GIVING IT AWAY
Though they knew they must help other alcoholics if they would
remain sober, that motive became secondary. It was transcended
by the happiness they found in giving themselves to others.
Alcoholics Anonymous, p.159
Those words, for me, refer to a transference of power, through which
God, as I understand Him, enters my life. Through prayer and
meditation, I open channels, then I establish and improve my
conscious contact with God. Through action I then receive the power
I need to maintain my sobriety each day. By maintaining my spiritual
condition, by giving away what has been freely given to me, I am
granted a daily reprieve.
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
"If we are still clinging to something that we will not let go, we
must sincerely ask God to help us to be willing to let even that go,
too. We cannot divide our lives into compartments and keep some
for ourselves. We must give all the compartments to God. We
must say: ‘My creator, I am now willing that you should have all of
me, good and bad. I pray that you now remove from me every
single defect of character which stands in the way of my usefulness
to you and my friends.'" Am I still clinging to something that I will
not let go?
Meditation For The Day
The laws of nature cannot be changed and must be obeyed if you
are to stay healthy. No exceptions will be made in your case. Submit
to the laws of nature or they will finally break you. And in the
realm of the spirit, in all human relationships, submit to the moral
laws and to the will of God. If you continue to break the laws of
honesty, purity, unselfishness, and love, you will be broken to some
extent yourself. The moral and spiritual laws of God, like the laws
of nature, are unbreakable without some disaster. If you are
dishonest, impure, selfish, and unloving, you will not be living
according to the laws of the spirit and you will suffer the
consequences.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may submit to the laws of nature and to the laws of God.
I pray that I may live in harmony with all the laws of life.
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As Bill Sees It
No Orders
Issued, p. 237
Neither the A.A. General Service Conference, its Board of Trustees,
nor the humblest group committee can issue a single directive to an
A.A. member and make it stick, let alone mete out any punishment.
We've tried this lots of times, but utter failure is always the result.
Groups have sometimes tried to expel members, but the banished
have come back to sit in the meeting place, saying, "This is life for
us; you can't keep us out." Committees have instructed many an
A.A. to stop working on a chronic backslider, only to be told: "How I
do my Twelfth Step work is my business. Who are you to judge?"
This doesn't mean that an A.A. won't take good advice or
suggestions from more experienced members. He simply objects to
taking orders.
12 & 12, p. 173
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Walk In Dry Places
Waste Utilization
Releasing the past
Today the world faces seemingly insurmountable problems with solid
and liquid
waste. Communities struggle to find solutions as waste accumulates
and space for disposal sites grows scarce.
As recovering people, we have a similar problem with waste residues from
our past. We don't seem to be able to bury bad memories; like the
physical waste in the environment, they come back to poison us. The
best answer is to use waste, not throw it away. Instead of trying to
bury the past, let's keep it in view but let it be purified by the
sunlight of honesty and humility. By admitting past wrongs and forgiving
everyone involved.... including ourselves..... we turn waste into
useful experience. Nature can do this with much physical waste, over
time. we can also let our spiritual nature do that with the emotional
and mental waste of our past.
I'll realize that every past mistake and experience can be properly
utilized today for something good and uplifting.
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Keep It Simple
THINK ---Alcoholics Anonymous slogan
Now that we’re recovering, our minds are free. We can think. When we
are
faced with problems or choices, we can do this:
Ask, “What is the problem?”
Make a list of what we can do to work on the problem.
Decide which of the actions on our list might work.
Pick the action that seems the best so far.
Ask ourselves, “Can I do it? Will I do it? If not, it’s not a good
plan.
Talk to our sponsor if we need help thinking it out.
Do it.
Look back on it. Did it work? If not, go back and try something
else.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, help me to think well. Help me
to
see things clearly.
Action for the Day: Today, I’ll use the points listed above to
help me
think about a choice I
have to make.
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Each Day a New Beginning
A woman who has no way of expressing herself and of realizing herself
as a full human has nothing else to turn to but the owning of material
things. --Enriqueta Longeaux y Vasquez
Each of us struggling with these Twelve Steps is finding
self-expression and self-definition. Introspection, coupled with
self-revelation through sharing with others, affords us the awareness
of how like others we are. How human we are. And what we receive from
others who respond to our vulnerability diminishes our need for
"things" to fill our lives.
The love that we receive freely from a trusting, caring friend or group
fills up the empty places in our souls, the places we used to try
filling up with alcohol or cookies or sex. New clothes maybe even a new
home or a different job served their terms as void fillers too. Nothing
succeeded for long, and then the program found us.
The program is the filler for all times. Of this we can be certain.
Time will alleviate any doubts we may have. All that is asked of us is
openness, honesty, and attention to others' needs as well as our own.
I can share our likenesses and relish whatever differences may surface.
The chain of friendship I've created makes me the proud owner of my
wholeness. I am a succeeding woman who is moving forward with courage
and self-awareness on this, my road of life.
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
Chapter 8 - TO
WIVES *
WITH FEW EXCEPTIONS, our book thus far has spoken of men. But what we
have said applies quite as much to women. Our activities in behalf of
women who drink are on the increase. There is every evidence that women
regain their health as readily as men if they try our suggestions.
* The fellowship of Al-Anon Family Groups was formed about thirteen
years after this chapter was written. Though it is entirely separate
from Alcoholics Anonymous, it uses the general principles of the A.A.
program as a guide for husbands, wives, relatives, friends, and others
close to alcoholics. The foregoing pages (though addressed only to
wives) indicate the problems such people may face. Alateen, for
teen-aged children of alcoholics, is a part of Al-Anon.
If there is no Al-Anon listing in your local telephone book, you may
obtain further information on Al-Anon Family Groups by writing to its
World Service Office: Box 862, Midtown Station, New York, NY 10018-0862
p. 104
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition Stories
WINDOW OF OPPORTUNITY - This
young alcoholic stepped out a second-story window and into A.A.
As I look back on that period, I
realize how true it is that one of the primary differences between
alcoholics and nonalcoholics is that nonalcoholics change their
behavior to meet their goals and alcoholics change their goals to meet
their behavior. Everything that had been important to me, all of
my dreams, goals, and aspirations, were swept away in a wave of
booze. I realized quickly that I could not drink and function at
any high level. That did not matter. I was willing to give
up anything so that I could keep drinking. I went from being a
solid A student to nearly flunking out of school, from being anointed a
class leader to being shunned as a pariah. I almost never went to
class and did little of the required reading. I never attended
any of the cultural events sponsored by the college. I forsook
everything that makes college worthwhile in favor of drinking.
Occasionally, some sliver of pride would work its way through the
chaos, resentment, and fear and cause me to look at my life. But
the shame was too great, and I would drink it back down with bottles of
vodka and cases of beer.
p. 423-424
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Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Tradition Six - "An A.A.
group ought never endorse, finance, or lend the A.A. name to any
related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money,
property, and prestige divert us from our primary purpose."
Soon they'd spotted their man, an A.A. with the necessary experience.
Straightway he appeared at New York's A.A. headquarters, asking, "Is
there anything in our tradition that suggests I shouldn't take a job
like this one? The kind of education seems good to me, and is not too
controversial. Do you headquarters folks see any bugs in it?"
pp. 157-158
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Real
happiness
in
life
starts
when
you
begin
to cherish others.
--Lama Zopa Rinpoche
Continuing to cling to the patterns you know inhibits your ability to
discover what you don't know.
--Eric Allenbaugh
When we long for life without difficulties, remind us that oaks
grow strong in contrary winds and diamonds are made under
pressure.
--Peter Marshall
“Everything I need shall be provided today. Everything.” Say it, until
you believe it. Say it at the beginning of the day. Say it throughout
the
day.
--unknown
God is at home, We are in the far country.
--Meister Eckhart
The Way isn't something that can be put into words.
You have to practice before you can understand.
You can't force things, including practice.
Understanding is something that happens naturally.
It's different for everyone.
The main thing is to reduce your desires and quiet your mind.
-- Master Hsueh
All change is not growth, as all movement is not forward.
--Ellen Glasgow
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
SECURITY
"Nobody in this world is more
secure than a man in a
penitentiary."
-- Harvey S. Firestone, Jr.
In one sense it is safe to live in a prison --- but at what price? To
live is
to be free and have the responsibility of choice. Addiction removes
this freedom of choice; addiction takes away our freedom.
In sobriety I am involved in the joys of risk. I experience the pleasure
and pain that comes with the responsibility of choice. Today I know I
am living --- yesterday I had to read about it!
God, I thank You for the confusing gift of freedom.
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The
Lord will keep you from all harm...... He will watch over your life.
Psalm 121:7
"The LORD is my strength and my shield; my heart trusts in him,
and I am helped. My heart leaps for joy and I will give thanks to him in
song."
Psalm 28:7
"The LORD bless you and keep you; the LORD make his face shine
upon you and be gracious to you; the LORD turn his face toward you
and give you peace."'
Numbers 6:24-26
"Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of
doing, but let us encourage one another -- and all the more as you see
the Day approaching."
Hebrews 10:25
"For my yoke is easy and my burden is light."
Matthew 11:30
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Daily Inspiration
God is the best friend you will ever have and prayer
is merely the technical term for having a chat with Him. Lord, let me
tell You about some things that are on my mind and then I'll listen
while You tell me what You think.
In your search for peace, look within. If you are looking elsewhere,
you are looking in the wrong place. Lord, help me to open my heart to
Your gift of peace and refuse to let anything in that disturbs it.
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NA Just For Today
Tenth Step Inventory
"We continued to take personal
inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it."
Step Ten
A daily Tenth Step keeps us on a sound
spiritual footing. While each member asks different questions, some
questions have been found to be helpful to almost everyone. Two key
Tenth Step questions are, "Am I honestly in touch with myself, my
actions, and my motives? And have I prayed for God's will for me and
the power to carry it out?" These two questions, answered honestly,
will lead us into a more thorough look at our day.
When focusing on our relationships
with others, we may ask, "Have I harmed anyone today, either directly
or indirectly? Do I need to make amends to anyone as a result of my
actions today?" We keep it simple in our inventory if we remember to
ask, "Where was I wrong? How can I do it better next time?"
NA members often find that their
inventories include other important questions. "Was I good to myself
today? Did I do something for someone else and expect nothing in
return? Have I reaffirmed my faith in a loving Higher Power?" Step Ten
is a maintenance step of the NA program. The Tenth Step helps us to
continue living comfortably in recovery.
Just for today: I will remember to
review my day. If I have harmed another, I will make amends. I will
think about how I can act differently.
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You are reading from the book Today's
Gift.
... I cannot see
The love you offer.
--Emily Dickinson
How can we make love visible; how can
we give it eyes? We can make love a present, wrap it carefully as if it
were a beautiful thing. We can make love a favor nobody foresaw; we can
fill a cup, prepare a meal, run an errand with our love. We can make
love out of real words--in a letter, a note, a simple unrhymed poem.
And we can make our love visible with our eyes by making our eyes meet
those of the people we love.
When we turn a feeling like love into
an act, we share it with those around us, and they are encouraged to
return the favor, and in this way, the world's storehouse of love
increases.
How can I show the love I feel today?
You are reading from the book
Touchstones.
Lying to ourselves is more deeply
ingrained than lying to others. --Fyodor Dostoyevsky
The primary requirement for our
recovery is honesty. In order to grow in honesty we first needed to see
how we had lied to others and to ourselves. This was not as easy as it
first appeared. Our lies to ourselves kept us so fully in the dark that
we did not know we were lying. We sometimes told "sincere" lies because
we honestly did not distinguish the truth within ourselves. For so long
we had preferred dishonest rationalizations, and we had come to believe
them.
The spiritual life of this program is
based upon experience. What we feel, what we see and hear, is what we
know. When we simplify our lives and base the truth upon our
experiences, we slowly cleanse ourselves of the lies we told ourselves.
With this kind of honesty comes an inner peace with ourselves in whom
we can say, "I know myself."
Today, I will accept my experience as
a simple message of truth.
You are reading from the book Each Day
a New Beginning.
A woman who has no way of expressing
herself and of realizing herself as a full human has nothing else to
turn to but the owning of material things. --Enriqueta Longeaux y
Vasquez
Each of us struggling with these
Twelve Steps is finding self-expression and self-definition.
Introspection, coupled with self-revelation through sharing with
others, affords us the awareness of how like others we are. How human
we are. And what we receive from others who respond to our
vulnerability diminishes our need for "things" to fill our lives.
The love that we receive freely from a
trusting, caring friend or group fills up the empty places in our
souls, the places we used to try filling up with alcohol or cookies or
sex. New clothes maybe even a new home or a different job served their
terms as void fillers too. Nothing succeeded for long, and then the
program found us.
The program is the filler for all
times. Of this we can be certain. Time will alleviate any doubts we may
have. All that is asked of us is openness, honesty, and attention to
others' needs as well as our own.
I can share our likenesses and relish
whatever differences may surface. The chain of friendship I've created
makes me the proud owner of my wholeness. I am a succeeding woman who
is moving forward with courage and self-awareness on this, my road of
life.
You are reading from the book The
Language of Letting Go.
Making Amends
Made direct amends to such people
wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
--Step Nine of Al-Anon
When we make amends we need to be
clear about what we're apologizing for and the best way to say we're
sorry. What we are really doing with our amends is taking
responsibility for our behavior. We need to be sure that the process
itself will not be self defeating or hurtful.
Sometimes, we need to directly
apologize for a particular thing we have done or our part in a problem.
Other times, instead of saying "I'm
sorry," what we need to do is work on changing our behavior with a
person.
There are times when bringing up what
we have done and apologizing for it will make matters worse.
We need to trust timing, intuition,
and guidance in this process of making amends. Once we become willing,
we can let go and tackle our amends in a peaceful, consistent,
harmonious way. If nothing feels right or appropriate, if it feels as
if what we are about to do will cause a crisis or havoc, we need to
trust that feeling.
Attitude, honesty, openness, and
willingness count here. In peace and harmony, we can strive to clear up
our relationships.
We deserve to be at peace with others
and ourselves.
Today, I will be open to making any
amends I need to make with people. I will wait for Divine Guidance in
the process of making any amends that are not clear to me. I will act,
when led. God, help me let go of my fear about facing people and taking
responsibility for my behaviors. Help me know I am not diminishing my
self-esteem by doing this; I am improving it.
Today I am open to be touched by joy,
by love, by nature. Today I put aside all the happiness that I seek so
that I can be free to experience the joy of this very moment...right
now. --Ruth Fishel
*****
Journey to the Heart
Open to Universal Love
Are you living with the belief that
universal love isn't there for you?
When we look at what we've been
through, sometimes we feel sad and abandoned. We see others dancing
along their path, getting blessings, special help, gifts along the way.
Then we turn to our own lives and see only those times we've been let
down and left out, the times that life, people, and the world haven't
been there for us. Universal love may be real, you say, but it's just
not real for me.
Open your eyes. Open your heart. Open
yourself to the universe. Begin to see and notice all the gifts you're
given-- the clues, the direction, the support. Stop looking to one
person or source and let life's magic dance for you. See how you get
what you need. See how naturally the guidance comes when you trust that
it will be there. See the smiles, see the friendship, feel the
inspiration. Feel the loving touch of a hand on your arm. Say what you
need. Say it aloud. Direct your words to the universe. Treat it as if
it were a loving friend, and it will treat you the same way.
Universal love is there for you. Learn
to recognize its touch and rhythm, for it is the rhythm of life and
love.
*****
more language of letting go
Find the gratitude
Here's an interesting phenomenon about
gratitude: it's difficult to feel too bad when we're feeling grateful.
Your mind has room for only one thought at a time. If you fill it with
gratitude, there isn't room for negativity.
Today, be grateful for your life.
Allow that gratitude to carry over into your activities and to flavor
all of your interactions. Think of one thing to be grateful about in
each activity you do, with each person you interact with, and in each
task that you do.
Find the gratitude in your life and
you'll find joy standing right next to it.
God, help me look for the good in my
life.
*****
The Mirroring World
We Are like Nature
As humans our lives are completely
intertwined with the cycles and rhythms of nature.
Nature is a mirror, inspiring and
teaching us, deepening our sense of belonging in the world. Wherever
you look, you can see that our patterns and the patterns of the natural
world are the same. You can find this resonance in every form, from
molecules to plants and animals and to planets. We live our lives
according to the same principles as the trees, the mountains, the
clouds, and the birds.
We begin our lives in the womb, folded
in on ourselves like the bud of a flower. We can see our whole lives in
the mirror of this natural form. When we emerge from the womb, we
slowly begin our unfolding, just as the flower begins to open its
petals. At its prime, the flower draws many insects to it and also the
eyes of appreciative humans. When the flower’s petals begin to fade and
its life cycle comes to an end, it ceases to hold itself upright and
returns to the earth. Traditionally, we return to the earth, just as
all plants and animals do. Like flowers, we leave behind seeds in the
forms of children and other gifts only we could have given. They
continue to unfold even after we are gone. Rebirth is encoded into our
lives, and death is just one part of the cycle.
Look around you, and you will find
connection and insight. Notice how your moods shift from one to another
like the sky shifts from bright blue to turbulent grays. Your thoughts
are like clouds, appearing, changing shape, passing through, and then
disappearing without a trace. The rain cleanses the sky, just as an
emotional release cleanses your mind. The sky itself is your eternal
awareness, unchanging underneath all these permutations. Let it reflect
back to you your own abiding perfection.
As you walk through the world, find
your own metaphors for connectedness in nature. Flesh them out fully
and follow them as they lead you through the mystery and intelligence
of life. Published with permission from Daily OM
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A Day at a Time
Reflection for the Day
We all want to be rid of our most
obvious and destructive flaws. No one wants to be so greedy that s/he's
labeled a thief. No one wants to be angry enough to kill, lustful
enough to rape, gluttonous enough to become ill. No one wants to be
agonized by envy or paralyzed by procrastination. Of course, few of us
suffer these defects at such rock-bottom levels. Not that that's reason
to congratulate ourselves; chances are, pure self-interest enabled us
to escape such extremes. Not much spiritual effort is involved in
avoiding excesses which will bring severe punishment.
When I face up to the less violent and
less deadly aspects of the very same defects, where do I stand then?
Today I Pray
May I give myself no back-pats for not
committing murder or rape, beating up a rival, robbing a sweets shop or
stealing from a down-and-outer. In all humility, may I understand that
these are only more violent manifestations of human flaws I harbor in
myself. May God give me the perseverance to change these from inside,
rather than just lessening the degree to which I act them out for the
world to see.
Today I Will Remember
Change the inside first.
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Food For Thought
A Living Program
The Twelve Steps are a program for
living and they are also a living program. Taking them is not something
we do once and for all, but something we repeat over and over in
greater depth. They are our guidelines for each day.
Our program develops as our
understanding matures. When we first join OA, physical abstinence from
compulsive overeating may be all we can handle. As we learn from fellow
members and are increasingly exposed to the power of the group, our
program comes to include more emotional and spiritual elements. The
possibilities for development are limitless.
One thing leads to another. The
creative force that guides OA directs our individual efforts. When we
are open to the challenges and willing to give up self-will, we make
progress, which gratifies and astounds us. This program not only works
as we work it; it also grows as we grow.
We thank You for Your creative spirit.
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One Day At A Time
LOVE
"When you love you should not say,
"God is in my heart," but rather,
"I am in the heart of God."
Kahlil Gibran
What is love? And what does it mean to
love myself? I’ve found from my experience that it is easier to
describe what love is not. Through many failures -- and with my Higher
Power’s help -- I have discovered that to love myself means choosing to
not hurt myself by overeating. Self-love means choosing to no longer
ignore my inner-child who sometimes screams to be heard and must have a
tantrum to get my attention. Self-love means not isolating or allowing
the hurtful, grieving, angry, fearful thoughts to possess my mind to
the degree that the disease overtakes any sanity I may have. This list
could go on -- focusing on the failures and the negative -- but my
Higher Power has given me the desire, strength and power to feel,
express and give love. Our Higher Power offers the freedom and joy of
self-love to each of us who are willing to receive and practice it.
The more I am able to receive the love
of others, the more I am able to love myself. And conversely, the more
I love myself, the more I am able to receive love from others. As I
work this Twelve Step program to the best of my ability each 24 hours,
I am shown love through meetings, my sponsor, meditating, journaling,
spending time with my Higher Power, and sharing my experience, strength
and hope with another person. Some days, “the best of my ability” may
be to just get out of bed and say the Third Step prayer. Other days,
“the best of my ability” will seem like I'm working the program close
to perfection. Regardless of my ability on any particular day, I’ve
found that love can be gleaned from each day.
As the quote above states, "I am in
the heart of God." I experience this when I am willing to surrender
daily to the will of my Higher Power and to be completely and
absolutely surrounded and protected by the heart of God.
One Day at a Time . . .
I will seek to see love in as many
moments as possible by looking to my Higher Power and then reaching out
to others.
~ Ohitika
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AA 'Big Book' - Quote
It may seem incredible that these men
are to become happy, respected, and useful once more. How can they rise
out of such misery, bad repute and hopelessness? The practical answer
is that since these things have happened among us, they can happen with
you. Should you wish them above all else, and be willing to make use of
our experience, we are sure they will come. - Pg. 153 - A Vision For You
Hour To Hour - Book - Quote
It is important to stay away from
'trigger' people and places. These old influences can 'trigger' an
overwhelming desire to use: bars, pot smoking, using friends, drug
parties, cocktail parties, dealers, angry relatives, liquor stores,
concerts, etc. We each need to determine our personal 'triggers' and
stay away from them.
Divine Intelligence helps me honestly
identify and stay away from my 'triggers.'
The Three C's
I didn't cause it, I can't control it
and I can't cure it. I didn't cause it, I can't control it and I can't
cure it. I didn't cause it, I can't control it and I can't cure it. I
need to repeat and repeat this to myself in order to deal with my
powerful disease of codependency that actually makes me feel that I did
cause this disease, I can control it and I can cure it. When I get into
this trap I lose myself all over again. I get into fights that cannot
be won, I alienate others, I give away my power and I wind up feeling
terrible about myself. Today I will not try to do the impossible. I
will remember that my only job is to get better myself.
- Tian Dayton PhD
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
In light of your recovery, when
dealing with family and friends, you may have to make some unpopular
decisions and enforce them. Be open to moving toward the middle of
issues that don't com-promise your principles and going to any length
for those that do.
My recovery is Twelve Steps past any
lengths.
"Walk Softly and Carry a Big Book" - Book
Some people are so successful in AA
they turn out almost as good as they used to think they were when they
were drinking.
Time for Joy - Book - Quote
Today I am open to be touched by love,
by joy, by nature.
Today I put aside all the happiness
that I seek so that I can be free to experience the joy of this very
moment . . . right now.
Alkiespeak - Book - Quote
A definition of an alcoholic: A drunk
with a conscience. - Keith D
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AA Thought for the Day
August 26
Spirituality
Spirituality is an awakening -- or is
it all the loose ends woven together into a mellow fabric?
It's understanding -- or is it all the
knowledge one need ever to know?
It's freedom -- if you consider fear
slavery.
It's confidence -- or is it the belief
that a higher power will see you through any storm or gale?
It's adhering to the dictates of your
conscience -- or is it a deep, genuine, living concern for the people
and the planet?
It's peace of mind in the face of
adversity. It's a keen and sharpened desire for survival.
- Came To Believe, p. 5
Thought to Ponder . . .
Spirituality is the essence of being.
It can shape reality.
AA-related 'Alconym' . . .
K I S S = Keeping It Simple,
Spiritually.
~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
Change
"How many of us would presume to
declare,
'Well, I'm sober and I'm happy. What
more can I want or do?
I'm fine the way I am.'
We know that the price of such
self-satisfaction
is an inevitable backslide,
punctuated at some point by a very
rude awakening.
We have to grow or else deteriorate.
For us, the status quo can only be for
today,
never for tomorrow.
Change we must; we cannot stand still."
Bill W., AAGrapevine, February 1961
As Bill Sees It, p. 25
Thought to Consider . . .
There is no progress without change.
*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
P A C E = Positive Attitudes Change
Everything
*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*
Didn't Look Good
Tradition Five: Each group has but one
primary purpose - to carry its message to the alcoholic who still
suffers.
I was soon sitting beside a big hulk
of a man. Decidedly unfriendly, he stared at me out of eyes which were
slits in his
red and swollen face. I had to agree
with the doctor - he certainly didn't look good. But I told him my own
story. I
explained what a wonderful Fellowship
we had, how well we understood each other. I bore down hard on the
hopelessness of the drunk's dilemma. I
insisted that few drunks could ever get well on their own steam, but
that in our
groups we could do together what we
could not do separately. He interrupted to scoff at this and asserted
he'd fix his
wife, his partner, and his alcoholism
by himself.
1981, AAWS, Inc., Twelve Steps and
Twelve Traditions, page 152
*~*~*~*~*^ Grapevine Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"God has continued to send me many
miracles since the first one occurred the day he gave me the courage
and
willingness to go to my first AA
meeting."
Oak Park, Illinois, September 1984
"Powerless Equals Free,"
Spiritual Awakenings II
*~*~*~*~*^ Big Book & Twelve N'
Twelve Quotes of the Day ^*~*~*~*~*
"For the type of alcoholic who is able
and willing to get well,
little charity, in the ordinary sense
of the word, is needed or
wanted. The men who cry for money and
shelter before conquering
alcohol, are on the wrong track."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
Working With Others, pg. 97~
"Without knowing it, had we not been
brought to where we stood by a
certain kind of faith? For did we not
believe in our own reasoning?
Did we not have confidence in our
ability to think? What was that
but a sort of faith? Yes, we had been
faithful, abjectly faithful to
the God of Reason. So, in one way or
another, we discovered that
faith had been involved all the time!"
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, We
Agnostics, pg. 53~
“Love and tolerance of others is our
code.”
-Alcoholics Anonymous p. 84
“Almost any experienced A.A. will tell
how his affairs have taken remarkable and unexpected turns for the
better as he
tried to improve his conscious contact
with God.”
-Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions p.
104-105
Misc. AA Literature - Quote
'Self-pity is one of the most unhappy
and consuming defects that we know. It is a bar to all spiritual
progress and can
cut off all effective communication
with our fellows because of its inordinate demands for attention and
sympathy. It is
a maudlin form of martyrdom, which we
can ill afford.
'The remedy? Well, let's have a hard
look at ourselves, and a still harder one at A.A.'s Twelve Steps to
recovery. When
we see how many of our fellow A.A.'s
have used the Steps to transcend great pain and adversity, we shall be
inspired
to try these life-giving principles
for ourselves.
Prayer for the Day: God, we pray for faith and spiritual
courage to face our problems. Grant us wisdom to know our weakness and
strength to rebuild our lives. - From Stools & Bottles