BRINGING THE MESSAGE HOME
Can we bring the same spirit of love and tolerance into our
sometimes deranged family lives that we bring to our A.A. group?
TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS , pp. 111 -112
My family members suffer from the effects of my disease. Loving and
accepting them as they are - just as I love and accept A.A. members
- fosters a return of love, tolerance and harmony to my life. Using
common courtesy and respecting other's personal boundaries are
necessary practices for all areas of my life.
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
"We who have accepted the A.A. principles have been faced with the
necessity for a thorough personal housecleaning. We must face and
be rid of the things in ourselves that have been blocking us. We
therefore take a personal inventory. We take stock honestly. We
search out the flaws in our make-up that caused our failure.
Resentment is the number one offender. Life that includes deep
resentment leads only to futility and unhappiness. If we are to
live, we must be free of anger." Am I free of resentment and anger?
Meditation For The Day
Keep in mind the goal you are striving for, the good life you are
trying to attain. Do not let little things divert you from the
path. Do not be overcome by the small trials and vexations of each
day. Try to see the purpose and plan to which all is leading. if,
when climbing a mountain, you keep your eyes on each stony or
difficult place, how weary is your climb. But if you think of each
step as leading to the summit of achievement from which a glorious
landscape will open out before you, then your climb will be endurable
and you will achieve your goal.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may realize that life without a goal is futile.
I pray that I may find the good life worth striving for.
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As Bill Sees It
Freed
Prisoners, p. 234
Letter to a prison group:
"Every A.A. has been, in a sense, a prisoner. Each of us has
walled himself out of society; each has known social stigma. The
lot of you folks has been even more difficult: In your case, society
has also built a wall around you. But there isn't any really essential
difference, a fact that practically all A.A.'s now know.
"Therefore, when you members come into the world of A.A. on the
outside, you can be sure that no one will care a fig that you have
done time. What you are trying to be--not what you were--is all that
counts to us."
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Walk In Dry Places
Planning
for others.
Letting Go.
There are times when we think we see perfectly what others ought to be
doing. It pains and disturbs us when loved ones..... our children,
perhaps... do not heed our advice. In planning for others, we can
easily fall into the trap of enabling. An enabler is a person who
supports others in an unhealthy addiction or
dependency.
We must not plan the lives of others, no matter how dear they are to us
or how attached we become to them. They must have the freedom to live
without obligation or the belief that they could not have succeeded
without our help. Freedom of choice is a precious right that includes
the freedom to make
mistakes.
I'll release any tendency I have to plan for others. At all times, my
responsibility is to keep on the right track and let others
be free.
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Keep It Simple
Where there is no vision, a people perish.---Ralph Waldo Emerson
Working our program teaches us to see things more clearly. We learn to
look at who we really are. At first, we’re scared to see ourselves. But
it turns out okay, even though were not perfect.
We also begin to see others more clearly. We see good in people we
don’t
like. And we see faults in people we thought we’re prefect. But we
don’t
judge people anymore. Nobody is perfect. Just as our program friends
accept us as we are, we learn to accept others.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, sometimes I don’t like what I
see. Help me to believe Your
way will for me. Help me have a vision.
Action for the Day: I will use my new way of seeing thing to
avoid trouble today.
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Each Day a New Beginning
Were our knowledge of human relationships a hundredfold more reliable
than it is now, it would still be foolish to seek ready-made solutions
for problems of living in the index of a book. --Mirra Komarovsky
The problems each of us experience have within their own parameters the
solutions most fitting. And we each must discover those solutions,
understand their appropriateness, and absorb them into the body of
information that defines who we are and who we are becoming.
We learn experientially because only then is our reality significantly
affected. Others' experiences are helpful to our growth and affirm how
similar is our pain, but each of us must make our own choices, take
responsible action in our own behalf.
How fortunate that we are now in a position to make healthy decisions
about our relationships! No longer the victim, we have the personal
power to choose how we want to spend our time and with whom. Through
active participation in all our relationships, we can discover many of
the hidden elements in our own natures and develop more fully all the
characteristics unique to our personhood. Our growth as recovering
women is enhanced in proportion to our sincere involvement within the
relationships we've chosen.
I can inform myself about who I am within my relationships. Therein lie
the solutions to my problems.
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
Chapter 7 - WORKING
WITH OTHERS
Many of us keep liquor in our homes. We often need it to carry green
recruits through a severe hangover. Some of us still serve it to our
friends provided they are not alcoholic. But some of us think we should
not serve liquor to anyone. We never argue this question. We feel that
each family, in the light of their own circumstances, ought to decide
for themselves.
pp. 102-103
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition Stories
WINDOW OF OPPORTUNITY -
This young alcoholic stepped out a second-story window and into A.A.
I went to a college filled with
poeple who had also spent their entire lives at or near the top of
their academic classes. Suddenly, I was no longer special.
To make matters worse, many of them had what I only dreamed
of---money. My family was strictly working class, struggling to
get by on what my father earned. Money had always been a big
issue, and I equated it with security, prestige, and worth. My
father was fond of saying that the sole prupose of life is to make
money. I had classmates whose names were household words that
connoted wealth. I was ashamed, ashamed of my family and of
myself. My shaky confidence crumbled. I was terrifed of
being found out. I knew that if others discovered who I really
was, they wouldn't like me and I would be left alone, worthless and
alone.
pp. 422-423
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Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Tradition Six - "An A.A.
group ought never endorse, finance, or lend the A.A. name to any
related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money,
property, and prestige divert us from our primary purpose."
These adventures implanted a deep-rooted conviction that in no
circumstances could we endorse any related enterprise, no matter how
good. We of Alcoholics Anonymous could not be all things to all men,
nor should we try.
p. 157
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Action
may
not
always
bring
happiness;
but
there is no happiness
without action.
--Benjamin Disraeli
Even if you are on the right track, you'll get run over if you just
sit there.
--Will Rogers
First keep the peace within yourself, then you can also bring peace to
others.
--Thomas A. Kempis
There is only one you for all time. Fearlessly be yourself.
--Anthony Rapp
I can repeat the past, or I can create new and better experiences.
--Shelley
Today I will take enough time to do something good for myself only.
I will buy myself a gift or spend worthwhile time doing something
pleasant and fulfilling. I have enough time today and I deserve this
time for myself.
--Ruth Fishel
"Children stand more in need of example than criticism."
--Joseph Joubert
What is not love is fear. Anger is one of fear's most potent faces.
And it does exactly what fear wants it to do. It keeps us from
receiving love at exactly the moment when we need it most.
-- Marianne Williamson
The spiritual path is not one of attainment, but return.
--Alan Cohen
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
CONFIDENCE
"There is no sort of work that
could ever be done well if you
minded what fools say."
-- George Eliot
Part of the risk in my recovery is arousing the displeasure of others. I
know that I cannot please all the people --- and yet my disease tells me
that I must! For years I missed life's opportunities because I listened
to negative and frightened people. Today I choose to shout my "yes"
to life, and I ignore the fools. The fools are rarely friends. Rather,
they seek to keep me in the same prison as themselves. If they truly
loved me, they would encourage me to be imaginative and creative.
Today I have a joyride "letting go and letting God" because God is a
great risk-taker!
I pray that I may always listen to the advice of others, but never miss
my power of decision.
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The
Lord watches over you.....
The Lord is your shade at your right hand.
Psalm 121 : 5
"Judge not according to the appearance."
John 7: 24
"Restore to me the joy of your salvation, and sustain in me a willing
spirit."
Psalm 51:12
"No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives
in us and his love is made complete in us."
I John 4:12
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Daily Inspiration
Life has a way of working itself out if you simply make the best of
this moment, one moment at a time. Lord, You have given me this moment.
Grant me the wisdom to live it in a way that will make a difference for
me and for those around me.
No one has ever asked of God and not received an answer. Lord, bless me
with quiet resolve to hear You and wisdom to accept Your Will.
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NA Just For Today
Decision Making
"Before we got clean, most of our
actions were guided by impulse. Today, we are not locked into this type
of thinking."
Basic Text p. 87
Life is a series of decisions,
actions, and consequences. When we were using, our decisions were
usually driven by our disease, resulting in self-destructive actions
and dire consequences. We came to see decision making as a rigged game,
one we should play as little as possible.
Given that, many of us have great
difficulty learning to make decisions in recovery. Slowly, by working
the Twelve Steps, we gain practice in making healthy decisions, ones
that give positive results. Where our disease once affected our will
and our lives, we ask our Higher Power to care for us. We inventory our
values and our actions, check our findings with someone we trust, and
ask the God of our understanding to remove our shortcomings. In working
the steps we gain freedom from the influence of our disease, and we
learn principles of decision making that can guide us in all our
affairs.
Today, our decisions and their
consequences need not be influenced by our disease. Our faith gives us
the courage and direction to make good decisions and the strength to
act on them. The result of that kind of decision making is a life worth
living.
Just for today: I will use the
principles of the Twelve Steps to make healthy decisions. I will ask my
Higher Power for the strength to act on those decisions.
pg. 245
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You are reading from the book Today's
Gift.
Whenever you fall, pick something up.
--Oswald Avery
There was once a very active boy who
fell and broke his leg. He could run again in the spring, the doctors
said, but only if he stayed in bed for an entire month and kept his leg
still. At first the boy fought the rule, but he found that the more he
thought about things he couldn't do, the more tired and angry he felt.
His parents put in a phone by his bed
and friends called every day. He'd never much liked talking on the
phone, but he felt better when they called. He wrote letters and got
replies, and was surprised at what fun it was. Usually, he didn't have
time to write letters.
He learned to play chess and began to
enjoy reading. His days were slower and quieter than he'd been used to,
but he learned a month really isn't a very long time. When spring came,
he was running again, a little more joyfully than before.
When we can learn to accept our
troubles, we find, like the boy, that they are just packages in which
new growth and discoveries are wrapped.
If something unexpected slows me down
today, what joys might I find at the slower pace?
You are reading from the book
Touchstones.
Just because a man lacks the use of
his eyes doesn't mean he lacks vision. --Stevie Wonder
It has been easy for many of us to
meet our limitations with self-pity. Maybe we think being a real man
means always being strong, capable, good looking, and in charge. If we
have a handicap, like blindness or a learning disability, we may have
thought we were less masculine or less worthy.
All of us have handicaps. Some are
greater than others, and some are more visible than others. These
handicaps confront us with our powerlessness. We do not find our finest
human qualities until we have met our limitations and accepted them. A
new side of our strength develops when we accept our powerlessness and
yield to it rather than trying to take charge of it. We develop greater
vision when we stop feeling sorry for ourselves about our handicap and
surrender to its truth. We then see our kinship with all men and women
who struggle with their limitations.
Today, I will set aside self-pity and
remember to be grateful for the lessons my limitations have taught me.
You are reading from the book Each Day
a New Beginning.
Were our knowledge of human
relationships a hundredfold more reliable than it is now, it would
still be foolish to seek ready-made solutions for problems of living in
the index of a book. --Mirra Komarovsky
The problems each of us experience
have within their own parameters the solutions most fitting. And we
each must discover those solutions, understand their appropriateness,
and absorb them into the body of information that defines who we are
and who we are becoming.
We learn experientially because only
then is our reality significantly affected. Others' experiences are
helpful to our growth and affirm how similar is our pain, but each of
us must make our own choices, take responsible action in our own behalf.
How fortunate that we are now in a
position to make healthy decisions about our relationships! No longer
the victim, we have the personal power to choose how we want to spend
our time and with whom. Through active participation in all our
relationships, we can discover many of the hidden elements in our own
natures and develop more fully all the characteristics unique to our
personhood. Our growth as recovering women is enhanced in proportion to
our sincere involvement within the relationships we've chosen.
I can inform myself about who I am
within my relationships. Therein lie the solutions to my problems.
You are reading from the book The
Language of Letting Go.
Self Care
When will we become lovable? When will
we feel safe? When will we get all the protection, nurturing, and love
we so richly deserve? We will get it when we begin giving it to
ourselves. --Beyond Codependency
The idea of giving ourselves what we
want and need can be confusing, especially if we have spent many years
not knowing that it's okay to take care of ourselves. Taking our energy
and focus off others and their responsibilities and placing that energy
on to our responsibilities and ourselves is a recovery behavior that
can be acquired. We learn it by daily practice.
We begin by relaxing, by breathing
deeply, and letting go of our fears enough to feel as peaceful as we
can. Then, we ask ourselves: What do I need to do to take care of
myself today, or for this moment?
What do I need and want to do?
What would demonstrate love and
self-responsibility?
Am I caught up in the belief that
others are responsible for making me happy, responsible for me? Then
the first thing I need to do is correct my belief system. I am
responsible for myself.
Do I feel anxious and concerned about
a responsibility I've been neglecting? Then perhaps I need to let go of
my fears and tend to that responsibility.
Do I feel overwhelmed, out of control?
Maybe I need to journey back to the first of the Twelve Steps.
Have I been working too hard? Maybe
what I need to do is take some time off and do something fun.
Have I been neglecting my work on
daily tasks? Then maybe what I need to do is get back to my routine.
There is no recipe, no formula, no
guidebook for self care. We each have a guide, and that guide is within
us. We need to ask the question: What do I need to do to take loving,
responsible care of myself? Then, we need to listen to the answer.
Self-care is not that difficult. The most challenging part is trusting
the answer, and having the courage to follow through once we hear it.
Today, I will focus on taking care of
myself. I will trust myself and my Higher Power to guide me in this
process.
Everywhere I turn I know I am being
supported by powerful, positive energy. I am finding love and support
wherever I go. --Ruth Fishel
*****
Journey to the Heart
The Spiritual Experience Is You
"When I look at people now, I don't
see issues," he said. "I see souls."
The man said he had a spiritual
experience. Actually, he said he had four. He didn't go to the
mountains, or the ocean, or the desert to have them. He had his four
spiritual experiences in the same place-- in the parking lot outside a
Shell gas station in Portland, Oregon. "The car filled with light. My
heart just opened up and I forgave everyone I was resenting," he
continued. "Even my ex-wife."
We don't have to search for spiritual
experiences. We are the spiritual experience-- a spiritual being having
a human life. Look at the people around you. Now look again and see
souls. See them having many kinds of spiritual experiences in the form
of human life.
When you look for holy ground, look
down. That's where your spiritual experience takes place. Right where
you're standing, wherever you are now.
*****
more language of letting go
Celebrate the gift of friendship
Celebrate the gift of friendship.
Get a piece of paper and a pen. Now
write down:
1. The name of a good friend.
2. A lesson that you have learned from
him or her.
3. Something about the friend that
makes you smile.
4. Your friends favorite meal. (This
might take a little research.)
5. An activity that he or she enjoys.
Now, pick up the phone. Call your
friend and invite him or her to a celebration with you. Do the activity
that he or she enjoys: go for a walk, go to a ballgame, sit at home and
watch videos, whatever this person likes to do best. Than prepare your
friend's favorite meal or take your friend out to eat at the restaurant
he or she likes best. Tell your friend specifically, and from your
heart, the lesson he or she helped you learn.
Then tell your friend what he or she
does that makes you smile. Tell your friend the things that you
genuinely appreciate about her or him-- those things that make your
friend uniquely who she or he is.
Friendship is another important gift
from God. Don't just tell your friends how much they mean in your life.
Show your friends how much you care with an act of gratitude.
God, thank you for making each of us
unique. Thank you for my friends.
*****
Disapproving Faces
Not Everybody Will Like You by Madisyn Taylor
Not everybody we meet will like us and
it is ok to move into acceptance rather than trying to make somebody
like you.
It is not necessarily a pleasant
experience, but there will be times in our lives when we come across
people who do not like us. As we know, like attracts like, so usually
when they don’t like us it is because they are not like us. Rather than
taking it personally, we can let them be who they are, accepting that
each of us is allowed to have different perspectives and opinions. When
we give others that freedom, we claim it for ourselves as well,
releasing ourselves from the need for their approval so we can devote
our energy toward more rewarding pursuits.
While approval from others is a nice
feeling, when we come to depend on it we may lose our way on our own
path. There are those who will not like us no matter what we do, but
that doesn’t mean that there is anything wrong with us. Each of us has
our own filters built from our experiences over time. They may see in
us something that is merely a projection of their understanding, but we
have no control over the interpretations of others. The best we can do
is to hope that the role we play in the script of their lives is
helpful to them, and follow our own inner guidance with integrity.
As we reap the benefits of walking our
perfect paths, we grow to appreciate the feeling of fully being
ourselves. The need to have everyone like us will be replaced by the
exhilaration of discovering that we are attracting like-minded
individuals into our lives—people who like us because they understand
and appreciate the truth of who we are. We free ourselves from trying
to twist into shapes that will fit the spaces provided by others’
limited understanding and gain a new sense of freedom, allowing us to
expand into becoming exactly who we’re meant to be. And in doing what
we know to be right for us, we show others that they can do it too.
Cocreating our lives with the universe and its energy of pure
potential, we transcend limitations and empower ourselves to shine our
unique light, fully and freely. Published with permission from Daily OM
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A Day At A Time
Reflection For The Day
I heard someone in The Program once
read, “Burn the idea into the consciousness of every man that he can
get well, regardless of anyone. The only condition is that he trust in
God and clean house.” That is what Step Seven means to me – that I’m
going to clean house and will have all the help I need. Do I realize,
by taking the Seventh Step, that I’m not really giving up a thing, but,
instead, getting rid of whatever might lead me back to my addiction and
away from the peace of mind?
Today I Pray
May I know that if I should give up
that key word “humbly,” which combines all in one — my humility, my
awe, my faith, I would once again be taking too much on my shoulders
and assuming that the Power in my own. May God in His wisdom make His
will mine, His strength mine, His goodness mine. As He fills me with
these Divine gifts, there can be little space left in me for looming
defects.
Today I Will Remember
Trust in God and clean house.
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One More Day
So never let a cloudy day ruin your
sunshine, for even if you can’t see it, the sunshine is still there,
inside of you, ready to shine when you will let it.
– Amy Michelle Pitzele
Amazing words of wisdom sometimes
spring from the mouths of children. This wrote these words, which are
the last stanza of a poem about understanding change. Life seen through
the eyes of a child can be serenely simplistic. Where does a child get
that kind of wisdom and that depth of understanding?
We can struggle to keep the child in
us alive. We, too, can recognize that even when the cloudy days come,
the sunshine is still there, ready to beam at a moment’s notice.
Today, my own personal sun will shine
within me, no matter what the weather is outside.
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Food For Thought
Envy
When my inside looked at your outside,
I overate. Envy of what others seemed to be and of the possessions they
had was a prime trigger for overeating, turning to food to compensate
for an apparent lack. No amount of food can satisfy envy.
Why is it that the other person seems
so much more fortunate, or talented, or happier than we? We are
painfully aware of our own inadequacies and quick to envy whoever
appears to “have it together.” Looking at the outside image or mask is
deceptive, however, and prevents us from seeing that underneath is a
fellow human being beset with problems and difficulties just as we are.
Who we are, where we are, and what we
have is God’s gift to us. What we do with ourselves is our gift to God.
The more we seek to do His will, the less we envy our neighbor’s
abilities and possessions. The peace of mind we receive through this
program fills us with such gratitude that there is increasingly less
room for envy.
Take away my envy, I pray.
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One Day At A Time
FAILURE
“Accept that all of us can be hurt,
that all of us can – and surely will
at times – fail.
Other vulnerabilities, like being
embarrassed
or risking love, can be terrifying,
too.”
Dr. Joyce Brothers
The prospect of failing ~ or worse
yet, “ Being A Failure” ~ was a crippling monster which held me in its
cold and unforgiving stranglehold. If I thought I could not do a thing
perfectly, I would not do it at all. If I didn’t know the “Right” way
to act or to be, I was paralyzed. One day my therapist shocked me by
suggesting I make a mistake on purpose. She wanted me to practice
giving myself permission to make mistakes and to survive the experience.
I vividly recall intentionally
dropping a gum wrapper on the ground and leaving it there. The Fearful
Perfectionist inside of me screamed, “Pick it up! You never litter!
This is wrong!” Yet I also heard a whisper welling up from within: “It
will be alright. Just let it go.”
As part of my Recovery, I am exploring
with brutal honesty the mistakes I’ve made in my life: the ways and the
people that I’ve failed. Though doing so is embarrassing, humbling, and
frightening, I am surprised to find a budding sense of relief. My
attempts to avoid Failure never made me Perfect; rather, they caused me
to be more entrenched in my pride, insecurities, fears, and stunted
growth. A young girl I know is an expert skater. I asked her how she
learned, and her answer stopped me in my tracks: “Mostly by falling
down.”
One day at a time...
I will practice accepting my failures
as necessary steps towards my healing. I will remember that the word
“practice” honors the fact that we gain our progress by making
attempts, failing, and learning from our mistakes.
~ Lisa V.
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AA 'Big Book' - Quote
We reviewed our fears thoroughly. We
put them on paper, even though we had no resentment in connection with
them. We asked ourselves why we had them. Wasn't it because
self-reliance failed us? Self-reliance was good as far as it went, but
it didn't go far enough. Some of us once had great self-confidence, but
it didn't fully solve the fear problem, or any other. When it made us
cocky, it was worse. - Pg. 68 - How It Works
Hour To Hour - Book - Quote
If someone on the program talks rather
harshly to you, it is because they too have been where you are. They
will not pity you because pity leads to self-pity which leads to
mind-affecting chemicals. Sometimes reality is harsh, and we won't hide
that from you in our program.
When another in the program is harsh
with me, help me to see the love behind the harshness, the reality
behind my pain.
Shifting Helplessness to Powerlessness
Today I will allow my feelings of
helplessness that I cannot help to shift to a powerlessness that I
choose. Powerlessness leaves room for spiritual awakening. Helplessness
is part of trauma. When I allow myself to shift into powerlessness, I
make a profound move inward and upward. The helplessness that I carry
from the disease, that feeling that nothing I can do will make a
difference, transforms into a spiritual recognition and I can let go
and let God in. I can stop being Cysifus pushing the same rock up the
same mountain. I can step out from under the disease.
- Tian Dayton PhD
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
The birth of resentment is blame.
Often from the center of your bad feelings you seek someone to blame
and yet if you 'find' this someone, it can only serve to increase your
misery. Blame increases misery because it gives you something to focus
on again and again. 'Resentment' is from Latin, meaning to 'feel
again.'
By eliminating blame, I don't allow
'them' to live rent free in my head.
"Walk Softly and Carry a Big Book" - Book
What would my Higher Power do?
Time for Joy - Book - Quote
Everywhere I turn I know that I am
being supported by a powerful, positive energy. I am finding love and
support wherever I go.
Alkiespeak - Book - Quote
He said 'If you'll repeat sober what
you said last night, I'll leave you and never bother you again. I said
I'd do that on one condition: That he tell me what I said last night. -
Anon.
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AA Thought for the Day
August 23
Serenity
That word "serenity" looked like an
impossible goal when we first saw the prayer.
In fact, if serenity meant apathy,
bitter resignation, or stolid endurance, then we didn't even want to
aim at it.
But we found that serenity meant no
such thing. . .
Serenity is like a gyroscope that lets
us keep our balance no matter what turbulence swirls around us.
And that is a state of mind worth
aiming for.
- Living Sober, p. 19
Thought to Ponder . . .
Serenity is not the absence of
conflict but the ability to cope with it.
AA-related 'Alconym' . . .
K I S S = Keep It Serenely Simple.
~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
Solution
"There is a solution.
Almost none of us liked the
self-searching, the leveling
of our pride, the confessions of
shortcomings
which the process requires for its
successful
consummation.
But we saw that it really worked in
others,
and we had come to believe in the
hopelessness and futility of life as
we had been living it.
When, therefore, we were approached by
those
in whom the problem had been solved,
there was nothing left for us but to
pick up
the simple kit of spiritual tools laid
at our feet.
We have found much of heaven
and we have been rocketed into a
fourth dimension
of existence of which we had not even
dreamed."
1976AAWS, Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 25
Thought to Consider . . .
The solution is simple.
The solution is spiritual.
*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
H O P E = Heart Open; Please Enter.
*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*
Serenity
>From "Happiness":
"The second tenet of the Serenity
Prayer is too frequently slurred over. I am constantly amazed at the
number of so-called obstacles I have overcome after giving them a
second look, mustering what meager resources I have, then taking the
hoe in hand.
"Serenity to me, therefore, is the
absence of insoluble conflict. And it is up to me first to determine
whether, after an honest look at myself, I can cope with the problem,
then to decide whether it is to be tackled, passed over to another day,
or dismissed forever. "New Hartford, New York, USA"
1973 AAWS, Inc.; Came to Believe, 30th
printing 2004, pg. 111
*~*~*~*~*^ Grapevine Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"It surely may be said that the future
looks bright. Much more hospitalization, based on the certainty that we
are a sick people and that plenty can be done about it, is now on the
way. We ought gratefully to acknowledge the work of those agencies
outside AA who are strenuously helping this life-redeeming trend
along."
AA Co-Founder, Bill W., May 1947
"Adequate Hospitalization: One Great
Need"
The Language of the Heart
*~*~*~*~*^ Big Book & Twelve N'
Twelve Quotes of the Day ^*~*~*~*~*
"On awakening let us think about the
twenty-four hours ahead. We
consider our plans for the day. Before
we begin, we ask God to
direct our thinking, especially asking
that it be divorced from self-
pity, dishonest or self-seeking
motives. Under these conditions we
can employ our mental faculties with
assurance, for after all God
gave us brains to use. Our
thought-life will be placed on a much
higher plane when our thinking is
cleared of wrong motives."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
Into Action, pg. 86~
"Besides a seeming inability to accept
much on faith, we often found
ourselves handicapped by obstinacy,
sensitiveness, and unreasoning
prejudice. Many of us have been so
touchy that even casual reference
to spiritual things make us bristle
with antagonism. This sort of
thinking had to be abandoned. Though
some of us resisted, we found
no great difficulty in casting aside
such feelings. Faced with
alcoholic destruction, we soon became
as open minded on spiritual
matters as we had tried to be on other
questions. In this respect
alcohol was a great persuader. It
finally beat us into a state of
reasonableness."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, We
Agnostics, pg. 47~
“We alcoholics are undisciplined. So
we let God discipline us in the simple way we have just outlined.”
-Alcoholics Anonymous p. 88
“So, practicing these Steps, we had a
spiritual awakening about which finally there was no question.”
-Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions p.
109
Misc. AA Literature - Quote
Any number of A.A.'s can say, 'We were
diverted from our childhood faith. As material success began to come,
we felt we were winning at the game of life. This was exhilarating, and
it made us happy.
'Why should we be bothered with
theological abstractions and religious duties, or with the state of our
souls, here or hereafter? The will to win should carry us through.
'But then alcohol began to have its
way with us. Finally, when all our score cards read 'zero,' and we saw
that one more strike would put us out of the game forever, we had to
look for our lost faith. It was in A.A. that we rediscovered it.
Prayer for the Day: Dear Heavenly Father, Where I have done
wrong, help me do right. I have done enough harm, and I ask Your help,
so that I may do no more. I'll need more courage than I've got, help me
be strong. I've been selfish, help me be selfless. Come what may, help
me bear it. As I have in past harmed completely, help me to finish
this, completely. I have been willful and hurtful; please grant me
humility and humanity. Lord, help me be better. Better for You. Amen.