking within. The key is our
attitude. The issue is boundaries about receiving money. Become willing
to meet the challenge of taking responsibility for yourself.
Today, I will strive for clear,
healthy boundaries about receiving money from others. As part of my
recovery, I will take a hard look at my financial history and examine
whether I have taken money that may not reflect good boundaries. If I
uncover some incidents that reflect less than an attitude of healthy
self-responsibility, I will become willing to make amends and develop a
reasonable plan to do that.
In quiet meditation I listen to my own
Higher Power. I connect with my personal spirituality in my own time
and place. --Ruth Fishel
*****
Fresh and Unfixed
There is Only Now by Madisyn Taylor
Being present lets us experience each
moment in our lives in a way that cannot be fully lived through memory
or fantasy.
It can be easy for us to walk through
the world and our lives without really being present. While dwelling on
the past and living for the future are common pastimes, it is
physically impossible to live anywhere but the present moment. We
cannot step out our front door and take a left turn to May of last
year, any more than we can take a right turn to December 2010.
Nevertheless, we can easily miss the future we are waiting for as it
becomes the now we are too busy to pay attention to. We then spend the
rest of our time playing “catch up” to the moment that we just let pass
by. During moments like these, it is important to remember that there
is only Now.
In order to feel more at home in the
present moment, it is important to try to stay aware, open, and
receptive. Being in the present moment requires our full attention so
that we are fully awake to experience it. When we are fully present,
our minds do not wander. We are focused on what is going on right now,
rather than thinking about what just happened or worrying about what is
going to happen next. Being present lets us experience each moment in
our lives in a way that cannot be fully lived through memory or fantasy.
When we begin to corral our attention
into the present moment, it can be almost overwhelming to be here.
There is a state of stillness that has to happen that can take some
getting used to, and the mind chatter that so often gets us into our
heads and out of the present moment doesn’t have as much to do. We may
feel a lack of control because we aren’t busy planning our next move,
assessing our current situation, or anticipating the future. Instead,
being present requires that we be flexible, creative, attentive, and
spontaneous. Each present moment is completely new, and nothing like it
has happened or will ever happen again. As you move through your day,
remember to stay present in each moment. In doing so, you will live
your life without having to wait for the future or yearn for the past.
Life happens to us when we happen to life in the Now. Published with
permission from Daily OM
*****
Journey to the Heart
Respect Life
The message came softly, gently,
during the sweat lodge ceremony I went to in Sedona. At the end of the
evening, the shaman thanked the rocks-- for glowing with heat, bringing
their passion to evening, symbolizing passion in our lives. She thanked
the wood that created the fire that heated the rocks-- for giving its
life so that we could have warmth, so that we could celebrate the
event. She thanked the water for cooling our throats. And she thanked
God for life, for each of our lives, for our lifetimes on this planet.
Respect life. All of it. The world
moves so fast, it's so easy to forget to respect all that lives, all
that is. We get so harried, so hurried, we take life for granted. Take
time to remember that all life is sacred. All that is part of creation
is a creation, and the same life force moves through us all. With all
its trials, tests, worries, heartaches, and sometimes heartbreaks, life
is a gift.
A few short years on this planet,
then we are gone. Do not spend it worrying about all that has gone
wrong. You will miss the lesson. You will miss the gift, the gift of
life.
Respect life. All of it. Respect and
honor your own.
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more language of letting go
Stop fighting it
I go to the refrigerator and open the
door. The food in it smells bad; the air feels warm. I decide that the
power must have gone off for a while and close the door. My friend
comes over later that day and opens the refrigerator, to get himself a
soda.
"Whew," he says. "There's something
wrong with your refrigerator."
"No, the power just went off for a
while," I said.
I don't want anything to be wrong
with the refrigerator. I'm busy with too many other things. I don't
want to take the time to call a repair service, be interrupted when
they come to the house, then be interrupted again and again, as they
come back to fix it.
Later that night, I open the
refrigerator again, I look for a moment, then slam the door shut. Dang,
it is broken, I think. I take all the frustration about the
inconvenience and use the energy to surrender to the problem, then get
it fixed.
There's a difference between fighting
with a problem and pushing against the resistance it offers in our
lives. When we fight with the alcoholic to sober up, we're fighting
with the problem. When we get hurt and angry enough to push against it,
we use that frustration to motivate us to surrender, then go to an
Al-Anon meeting, or a therapist, and begin to learn how to detach and
take care of ourselves. Life gets better. Instead of fighting with the
problem, we're pushing against it, and using the resistance to move
down our path.
Are you fighting with a problem in
your life right now, instead of using the resistance it offers as a
challenge to grow? Instead of depleting your energy fighting with that
problem, surrender. Then use the frustration and upset as motivation to
assert yourself and take positive action.
God, thank you for the resistance in
my life. Help me stop fighting with it and to use that energy to truly
solve the problem.
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One More Day
My handicap is part of me because I
have had to make peace with it. And in doing so, I’ve made peace with
the less obvious handicaps of other people, like resentment, prejudice,
hate.
– Ginger Hutton
Living with an illness — whether our
own or a loved one’s — has taught us that handicaps are not always
physical. We begin to understand fear is handicapping, prejudice is
handicapping, inaccessibility to the community is handicapping.
More and more we are able to make
peace with our own limitations and those of others, and as we do this
we gain insight into which of them we have to accept and which we
don’t. We recognize there are some limitations we can do something
about and others we must accept for the sake of our serenity.
The more tolerant I am, the less
limited I become.
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A Day at a Time
Reflection for the Day
Among the important things we learn in
The Program is to be good to ourselves. For so many of us, though, this
is a surprisingly difficult thing to do. Some of us relish our
suffering so much that we balloon each happening to enormous
proportions in the reliving and telling. Self-pitiers are drawn to
martyrdom as if by a powerful magnet – until the joys of serenity and
contentment come to them through The Program and Twelve Steps.
Am I gradually learning to be good to
myself?
Today I Pray
May I learn to forgive myself. I have
asked – and received – forgiveness from God and from others, so why is
it so hard to forgive myself? Why do I still magnify my suffering? Why
do I go on licking my emotional wounds? May I follow God’s forgiving
example, get on with The Program and learn to be good to myself.
Today I Will Remember
Martyrdom; martyr dumb.
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Food For Thought
Future Phobia
Irrational worry about the future may
have triggered eating binges before we found the OA program. Learning
to live one day at a time is a necessary part of controlling our
disease. Our instinct for security must not be allowed to run riot any
more than the other instincts we are learning to control.
Trusting our Higher Power today
ensures that we will trust Him tomorrow also. We do not know what the
future holds for us, but we are assured of God’s continuing care and
support. To entertain irrational worries about what might or might not
happen is to doubt the Power, which is restoring us to sanity. When we
take Step Three without reservations, we give up our crippling
anxieties.
We do not expect that life will be a
rose garden in the future, any more than it is right now. There are
problems and disappointments and pains to deal with. What we do expect
is the strength to cope with whatever our Higher Power gives us,
realizing that the difficult experiences are often the ones from which
we learn the most.
May faith in You blot out fear.
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One Day At A Time
PAIN
“Your pain is the breaking of the
shell that encloses
your understanding. Even as the stone
of the fruit
must break, that its heart may stand
in the sun,
so must you know pain."
Kahlil Gibran
There was much to be unhappy about in
my childhood. There was also a lot of unhappiness in my adult life.
Until I found The Recovery Group online, that unhappiness was the
driving force in my life. That force robbed me of the ability to see
and enjoy the many wonderful things that I had experienced. I wore a
cloak of sadness, bitterness and resentment ~ I had been short-changed.
It was the old glass-half-empty, glass-half-full story....poor me.
Being able to share the pain and
unhappiness I have known has freed me from the power it had over me.
Clearing away the wreckage is enabling me to see my part in some of the
unhappiness I've known. It has enabled me to see more clearly that
there is so much for which I can be grateful. It has enabled me to see
that I truly AM the person of value which I had represented myself to
be towards others. I am integrating that person into the "unacceptable"
being I carried within. I have seen others here endure challenge, pain
and hardships with so much grace. I have learned that pain is, indeed,
inevitable. I have the choice whether to dwell on the pain morbidly, or
to instead focus on the joy of this day.
One day at a time...
I will live in the joy of this day and
I will strive to share this wonderful gift of self-acceptance to others
in program.
~ Karen A.
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AA 'Big Book' - Quote
Much to our relief, we discovered we
did not need to consider another's conception of God. Our own
conception, however inadequate, was sufficient to make the approach and
to effect a contact with Him. As soon as we admitted the possible
existence of a Creative Intelligence, a Spirit of the Universe
underlying the totality of things, we began to be possessed of a new
sense of power and direction, provided we took other simple steps. We
found that God does not make too hard terms with those who seek Him. To
us, the Realm of Spirit is broad, roomy, all inclusive; never exclusive
or forbidding to those who earnestly seek. It is open, we believe, to
all men. - Pg. 46 - We Agnostics
Hour To Hour - Book - Quote
Occasionally we get a glimpse of how
others have truly seen us. It is a dreadful experience and if it
weren't for the loving attitude of our fellowship, we sometimes could
not bear it. But the growth process is worth the pain as we slowly
transform into the people we have always pretended to be.
Thank You, for the love of the
fellowship to see me through my painful growth forward.
Always Here
Today I recover the spirit that has
always been there, vibrating just beneath the surface of my being, the
membrane of my life. I am whole and in tact. I call to that part of me
that has been waiting patiently for me to come to my senses and claim
it. That part of me that is eternal, that never dies. Spirit has been
with me even in my darkest hours. I turn and look, I quiet my mind and
see, I rest in awareness and experience. Spirit has never been far, but
I have been asleep. Today I wake up to spirit.
I am alive to life
- Tian Dayton PhD
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
When egos collide, use kind words, do
what you have control over, and do what you think is right. Surrender
what you don't have control over, even if you think what others are
doing is wrong. Others have the right to be wrong.
I define myself by what I do and how I
do it, not by who wins.
"Walk Softly and Carry a Big Book" - Book
Sober and Serving.
Time for Joy - Book - Quote
In quiet meditation I listen to my own
Higher Power. I connect with my personal spirituality in my own time
and place.
Alkiespeak - Book - Quote
If I share my pain and shame I cut in
half. If I don't, I double it. - Anon.
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AA Thought for the Day
August 5
Expectations
We had approached AA expecting to be
taught self-confidence.
Then we had been told that so far as
alcohol is concerned,
self-confidence was no good whatever;
in fact, it was a total liability.
- Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions,
p. 22
Thought to Ponder . . .
What I am is God's gift to me. What I
make of myself is my gift to Him.
AA-related 'Alconym' . . .
W O W = Willingness Over Willpower.
~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
Fellowship
"The fellowship I found in AA enabled
me
to face my problem honestly and
squarely.
I couldn't do it among my relatives,
I couldn't do it among my friends.
No one likes to admit they're a drunk,
that they can't control this thing.
But when we come into AA,
we can face our problem honestly and
openly.
I went to closed meetings and open
meetings.
And I took everything that AA had to
give me.
It was at that point I reached
surrender."
1976AAWS, Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 340
Thought to Consider . . .
We honor the spirit in other people
when we listen to them.
*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
C A R E = Comforting And Reassuring
Each other.
*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*
Everybody Gains
Tradition Eight: Alcoholics Anonymous
should remain nonprofessional, but our service centers may employ
special workers.
It is significant, now that almost no
A.A. in our Fellowship breaks anonymity at the public level, that
nearly all these
fears have subsided. We see that we
have no right or need to discourage A.A.'s who wish to work as
individuals in
these wider fields. It would be
actually antisocial were we to forbid them. We cannot declare A.A. such
a closed
corporation that we keep our
knowledge and experience top secret. If an A.A. member acting as a
citizen can become
a better researcher, educator,
personnel officer, then why not? Everybody gains, and we have lost
nothing. True, some
of the projects to which A.A.'s have
attached themselves have been ill-conceived, but that makes not the
slightest
difference with the principle
involved.
1981, AAWS, Inc., Twelve Steps and
Twelve Traditions, page 171
*~*~*~*~*^ Grapevine Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"What has happened in the past is
just that -- the past! What I should have done about certain issues no
longer
matters. What I do now is of greatest
concern."
Williamsville, June 2010
"Able to Dream,"
AA Grapevine
*~*~*~*~*^ Big Book & Twelve N'
Twelve Quotes of the Day ^*~*~*~*~*
"More than most people, the alcoholic
leads a double life. He is very
much the actor. To the outer world he
presents his stage character.
This is the one he likes his fellows
to see. He wants to enjoy a
certain reputation, but knows in his
heart he doesn't deserve it."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
Into Action, pg. 73~
“Whatever our ideal turns out to be,
we must be willing to grow toward it. We must be willing to make amends
where
we have done harm, provided that we
do not bring about still more harm in so doing.”
-Alcoholics Anonymous p. 69
“Having been granted a perfect
release from alcoholism, why then shouldn’t we be able to achieve by
the same means
a perfect release from every other
difficulty or defect? This is a riddle of our existence, the full
answer to which may be
only in the mind of God.”
-Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
p. 64
Misc. AA Literature - Quote
Letter to Dr. Carl Jung:
'Most conversion experiences,
whatever their variety, do have a common denominator of ego collapse at
depth. The individual faces an impossible dilemma.
'In my case the dilemma had been
created by my compulsive drinking, and the deep feeling of hopelessness
had been vastly deepened by my doctor. It was deepened still more by my
alcoholic friend when he acquainted me with your verdict of
hopelessness respecting Rowland H.
'In the wake of my spiritual
experience there came a vision of a society of alcoholics. If each
sufferer were to carry the news of the scientific hopelessness of
alcoholism to each new prospect, he might be able to lay every newcomer
wide open to a transforming spiritual experience. This concept proved
to be the foundation of such success as A.A. has since achieved.
Prayer for the Day: "God, I admit my powerlessness and the
unmanageability of my life. Help me live with others as an equal,
dependent upon you for direction and strength."